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I-Psychopathy kunye neempawu ezinxulumene nazo zikhokelela abanye abantu ukuba bafumane amanqanaba aphezulu kwi "Dark Triad" yobuntu, ngokophando olwenziweyo kwisikali se "Dirty Dozen". Ukuba ubuntu bakho — okanye obomntu omaziyo— “bukhanya,” kusenokubonakala ngathi ukhuselekile engxakini. Nangona kunjalo, ezo mpawu zecala liqaqambileyo zinokwenza ubomi bube nzima kakhulu, ngokunjalo.

Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu kubonisa udidi ngaphakathi kwenkqubo yokuqonda isifo yengqondo ebandakanya ukuqokelelwa okungalunganga kwexesha elide kweempawu okanye imeko. Ukungahambi kakuhle kobuntu yenye yezi ngxaki, ebonakaliswa ngokudityaniswa kwengqondo (ukungakhathaleli abanye) kunye nokuziphatha okungathandekiyo (ukuxoka, ukukopela, nokuba).

Nangona yayidumile ngexesha likaFreud kunye noogxa bakhe abasebenza ngengqondo, into esiyibiza ngokuba sisifo sobuntu (ngaphambili esasibizwa ngokuba yi "hysteria") ifumene ingqalelo encinci. Oku kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngokuyinxenye kungenxa yokuba abo banengxaki yokungafani noluntu bayaziwa ukuba bayazenzakalisa, ukuba akukho mthethweni, ngelixa abantu abaneempawu zobuntu be-histrionic bengenampembelelo efanayo nakwabanye. Umdlalo weqonga, ozithandayo, kunye nobukrwada kwisiphoso, abo bokugqibela badlula ebomini bengacacanga, benombono wehlabathi. Ulwalamano lwabo alunabunzulu kwaye alunamsebenzi, kwaye ngokungafaniyo ne-psychopaths, abakwazi Uvelwano okanye usondele ngokwenene kwabanye.

U-Adrian Furnham waseKholeji yase-London (2014) uthathe isigqibo sokuwuphendula umbuzo wokuba ingaba umntu angaluchaza na uhlobo lomgangatho wobuntu obubandakanya abantu abangenangxaki kodwa endaweni yoko babe ngabantu “abaqaqambileyo” okanye “abaqaqambileyo”. Nangona la magama ebeya kuba neempawu ezinqwenelekayo — sonke kunokuba "sikhanye" kunokuba "sibe mnyama," ngengqiqo-uFurnham uqikelela ukuba le ngqokelela yeempawu ziyingxaki kwabo banazo kakhulu kwaye abo kufutshane nabantu abenza njalo.

Sebenzisa umlinganiso owaziwayo wobuntu obubizwa ngokuba zi "Big Five" iimpawu zobuntu, uFurnham ubuze ngaphezulu kwe-5,700 yabaphathi abaphakathi, (phantse i-75% yabo eyindoda) ukugqiba i-NEO-PI-R, i-240 -item uluhlu lweempawu zobuntu ngokubanzi. I-NEO-PI-R ivelisa amanqaku kwinto nganye kwezi-5 ezisisiseko-oko kubizwa ngokuba yi "OCEAN" (okanye "CANOE") esikalini ngokucofa i-Openness to Experience, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. Ngaphakathi kwinto nganye kwezi-5 ezigqithileyo ziinkxaso-mali ezi-6, oko kuthetha ukuba uvavanyo olupheleleyo lunokuvelisa amanyathelo angama-30. Zonke iingoma zenkxaso ekuthiwa zibizwa njalo Isiqhelo Iimpawu zobuntu, okuthetha ukuba abathinteli ukuphazamiseka kubuntu okanye ezinye iindlela zengqondo yengqondo.

UFurnham uthelekise amanqaku abathathi-nxaxheba bakhe kulo mlinganiso kunye neempendulo zabo kwiHogan Development Survey (HDS), isalathiso esilungiselelwe ukulinganisa iimpawu ezinxulumene nokuphazamiseka kobuntu njengoko kuchaziwe kwimeko yomsebenzi. Ngokukodwa, imilinganiselo ye-HDS yeempawu ezi-11 zoMdaka oMnyama ezijolise ekuchongeni ukuba ngubani onokuba ngumqeshwa osemngciphekweni omkhulu. Zonke zilungelelaniswa ngokwexabiso elilinganisiweyo, kodwa phantsi kweemeko zoxinzelelo lwasemsebenzini, zinokupela ingxaki kumntu okanye kwinkampani.

I-HDS ilinganisa inguqulelo yobuntu obubizwa ngokuba yi "Colourful," kwaye njengoko igama lisitsho, izinto ezikule nqanaba zibonisa abantu abakhulu ngaphezulobomi, bonwabele ukuziveza ngendlela ephawuleka kakhulu, banobunzima bokumamela abanye, bathande ukuphazamisa, kwaye wonwabele ukuba kugxilwe kuko.

Abantu abanamanqaku obuntu obumodareyithayo banokuphumelela. Athathelwa ingqalelo njenganakho ukwenza kakuhle kwintengiso, umzekelo, kwaye njengoko ekhuthazwa ukuba atshintshe kwaye akulungele ukufuna umceli mngeni. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba amanqaku abo anjalo naye phezulu, banokubeka ulindelo oluphezulu ngokungenangqondo oluya kuthi ekugqibeleni ludanise. Ke, kulungile ukuba ube mbala omncinci kodwa ukuba uye phezulu kakhulu, ufikelela kwinqanaba elingalunganga lobuchwephesha bobuntu. Phantsi koxinzelelo emsebenzini, uza kuba "ngumdilizi" -ukuthintela ishishini lakho ukuba liphumelele.

UFurnham usebenzise amanyathelo angama-30 e-NEO-PI-R ukuqikelela amanqaku kwinqanaba le-HDS enemibala. Abantu abaMibalabala abaphezulu, okuthetha abo banobuntu obuqaqambe ngakumbi babonisa le profayile ilandelayo.

Phantsi kwi:

1. Ixhala
2. Uxinzelelo
3. Ukuchaneka
4. Ukuthozama
5. Umsebenzi
6. Ukuziqeqesha

Phezulu kwi:

1. Ubushushu
2. Ubukhulu becala
3. Ukuzithemba
4. Umsebenzi
5. Ukufuna ulonwabo
6. Iimvakalelo ezintle
7. Ukuvulwa kwefantasy

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