Ukudibana kukaGrace: Ukuphela kweTrismism

Izolo, owayesakuba ngumongameli wangaphambili wabongoza ihlokondiba ukuba lihlasele i-US Capitol ngawo kanye umzuzu ekwiseshoni epheleleyo yokuqinisekisa ukuba ulahlekile kunyulo. Umntu omnye ubulewe, abanye bonzakele, kwaye iCapitol yaqhushumba iiyure ezimbalwa de kwabuyiselwa ucwangco.

Nasi isishwankathelo sento endiyichazileyo njengezibakala zengqondo malunga nale nkokeli:

1. Intloko yaseburhulumenteni yangoku ngokucacileyo ibonakala ineempawu zobuntu njengenxalenye yobuntu bakhe. Oku akusikho ukugxeka, kodwa inkcazo. Njengoko besenditshilo, ezo mpawu zinokuba luncedo kubunkokheli beengxaki, kodwa zinokuba yingozi.
2. Iimpawu zobuntu zinxulunyaniswa novelwano oluphantsi kwabanye, ngakumbi ukuba zahlukile kwisiqu sakho, kunye nokuzithemba okuphezulu, uninzi loogxa bam kwezonyango bakhetha ukulubiza ngokuba yi "narcissism."
3. Ukudakumba kunxulunyaniswa novelwano olwandayo kwabanye kunye nenyani. Intloko yangoku yaseburhulumenteni iyakhanyela ukuba nayo nayiphi na ingxaki yengqondo, kubandakanya nokudakumba. Okubi kakhulu kubunkokeli bakhe.
4. Njengoko uMary Trump abonakalisile, ubume bakhe bangasentla benxibelelana nosapho olunamandla apho ukuzikhohlisa kunye nokunye ukukhohlisa kwakudunyiswa kwaye kwaxatyiswa.

Ngoku ukusuka kwisayikholojikhthi yenkokeli ndiye kwindlela endichaze ngayo isayikholoji yabalandeli bakhe:

1. Uninzi lwabantu luphilile kwaye lusempilweni ngokwasengqondweni. Ngokwezibalo, uninzi lwabalandeli bakhe luya kuba lolulungileyo kwaye babe sempilweni nasengqondweni.
2. Impilo yengqondo eqhelekileyo inxulunyaniswa nokuhambelana, enezibonelelo ezininzi zentlalo, kodwa ikwakho nokwenzakala.
3. Isimo sentlalo nezopolitiko ziqhutywa ikakhulu lusapho lomntu kunye nenkcubeko engqongileyo.
4. Abalandeli bale nkokeli ubukhulu becala ngabamhlophe nabasemaphandleni, baninzi kunamadoda kunabafazi, kwaye abafundanga kangako.
5. Ukungqinelana nemvelaphi yentlalo nenkcubeko kuya kuba negalelo ekuxhaseni imigaqo-nkqubo yeenkokheli zabo ezinxulumene nobuhlanga, inkolo, ubuhlanga, kunye nenqanaba lokufudukela kweli lungelo lokuzalwa "abamhlophe" baseYurophu nabaseMelika.
6. EUnited States, ukususela ekusekweni kwayo de kwaba ziinkulungwane ezintathu kamva, “abamhlophe” baseYurophu nabaseMerika baba ngamakhoboka abantu baseAfrika baza babulala abemi bomthonyama baseMerika. Ukusukela ngoko, abamhlophe baseMelika-baseMelika banelungelo lokufumana amandla kunye nodumo kuluntu lwaseMelika.

Izolo, uninzi lwabantu baseYurophu nabaseMelika, uninzi lwamadoda, uninzi lwabalandeli abangafundanga bale ndoda bagqibe kwelokuba banelungelo lokuthatha i-US Capitol kwaye bakhanyele uninzi lwabantu baseMelika ubunkokheli babo obonyuliweyo. Inkokeli yabo yabaxhasa kulo mzamo. Izixhobo zomkhosi nezamapolisa zase-US zababetha.

Kodwa ubunyani obunobungozi buvezwe izolo, enye bendiyichazile ngaphambili, kodwa endiza kuyenza icace ngakumbi ngoku: I-United States ayisiyonto ingcono kunenye yeenkcubeko eziphambili zaseNtshona, ezazikho ngaphambili wakhawuleza wanikezela kubuzwilakhe (njengeJamani yamaNazi, iVichy France, kunye neFranco yaseSpain).

Isayikholoji yale nkokeli, ehambelana naleyo yabalandeli bakhe, ikhokelele kuhlaselo olwathi lwadibana nokuxhathisa kwamapolisa ngobulali. Thelekisa oko namaqhinga angqwabalala athe le nkokeli yawakhuthaza kwaye yanceda ukuwayiphendula ekuphenduleni ngokufanayo, kwaye ihlala inoxolo ngakumbi, uqhankqalazo kumbutho weMicimbi yoBomi obuMnyama. Inkokeli yenqabile ukugxeka abalandeli bayo izolo, iphakamisa ukuba "umthetho nocwangco" ukusebenza kuphela kubachasi bakhe.

Xa abantu abaphilileyo ngokwengqondo bethobela inkcubeko yamandla kuhlanga lwabo, idemagogue enetalente inokuthatha nelona lizwe liphucukileyo laseNtshona liye ngqo kwisiphithiphithi. Okanye kubi.