Isifo sokuchasana nesasazekayo: Amava eNyanga

Iingqondo zethu zisebenza ngeendlela ezimangalisayo ukusikhusela kumava amabi awenzeka kubomi bethu bonke. Abo bafunyaniswe benesifo esingafaniyo nesazisi (i-DID) basibonisa indlela esinokomelela ngayo xa sisinda kumngcipheko omkhulu kunye / okanye ukuxhatshazwa.

Uxwebhu Kuxakeke Ngaphakathi Ulandela uKaren Marshall, unontlalontle onelayisensi yeklinikhi kunye nonyango oluchaze i-DID. UMarshall uye wafumanisa ukuba une-DID ngokwakhe kwaye usebenzisa amava akhe ukukhokela abathengi bakhe kwinkqubo yokuphilisa. Ifilimu ibonisa uMarshall kunye nabaxumi bakhe kwizicwangciso zobungcali nezobuqu, ukusinika ukujonga ngokusondeleyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla babantu abafumana esi sifo.

Umlawuli wefilimu, u-Olga Lvoff, wabelana ngesigqibo sakhe sokugxila kumava abo kunoluvo lweengcali. Ucacisa ifilimu "njengefestile kwilizwe labantu abaphila nge-DID. Uyakwazi ukuba kunye nabo. ”

Amava okubukela ifilimu anzulu. Ibenza abantu babe ne-DID njengoko sikwazi ukuba nenxaxheba kwiimvavanyo zabo zemihla ngemihla kunye noloyiso. Uhlobo olusondeleyo lwefilimu lusishukumisela ukuba sibuze ukuba ubuchopho bethu kunye nehlabathi lethu langaphakathi lakhiwa njani. "Kusivumela ukuba sicingisise ngezinto ezininzi ezingena ekuqondeni kwethu ubunyani," utshilo uLvoff.

Kudliwanondlebe kunye neNgxelo yeTrauma neMpilo yeNgqondo (i-TMHR), uMarshall ubonelela ngengcaciso ye-DID:

“Ukungafani nesazisi ngamava okuba nobuntu obubini okanye nangakumbi obwahlukileyo obwahlukileyo obukhoyo emzimbeni omnye. Amacandelo ahlukeneyo asebenza ngokwahlukeneyo ngandlela thile. ”

I-DID ikhula njengesixhobo sokulwa ixesha elide kunye noxinzelelo olukhulu lwabantwana. Ngelixa uhlangabezana nezinto eziphazamisayo, umntwana unokunqunyulwa kwimizimba yakhe kwinkqubo yengqondo eyaziwa ngokuba yi "dissociation". Ukuzikhusela ekwenzakaleni, iinxalenye zobuqu zinokwahluka kubuntu obahlukeneyo. Oku kukuthintela isiqu sakho ukuba sikhumbule kwaye siphinde sifunde amava abuhlungu. Obu buntu obahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha obizwa ngokuba "kukutshintsha," bunokubonisa amanqanaba ophuhliso ahlukeneyo apho ukuxhatshazwa kwenzeke khona, yiyo loo nto uninzi lweenguqu zibonakala ngathi ngabantwana. UMarshall wabelana ngombono wakhe nobunzima bobomi bangaphakathi:

“Kule meko, abantwana zange babenalo ithuba lokuba ngabantwana. Yiyo loo nto ukuphilisa ulutsha ngaphakathi kubaluleke kangaka. Kunokuba luncedo ukuphuhlisa umhlaba ngaphakathi oquka izindlu zemithi okanye iingxangxasi, nantoni na enokuthi iguqulwe ngabantwana. ”

Kulabo banayo i-DID, uMarshall uchaza ukuba kunokuba nzima ukwahlula okwangoku kunye nexesha elidlulileyo kuba iinxalenye zazo zivakalelwa ngokucacileyo ngokungathi zisaphazamisekile. UMarshall usichazela amava akhe nge-DID:

“Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ikhona into eyenzekayo kunye nam, kodwa andikwazi ukuyichaza kakuhle ukuba ibiyintoni na. Kwafika entloko emva kweveki enzima kakhulu. Ndaziva ngathi ndingumnyango ojikelezayo, njengazo zonke ezi ndawo zahlukeneyo beziphuma kwaye andinandlela yakulawula. Ndingayitsalela kunye kuyo yonke into ekufuneka ndiyenzile, ndiwe xa ndibuyele ekhaya, ndiphinde ndiphinde ndiyenze kwakhona. Oku kwenzeke de ndafumana ugqirha oqondayo ukuba usebenza njani ne-DID. ”

I-Lvoff yabelana ngokubaluleka kokumelwa ngokufanelekileyo kwimithombo yeendaba kwabo bane-DID. Uyaphawula ukuba yiyo loo nto uninzi lwabathathi-nxaxheba bekhethe ukubonakala kwifilimu, kuba "beziva ngathi amajelo osasazo enze i-DID kwaye amazwi abo awamelwe." Ngokufanayo, uMarshall uvakalisa ukuba ucinga ukuba “abantu bayaboyika abo bane-DID. Ukoyika ukuba kuza kubakho indawo efuna ukonzakalisa abanye. Nangona kunjalo, bahlala bezenzakalisa kunokuba benze ezinye. ”

UMarshall ucacisa iingcinga zakhe ekubhaleni ukwahlulwa njengengxaki kunye nenkqubo yokufumanisa isifo:

“Abanye abantu, ibanika isizathu sokuba bamkele amava abo kwaye baqonde ukuba kutheni kungenangqondo. Ngandlel 'ithile kufuneka kubekho imvume yokuba neengxaki. ”

URosalee, otshintsha umntu owabelana "nomzimba" noMarshall, uyongeza:

“Ukuba igama elinikezwe sisifo alilingani, asikhathali, kungenxa yeenjongo zeinshurensi. Iyawenza umahluko kwindlela esisebenza ngayo nawe, kodwa sizakuyiqonda, size negama elahlukileyo. ”

UMarshay, omnye wabathengi bakaKaren ubonisiwe kwi Kuxakeke Ngaphakathi , wayenomceli mngeni wokwamkela uxilongo lwe-DID kuyo yonke ifilimu. URosalee ucacisa ukuba le inokuba yinkqubo enzima ukuyenza:

“Ukwamkela kuthetha ukujongana nenyani yokuba bekukho into embi kakhulu eyenzekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abanakuya kule ndawo imnyama, ngenxa yoko bayayilwa. "

UMarshall uchaza indlela isifo sakhe se-DID esime ngayo xa enxibelelana nabaxumi bakhe ngexesha lonyango:

“Ndingaza nazo zonke iindlela zokunceda abantu, nangona bengangabathandi. Kwimeko apho, kulungile, siya kufumana enye indlela. Umzekelo kaMarshay, sibhekisa kubuntu obahlukileyo njengemibala yomnyama kuba yeyona nto imsebenzelayo. ”

Emva kokuchitha ixesha elininzi kuvavanywa ukwenzakala kwabo kunye nokuntywila nzulu kwixa elidlulileyo, uRosalee uchaza indlela amalungu ahlukeneyo ngaphakathi "komzimba" anokuzonwabisa ngayo kwaye afumane ulonwabo. Baqaphela:

“Asifuni ukuba ngumntu omnye. Asazi ukuba njani, kwaye ayenzi ngqondo. Uba yiyo njani? Siyayazi indlela yokuba baninzi, kodwa asazi ukuba singabamnye njani. ”

Ungayibukela itreyila Kuxakeke Ngaphakathi Apha . Uxwebhu iya kusasaza kwi-intanethi kwi-premiere ngo-Matshi 16 ukuya ku-Epreli 15.

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