Ukufumana ukuqondwa kwengqondo kwiJapan Psychology, Icandelo 2

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NguSaori Miyazaki, LMFT

Ndingugqirha wezengqondo oqeqeshwe kwiindlela zengqondo zaseNtshona. Nangona ndikholelwa ukuba ingcebiso kunye nonyango lwengqondo kunokuba luncedo xa sisokola kwimiceli mngeni eyahlukeneyo kunye neempawu zempilo yengqondo, ndinomdla wokuba abanye abantu eMpuma, ngakumbi eJapan, bafuna uncedo kwiitempile zamaBuddha nasekucamngceni xa bejamelene nemiceli mngeni yobuqu. Ndizibuze nokuba zikhona na iindlela ezikhoyo ezingadingi ukuba umntu angene kwiziko lenkolo. Bendifuna iindlela zabantu baseNtshona abangafuni unyango lwentetho kuba beziva ukuba iza nelebheli ethi "uphambene kwaye yiyo loo nto ubona ingcali."

Xa ndandikhangela "ukuzibonakalisa" kwengqondo ezisekwe engqondweni ezinokuthi zibe yenye indlela yonyango lwasentshona, ndadibana nonyango lweNaikan, elithetha "ukujonga ngaphakathi" okanye "ukujonga ngaphakathi." Isekwe kubunzulu uqeqesho olubizwa ngokuba “nguMishirabe” kwihlelo likaJodo Shinshu (Pureland) lobuBuddha baseJapan. INaikan yindlela eyakhekileyo yokuzibonakalisa eyenzelwe ukwandisa ukuzazisa. Mishirabe ”ukuba ifikeleleke ngakumbi kuluntu ngokubanzi ngokushiya inkolo.

U-Yoshimoto uthathe isigqibo sokuchitha ixesha lakhe kunye namandla ukunceda abantu, ebeka iziko lokubuyela e-Yamato-Koriyama e-Nara prefecture, kuye nabani na owayezimisele ukucinga ngobomi babo bemihla ngemihla nge Naikan. Wamkela nabani na kubantu abaqhelekileyo ababenokudakumba kunye / okanye nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kumalungu ama-mafia aseJapan anembali enzulu yolwaphulo-mthetho. U-Yoshimoto ukhuthaze abafundi abaninzi abavela kulo lonke elase Japan abathi ekugqibeleni babuyela kwiidolophu zabo ukuya kuvula amaziko abo eNaikan ukuze baqhubeke nokunceda abanye.

UNaikan waziwa ngaphandle kweJapan kwaye uqhutywa e-Australia, eYurophu nase China. Abanye abasebenzi bayayisebenzisa ngonyango lwengqondo lwaseNtshona ukunyanga abantu abaneempawu ezahlukeneyo zempilo yengqondo kwaye bayifaka njengenxalenye yenkqubo yabo yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo. Ndicinga ukuba uNaikan wamkelwe kwihlabathi liphela njengesixhobo esikhokelela ekuzibonakaliseni kuba ukwenza oko akuthethi ukuba unesifo esithile sengqondo, kwaye senziwa kumaziko aseNaikan kunezibhedlele zabagula ngengqondo.

Ngokwesiqhelo, ukubuyela umva eNaikan kuhlala iintsuku ezintlanu ukuya kwezisixhenxe. Abathathi-nxaxheba bahlala ngokuzolileyo kwikona yegumbi, bebodwa kwizikrini kwaye bayacelwa ukuba bacamngce ngemibuzo emithathu ebalulekileyo ngokubhekisele kulowo ukhathalelayo. Lo mkhuba wonyusa ulwazi kwaye wandise ukuqonda.Imibuzo emithathu ebalulekileyo yile:

1. Loluphi uncedo athe wakunikeza ngalo mntu (umgcini wakho)?

2. Umbuyisele ntoni lo mntu?

3. Yeyiphi ingxaki oyenze lo mntu?

Akukho gqirha kodwa phantse zonke iiyure ezimbini udliwanondlebe uya kulandelelana nomthathi-nxaxheba ngamnye kwaye abanike ingxelo, ngokusekwe kwimibuzo emithathu, ukuba babonakalise ntoni na. Udliwanondlebe akazange anike iingcebiso kodwa unika inkxaso kuyo yonke inkqubo yokubonisa ngokumamela. Ngelixa uNaikan esetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo ukubonisa ubudlelwane bangaphakathi kunye nabantu obakhethayo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqale kunye nomgcini (wabantu) kunye nokuzicamngca ngesimilo sakho kunye nezenzo zangaphambili.

Ngexesha lokucamngca kukaNaikan, asifumani thuba lokujonga ukuba yeyiphi ingxaki ebangelwa ngabantu esijonge kubo. Kungenxa yokuba ngokwendalo silungile ekufumaneni into engalunganga eyenziwe kuthi ngabanye. Inkqubo yeNaikan isikhokela ukuba sijonge imeko ngokwembono zabanye hayi eyethu kuphela. Isenza sivavanye ubudlelwane bethu bangaphakathi kulo mntu ngenxa yokuba sihlala sisilela ukubona "umfanekiso opheleleyo" xa sinombono wetonela ngenxa yeemvakalelo zethu.

Ndidlule kuyo yonke imihla esixhenxe kunye nokufutshane ukubuya kukaNaikan kwiminyaka eliqela edlulileyo. Uxanduva lwam yayikukuhlala ndithe cwaka ndenze uNaikan imini yonke kwaye ndicoce indawo yam ekuseni. Unokucinga ukuba kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ngenxa yezi zithintelo kodwa uya kukhawuleza uqaphele ukuba uyondliwa imini yonke bububele babanye.

Umzekelo, izidlo zakho ziyakhathalelwa ngabasebenzi abaphekayo kwaye bezisa izitya ezimnandi kakhulu nezisempilweni. Udliwanondlebe uza kuza alandele kunye nawe rhoqo kwiiyure ezimbalwa kwaye anikezele ingqalelo yakhe ekuxhaseni kuyo yonke inkqubo yeNaikan. Iphantse yafana neholide "yokucinga" kuba ukhululekile kuxanduva lwakho lwemihla ngemihla kwaye uvumelekile ukuba ubonakalise.

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