Ukusuka kwikhamera eneentloni ukuya kwikhamera Hi!

Umxholo

• Yiza nesitetimenti esifanelekileyo
• Gcina umntu omthandayo engqondweni..ngoku nakwixesha elizayo
• Biza imvakalelo yokwenyani

Ndonwabile ukuthetha kwigumbi eligcwele abantu abangama-800. Ndibeke kunomathotholo ngendawo yomphulaphuli engama-300,000, kwaye ndiya kuba nomtsalane kwangoko. Kodwa ncamathela kwikhamera enye ebusweni bam, kwaye ndiza kukuphatha njengosaziwayo osithele kwipaparazzi.

Ndingonwabisa kwaye ndihlekise, kodwa nje ukuba ndibone ikhamera ejikeleze indawo endiyibambayo. Kukuhlushwa. Ndiyazi ukuba iikhamera aziwubambi umphefumlo wakho (batsho), kodwa ziyenzeka. Kwaye andindedwa. Olunye uphononongo olwenziwe ngo-2013 lwacebisa ukuba uninzi lwabantu luye lwavuma ukuba luyakhathazeka ngendlela ezakujongeka ngayo kwiifoto.

Imidiya yokuncokola yenza izinto zibe mbi kakhulu kuba zinokukhupha izimvo ezoyikekayo ezivela kubantu ongabaziyo, kodwa andithethi ngalonto. Kukho abantu abazijonga ngokwakho okwenza ukuba bafune ukuphepha ikhamera ngalo lonke ixesha.

Ewe kunjalo, abanye bethu baneemeko ezinokwenza izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi, ezinje nge-dysmorphia yomzimba okanye i-anorexia. Kodwa nakwabo bangenazo iimeko ezichongiweyo, uninzi lwethu luxhalabile malunga nendlela esijongeka ngayo phambi kwekhamera, enokuba nefuthe elibi kwindlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngathi. Isifundo esinye endisichazile ngaphambili sifumanise ukuba phantse isithathu sabathathi-nxaxheba bayeke ukufota ukuba bangathathwa okanye kamva batshabalalise okanye bacime iifoto ezivela kwiiholide, amatheko, okanye nakwezabo izidanga — ngokuthe chu bezicima izonka zesonka samava abo amahle.

Kodwa kunokubakho indlela yokuzilwela.

Ndikhumbula ndifuna ukoyisa intloni yam yekhamera. Ndidinga ukuqonda ukuba ibimalunga nantoni, kwenzeka ntoni entlokweni yam. Ndifumene umfanekiso wekhamera. Eyona khamera inkulu ndiyifumanayo. Ndayiprinta loo foto ndayixhoma eludongeni. Nanini na xa ndijonga lo mfanekiso, bendicinga ngendlela ondenze ndaziva ngayo kunye nento ebindenza ndicinge ngayo. Ekuqaleni, ndabona le bhokisi inomngxunya omkhulu omnyama, ehleli apho endigweba, endirekhoda, edlala kwakhona yonke impazamo endakha ndazenza.

Ngalo msebenzi, ndaqonda ukuba yayingeyiyo ikhamera egwebayo: Ndizigweba kwaye ndiyibeka ityala kwinto engaphiliyo.

Olunye uphononongo lucebise ukuba ukufota, ukuzithemba, kunye nokuzazisa kuyahambelana. Ayothusi kakhulu. Abo banokuzithemba okuphantsi banokukuphepha ukujonga iifoto okanye ukuthatha imifanekiso ngokupheleleyo, ngethemba lokuthintela ukuvavanywa, ngakumbi kubantu ababaziyo. Kweminye, oku kuthetha ukuba okona kulungileyo bayabanda phambi kweekhamera kwaye ngeyona ndlela abalekayo kubo.

Ezo mpendulo zinokubonisa ukubaleka ngokufana nendlela abazibona ngayo. Isisombululo kule ngxaki singaba kukuzalisa ukuzithemba, okusinceda ukuba sikhumbuze ukuba singoobani, sivumele ifoto ukuba ibambe iziqu zethu kwaye ingekuko ukungazithembi kwethu.

Kwimeko yam, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizame ukwenza ubuhlobo ngekhamera njengendlela yokwenza ubuhlobo kunye nam. Hayi ukujoyina isizukulwane se-selfie, kodwa ngokwenene kulungile ukuba ubonwe. Ezi ayinakuba zizizathu zakho, kodwa nazi iingcebiso nakubani na ofumana uzifihlile kwikhamera.

Yiza nesitetimenti esifanelekileyo

Xa uphambi kwekhamera, abantu bahlala bezingela ukungafezeki kwabo. Ukuba oko kuvakala kuqhelekile, zama ukubiza umzuzwana ebomini bakho xa uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo, indawo eguqukileyo, etshintshe indlela yakho. Into onebhongo ngayo ngokwenene. Into ekwenza ... wena. Ezi ngxelo “Ndingumntu” yindlela entle yokukhumbula into elungileyo ngawe.

Njengo

• Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibuyele esikolweni ndiye kunceda abantu. Ngoku ndingunontlalontle oklinikhi onelayisensi owenza umahluko kubomi babantu.
• Ndamkela inja kunyaka ophelileyo. Uzise uvuyo ebomini bam. Ndingumntu oyithandayo inja yakhe.

Kwintetho yabo ye-TEDxCambridge, u-Anna Rowley kunye noPeter Hurley bayibiza ngokuba yi-psyphotology

Gcina umntu omthandayo engqondweni..ngoku nakwixesha elizayo

Nangona usenokungafuni ukuthatha ifoto yakho ngalo mzuzu, unokufuna ukuba nefoto yomzuzwana kamva. Cinga ukuba uyakuba phi unyaka ukusukela ngoku okanye iminyaka eli-10 ukusukela ngoku. Ukuthatha umoya emva kokuba umntu eshukumisela umnxeba kuwe kwaye ucinge ngelo nqaku kwixesha elizayo kunokuba ngumbono olungileyo.

Biza imvakalelo yokwenyani

Ngaba ufuna uncumo ngaloo mfanekiso wokuzalwa wonwabileyo? Endaweni yokumamatheka, cinga ngolotyo lokuzalwa oluhle. Mhlawumbi yayiyiminyaka emi-3 eyadlulayo. Mhlawumbi u-30.

Akukho mfuneko yokujikeleza ubuso bakho bube yimvakalelo ofuna ukuyibonisa: Iinkumbulo zokwenyani ziya kukunceda ufumane olo jongo lwendalo lovuyo. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ukuba awuziva ngathi uthathiwe ifoto.

Ke, kwixesha elizayo xa umntu ekhupha ifowuni yakhe, ayikhombe ngendlela yakho, kwaye athi "Ncuma!", Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubaleke okanye ubacele ukuba bacime naziphi na iikopi zomfanekiso. Endaweni yokuba uthathe ixesha lokucinga ngento oyithandayo kwaye ubone ukuba iyanceda na.

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