Ngaba Usebenzisa Ixesha Lakho Ngobulumko?

Umxholo

• Amanqaku aphambili
• Ixesha lixabisekile
• Iindlela ezintandathu zokusebenzisa lonke ixesha lakho

Amanqaku aphambili

• Uninzi lwethu aluphili ngokungathi ixesha lethu lilinganiselwe, kwaye ke ngoko sichitha ixesha elininzi.
• Iindlela zokusebenzisa ngcono ixesha zibandakanya ukucacisa into ebalulekileyo nokwenza rhoqo izinto ngaphandle kwesiqhelo somntu.
• Ukujolisa kwangexesha ngokucokisekileyo kunokunceda ukuveza izipho ezikuwo wonke umzuzu.

Ixesha. Ayikwazi ukwandisa okanye ikhontrakthi. Ufumana inani elifanayo yonke imihla. Iyaxelwa kwangaphambili, namaxesha acwangcisiweyo okuphuma nokutshona kwelanga. Ungaseta iwotshi emva koko uye phambili, kuxhomekeke apho uhlala khona, kabini ngonyaka. Inqaku leli, ixesha yenye yezinto ezimbalwa ezinokuqikelelwa ebomini, kwaye sisilinganisi esikhulu. Akukho mntu ufumana ngaphezulu ngosuku kunaye nabani na; ayinamsebenzi ukuba unemali engakanani okanye unefuthe elingakanani, iyafana kuye wonke umntu.

Umcimbi yile nto ukhetha ukuyenza ngexesha. Kwaye ucinga ukuba unganakho ngaphezulu kunakho ebomini bakho - unokukhetha ukuyichitha kakhulu. Unokwenza ntoni ukuba umntu ebekunike i- $ 86,400 njengesipho? Ngaba ungacinga ixesha elide kwaye kunzima malunga nendlela oza kuyisebenzisa ngayo loo mali, kwaye loluphi ulonwabo okanye izinto ezibalulekileyo onokuzenza ngayo? Lelo linani lemizuzwana esinikwa yona yonke imihla. Kodwa ngaba uvuka kusasa kwaye ucinge malunga nezinto ezibalulekileyo nezibalulekileyo oza kuzenza ngomzuzwana ngamnye? Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abenzayo.

Ixesha lixabisekile

Ukuba wakha wanaye umntu osenyongweni kuwe, umhlobo okanye umntu omthandayo, oye wanikwa uxilongo olunzima, uyazi umahluko omangalisayo xa umntu eqonda ukuba abanakuba nexesha abalithembileyo kobu bomi. Ngequbuliso, ixesha libaluleke kakhulu, kwaye ukulisebenzisa kakhulu kubaluleke kakhulu.

Uninzi lwabantu aluphili ngokungathi ixesha lixabisekile. Bahlala ngathi ngomso lolunye usuku, ke baya kufika kuyo nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo kubo, emva koko. Umzuzu ngamnye, iyure nganye, kunye nosuku ngalunye yinto ebalulekileyo, kwaye isenokuba lixesha lokuba uqwalasele indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo into oyinikiweyo.

Ubomi buxakekile. Iintsapho zifuna ngenkani. Umsebenzi mde kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unzima kakhulu. Usenokuba udiniwe xa ugqiba usuku lwakho lomsebenzi, yenza abantwana bakho balale, kwaye uphendule kunxibelelwano oluthile lomntu. Usenokuba nesithukuthezi kwaye ungasebenzisi ixesha olinikiweyo, ucinga ukuba alupheli, kunjalo, ithini into?

Iindlela ezintandathu zokusebenzisa lonke ixesha lakho

Qala ukucinga "ngesipho" sakho semizuzwana engama-86,400 suku ngalunye. Zisebenzise ngobulumko yonke imihla. Nantsi into onokuyenza, ngakumbi ukuba uxakekile kwaye ixesha libonakala ngathi liyanyamalala:

1. Chaza into oyithandayo. Kuya kufuneka uziphilise, uhlawule amatyala, unakekele usapho lwakho okanye abahlobo bakho abasweleyo, ugqibe iphepha elilungiselelwe iklasi kwaye upheke ukutya kwakho. Kukho izinto ezithile ezingenakuthethathethana, kodwa ngelixa usenza zonke ezi zinto "une-to", jonga into oyithandayo. Ngaba uyafuna ukonwabela inkqubo? Ngaba ufuna ukuziphucula? Ngaba uyafuna ukufunda into entsha? Ngaba uyafuna ukufumana ukuqonda okanye usebenzise ixesha ozenzayo ezi zinto ukuze unxibelelane nesiqu sakho sangaphakathi? Inqaku kukuba yonke imisebenzi ebomini ikunika ithuba lokuba ube nentsingiselo enzulu ukuba ubeka kuqala into obungathanda ukuba yiyo.
2. Yenza into eyaphula isingqisho esiqhelekileyo (ngamanye amaxesha sithathwa njenge “monotony”). Fowunela umhlobo ongakhange uthethe naye okwethutyana. Thatha uhambo kwindawo emnandi. Cwangcisa uhambo nokuba awuzukuluthatha okwethutyana. Jonga kwimifanekiso yendawo okanye yabantu abenza ukonwaba. Ukophula indlela yakho yesiqhelo kuthabatha ubuchopho bakho kwimowudi yendlela kwaye kukunceda ucinge kwakhona.
3. Yenza izinto ngengqondo. Yitya kancinci. Yonwabela incasa nevumba lokutya kwakho. Hamba kancinci kwaye ujonge ukuziva komhlaba phantsi kweenyawo zakho okanye umoya kulusu lwakho. Khumbula xa uthetha. Mamela kakuhle xa abanye bethetha nawe. Zicothise amaxesha amaninzi ngalo lonke usuku ukuba wenze ngabom kwaye unikele ingqalelo kwinto eyenzeka kuwe.
4. Yima kwaye uphefumle ngamaxesha athile imini yonke. Thatha umoya ophefumlayo ungene ngeempumlo, khupha umphunga ngomlomo wakho. Nxibelelana nokuphefumla kwakho. Gxila kummangaliso wokuphefumla. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ucinge ngayo, ukanti ikugcina uqhubeka yonke imini. Beka ingqalelo yakho kuyo.
5. Yiba ngumcwangcisi. Ukuba ixesha liyakuphepha, qala ukwazi ngakumbi ukuba ulisebenzisela ntoni kwaye uzibophelela entwenini. Ukuba ungumntu ongu “ewe” ovumayo ukuthatha ngaphezulu kokuba kufanelekile, cinga ngokuthi “hayi.” Ukuba uyazibophelela, yiphule into efunekayo kwimisebenzi emincinci necacileyo ukuze wenze inkqubela phambili endaweni yokuba ungxamele ukufumana into Yenza izinto kwikhalenda Cwangcisa ukucwangcisela.
6. Ncamathela kwikhalenda yakho. Cwangcisa "ixesha lam," "ixesha lokucinga," kunye "nexesha lokucwangcisa ixesha." Musa ukulindela ukuba oku kuya kuvela ngokwendalo. Yiba ngabom kude kube yinto yendalo kuwe.

Ukuba nengqondo engakumbi kunye nokuzikhethela malunga nexesha lakho kuya kukunceda ujolise kuyo ngakumbi kwaye ufumane izipho kuwo wonke umzuzu owunikiweyo.