Izinto ezi-7 Wonke umntu ekufuneka aziqonde malunga nePansexuality

Kutshanje, umfundi wam, ochonga njenge-pansexual, ubuze ukuba kutheni kusekho ukungaqondani okunje ngesini. Yinyani. Uphando lwam kunye nophando lwabanye luqinisekisa ukungaqondani okuqhubekayo. Njengokuba abantu abaninzi bechonga esidlangalaleni njenge-pansexual, yeyiphi i-pansexuality eqhubeka nokuvelisa ukudideka phakathi kwabantu ngokubanzi.

Eyona nto iyenza nzima nangakumbi le ngxaki bubutyebi beentsomi nobuxoki obuhamba nekota leyo. Masiqale apho, kunye nenkcazo yesini kunye nokujongana neentsomi ezihlasela inkcazo. I-Pansexuality luqhelwano ngokwesondo apho umntu anakho ukuba nesondo, imvakalelo, okanye ukuthandana nomtsalane kwabanye ngaphandle kwesini sabo okanye isini. Leyo yeyona nkcazo ilula. Ndiza kuyandisa le ngcamango ngokuqokelela iintsomi.

INKOLELO 1: Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo bahenyuza ngesondo. Baza kulala nabani na.

Ubuxoki. Kungenxa yokuba unamandla okutsala nawokwabelana ngesondo kuye nakubani na ngaphandle kwesini okanye isini sakho, leyo yindlela ende ekuthiwa are utsaleleke kuye wonke umntu kwaye uya kulala naye nabani na. Kuya kufana nokuthi umfazi owabelana ngesondo ufuna ukulala naye konke amadoda. Kwasekuqaleni, yinto ehlekisayo, kwaye endaweni yoko iyathuka, umbono.

UBUXOKI 2: Ukulalana kwabantu abangatshatanga ayisiyonto yokwenyani.

Ubuxoki. Ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokuba ubufanasini buyinto yokwenene, abo bachonga njenge-pansexual bamkela ubungqini besazisi sabo.

UBUXOKI 3: Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye kufuneka "bakhethe icala" kwaye banamathele kulo.

Akunjalo. Kwaye bangakhetha kweliphi icala? Pan livela kwelesiGrike elithetha ukuthi “konke.” Njengoko "konke" kubhekisa kuzo zonke izazisi zesini, akukho cala. Ukuba ucebisa ukuba kufuneka bakhethe isini esinye okanye isini njengeyona nto inomtsalane kubo - kwakhona-hayi, abenzi njalo.

UBUXOKI 4: Ubufanasini yinto entsha. Yindlela nje yamva nje.

Ubuxoki. Igama "pansexual" sele likho ngaphezulu kwenkulungwane. Iqela laqulunqwa ekuqaleni nguFreud, kodwa ngentsingiselo eyahlukileyo. UFreud wasebenzisa i-pansexuality ukuba abonise indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesini. Ixesha liguquliwe kwaye lahlonitshwa ngaphezulu kwamashumi eminyaka ukuya kwintsingiselo yangoku esiyabela yona.

UBUXOKI 5: Ubungqingili bufana nobungqingili.

Ubuxoki. Ukwenza umahluko phakathi kwezi zimbini kubalulekile. Ngelixa kukho ubunzima kuloo mahluko, ndiza kuzama ukwenza lula apha kwaye ndijongane neminye imicimbi ngelinye ixesha. Ubundlobongela babukade buthathwa njengokuziphatha ngokwesini apho umntu wayenamandla okutsala ngokwesini kubo bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini. Oku akusekho kwimeko yokuba siyaqonda ukuba isini asiyonto yokubini. Kuchanekile ngakumbi ukuthi abantu abathandanayo banomtsalane kwisini sabo kunye nesini (okanye ngaphezulu kwesinye isini). Ukuthandana kwabantu besini esahlukileyo, kwelinye icala, ayisiyiyo yonke into ebandakanya isini kunye nesazisi, kodwa abantu abatshatileyo nabo banomdla kwabanye ngaphandle kwesini sabo kunye nokuchazwa kwesini. Ngamanye amagama, bathatha isini kunye nesini ngaphandle kwe-equation ngokupheleleyo. Abanye abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye baye bamkela ibinzana elithi "Iintliziyo ezingezizo iiNxalenye" ​​ukubonisa amandla abo okuba nomtsalane ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukuthandana nothile ngaphandle kwesini okanye isini. Ukucoca enye into edidayo phakathi kwezi ndlela zibini zesini, kuhlala kubuzwa ukuba ukuba neentlobano zesini kubandakanya umtsalane kwisini sakho kwaye, ngokunokwenzeka, uninzi lwabesini esinye, akufani na nobungqingili? Hayi. Ngamafutshane, ezininzi ayifani ne konke .

UBUXOKI 6: I-Pansexourse ayinakonwaba nomntu omnye.

Ubuxoki. Kufana nobuxoki bokuziphatha kakubi. Kungenxa yokuba umntu unesakhono sokutsala nawuphina umntu nokuba ungubani na, ayithethi ukuba banomdla kuye wonke umntu okanye bafuna ukuba kunye nawo wonke umntu. I-Pansexourse inomdla ofanayo wokutshata nomntu omnye okanye i-polyamory njengaye nabani na.

UBUXOKI 7: I-Pansexourse ididekile malunga nokukhetha kwabo.

Ubuxoki. Kungenxa yokuba ukhetho lwabo lunokubandakanya ngakumbi, oko akuthethi ukuba abazi ukuba bafuna ntoni okanye banomdla kubani.

Kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zezazisi ngokwesini kunye nokuqhelana nokwabelana ngesondo apho abantu banokukhetha khona ukuze bazichaze kakuhle. Ezinye zezi zinto zichongiweyo ziqhelekile (i-LGBT), ngelixa ezinye zingaqhelekanga kodwa zihlala zivela (ubufanasini). Ezo zingaqhelekanga kakhulu, ezinjengokulalana kwabantu besini esinye (apho ubukrelekrele buyimfuneko ekutsaleni isini) okanye ubundlobongela (apho ukunamathela ngokweemvakalelo kuyimfuneko ekutsaleni isini), zihlala zixakwe kukungaqondani ngenxa yobuxoki obusasazeke ngokubanzi obuhlasela ezinye iilebhile ezichazayo, kubandakanya ubufanasini.

Phambi kokubuza ubunyani bokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo okanye ukwamkela ngokulula amabango omrhanelwa, yenza umzamo wokuzifundisa kuluhlu olude lwezazisi ze-LGBTQIA. Ngcono nangoku, xa udibana nomntu ebanga enye yezo zazisi, bamamele. Banike ithuba lokuba bakufundise ngokuchaza ukuba bangobani. Ayizukuvumela umzamo ukuvumela ukuba ubazi ngcono abantu abakungqongileyo, kodwa ulwazi lusebenzela ukunciphisa ukubekwa ibala, ucalucalulo kunye nocalucalulo oluchaphazela kakubi abantu abakwi-LGBTQIA + kuluntu.

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