Ngaba Kukukholelwa Ngokugabadeleyo Okanye Ngaba Kukukhohlisa?

Usenokuba ukhe weva ngoLori Vallow (Daybell) kunye nomyeni wakhe omtsha, uChad. U-Lori ngoku uhleli kwintolongo yase-Idaho ejongene nesityholo sokulahla umntwana kunye nokushiya abantwana bakhe ababini, u-JJ oneminyaka eyi-7 kunye no-Tylee oneminyaka eyi-17, abangazange babonwa ukusukela ngo-Septemba ngo-2019 ngaphandle kwezicelo ezivela kumalungu osapho achaphazelekayo. kunye nomyalelo wenkundla ofuna uLori azivelise. ULori noChad bathethe ubuxoki obuninzi malunga nokuba baphi abantwana kwaye, mva nje, bayalile ukuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo malunga nabo konke konke.

Kukho okuninzi. Umyeni wangaphambili kaLori, uCharles Vallow, wabulawa ngumntakwabo uAlex ngoJulayi 2019, etyholwa ngokuzikhusela. Umfazi ophilileyo kaChad Daybell oneminyaka engama-48 ubudala, uTammy, wasweleka elele ngo-Okthobha u-2019; Ngokutsho komhlobo wosapho, uChad "wayenombono" malunga nokufa kwakhe iiveki ngaphambi kokuba asweleke. Kutshanje kuye kwavela ukuba, kwiiveki ngaphambi kokuba uTammy asweleke, uLori wathenga umsesane womtshato kwaye wayethengela iimpahla zomtshato elwandle. Kwiiveki ezimbini emva kokungcwatywa kukaTammy, watshata noLori. UAlex Cox, umntakwabo Lori owabulala uCharles, naye wasweleka phantsi kweemeko ezingaqondakaliyo ngoDisemba ophelileyo.

Iinyani eziphazamisayo ziye zavela malunga neenkolelo zonqulo zikaLori noChad kunye nokuba zinokuthetha ntoni xa kujongwa iziganeko zamva nje. Ngaphambi kokuba asweleke, umyeni ka-Lori uCharles wafaka uqhawulo-mtshato, ecacisa ngokushiya kwakhe usapho iinyanga ezimbini ekuqaleni kuka-2019 kwaye echaza into awayeyibiza ngokuba yinkolo yakhe eyinqaba ukusukela oko wabandakanyeka kumbutho wenkolo kaChad Daybell.Ngokukodwa, watsho ukuba wayemxelele ukuba "unguthixo owabelwe ukwenza umsebenzi we-144,000 ekufikeni kwesibini kukaKristu ngoJulayi 2020" kwaye wayemlumkisile ukuba uyokumbulala xa enokufumana indlela yakhe.

Okungakumbi ngokubhekisele kubantwana bakhe abalahlekileyo ngamaxwebhu abhalwe ngumyeni omtsha [u-Ian Pawloski] womtshana kaLori Vallow, uMelani Boudreaux Pawlowski. UMelani, obekhe wabandakanyeka kweli qela lenkolo, ngequbuliso wafaka uqhawulo-mtshato kumyeni wakhe, uBrandon Boudreaux, ngehlobo lowe-2019 waphinda watshata u-Ian ngoDisemba.

Ngokuka-Ian, ekubonakala ukuba ebesebenzisana ne-FBI, "uMelani wayexelelwe nguChad noLori ukuba abantwana babo babengenwe ngabantu kwaye baba ziZombies ... idemon, umoya ophume emzimbeni okanye umbungu okanye islug. ” UMelani waxelelwa ukuba uxelele uIan ukuba “uxhalabile ukuba kungenzeka ukuba [uAlex Cox] kufuneka anyamekele abantwana.”

Ukuqala kweenkolelo ezingaqhelekanga

Amangqina aliqela athe uLori Vallow uxakeke ngakumbi ziziprofeto zemini yentshabalalo kunye nemibono yokomoya. Nangona kunjalo, into uLori Vallow ayibona njengesityhilelo esivela kuThixo umyeni wakhe, uCharles Vallow, wayekujonga njengokugula ngengqondo.

Abantu abaliqela abebemazi uLori Vallow Daybell iminyaka bathi wayeyinkosikazi nomama ozinikeleyo de wazibandakanya noChad Daybell kunye neemfundiso zakhe zenkolo ngo-2018. isibhedlele sengqondo kuvavanyo lwengqondo. Emva kokuba amapolisa ehlulekile ukumfumana, kubonakala ukuba wavela ngokuzithandela ngosuku olulandelayo kwaye wavavanywa-kwaye wakhululwa-yingcali yezempilo yengqondo.

Okwangoku, akukho mntu uhlawuliswe ngokubulala. Sisenethemba lesiphelo esonwabisayo noko, ubuncinci kubantwana; mhlawumbi, njengoko uChad noLori banyanzelisa, u-JJ kunye noTylee babambekile kwenye indawo.

Kodwa masizenze umzuzwana ukuba u-Charles Vallow kunye noMelani Pawloski malunga neenkolelo zikaLori Vallow kunye noChad Daybell ziyinyani kwaye zikhokelele kubundlobongela. Ngaba ezi nkolelo ziyimpawu yokugula ngengqondo okanye ulawulo lwengqondo?

Ngokusekwe kubungqina, iinkolelo zikaLori zosuku lokupheliswa kwabelwana ngazo ngamanye amaninzi. Kwaye imbono yakhe ngendima yakhe ekuzeni kwesibini kukaKrestu kwabelwana ngayo okungenani ngomnye umntu-uChad Daybell. Ukuba ezi nkolelo zikhokelele ekubulaleni, ngekhe ibe lixesha lokuqala inkolo isetyenziswa njengesizathu sobundlobongela. Ukusuka kusapho lukaCharles Manson ukuya ekubulaweni kukaJames Jones, kuye kwakho abantu abathi benza into eyoyikisayo mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba bewela phantsi kwenkokeli yenkolo eyonakalisayo okanye bakholelwa ukuba benza umsebenzi kaThixo.

Ngaba Ngumthunywa Wokomoya Okanye Ugula Ngengqondo?

Ewe kunjalo, ukugula ngengqondo nako kunokukhokelela kugonyamelo. Emva ko-9/11, ndabona umfana obaleke ngengqondo obaleka umqhubi omsulwa endleleni emva kokuva ilizwi limxelela ukuba umqhubi wase-Middle East ecaleni kwakhe kuhola wendlela yayiligorha lamaSilamsi eliqhubela kwisikhululo senqwelomoya saseSan Diego ukuyokutyala iibhombu iinqwelomoya. Ekuqaleni kweminyaka yoo-1970, umbulali ongummangaliso uHerbert William Mullins wabulala abantu abali-13 emva kokuva amazwi entlokweni yakhe eyamxelela ukuba inyikima enkulu yaseCalifornia yayisondele kwaye kungokuzincama kwabantu ukuba angasindisa ilizwe lakhe alithandayo.

Xa kufikwa kwiinkolelo ezigabadeleyo, kukho umgca ocacileyo phakathi kwempambano nenzondelelo yenkolo. Ukudakumba okuvela kwizigulo zengqondo ezinje nge-schizophrenia, i-mania, uxinzelelo olukhulu, okanye ezinye iingxaki zengqondo zihlala zihamba nezinye iimpawu ezinje ngombono, ukucinga okungalungelelananga / indlela yokuziphatha, kunye nokuphazamiseka ekusebenzeni.

Ukwahluka kukuphazamiseka kokukhohlisa, isifo esinqabileyo, esenzeka embindini ukuya kubomi bokugqibela, apho umntu afumana izinto ezingezizo ezingaqhelekanga ezibandakanya iimeko ezinokwenzeka kubomi bokwenyani, ezinje ngokulandela, ukutyhefelwa, ukuthandwa ngusaziwayo, unesiphiwo esikhethekileyo, okanye utshatele iqabane elikopelayo.

Ezi nkohliso zihlala zibandakanya ukutolikwa gwenxa kweembono okanye amava. Abantu abanesiphazamiso esikhohlisayo bahlala beqhubeka nobudlelane kwaye besebenza ngokwesiqhelo [ngaphandle komxholo wenkohliso yabo] ngaphandle kokuba bazixakekise ngokulahlekisa kangangokuba ubomi babo buphazanyiswe. Ubuqhetseba babo ababelwanga abanye, nto leyo ihlala ingunobangela wengxabano.

Uphando luyaqhubeka

UTylee noJJ basadukile, abantu abadala abathathu baswelekile, kwaye uphando luyaqhubeka. Akukho mntu ubekwe ityala lokubulala. Abantu abaninzi beze ngaphambili bezokuchaza iqela likaChad Daybell elineengcwangu, iqela elingaqingqwanga elisebenza ngokufihlakeleyo kwiCawa likaYesu Krestu waBangcwele beeNtsuku zokuGqibela kwaye bagxile kwiziprofeto zemini yentshabalalo, imibono yokomoya, nokuzalwa ngokutsha; Uninzi lwezi nkolelo luchasene nemfundiso yecawa. Indima edlalwe zezi nkolelo kwiziganeko zamva nje ayikagqitywa.

Abanye abantu abaneengqondo zengqondo bafumana amava okukhohlisa. Abanye abantu bakhulisa iinkolelo ezigabadeleyo njengenxalenye yokufundiswa kwehlelo okanye ngenxa yokuba bakhulele kwimeko engafanelekanga yonqulo. Kwaye abanye abantu abaneengxaki zengqondo [umzekelo, ukungavisisani nobuntu, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, i-narcissism eyingozi] basebenzisa nantoni na — kubandakanya inkolo — njengesingxengxezo sokwenzakalisa abanye.

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