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Siyakwamkela emva! Kolu luhlu, siphonononga okuhle, okubi, kunye nokubi kovavanyo lomntu. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ndiye ndazigubungela izizathu zokuba i-Myers-Briggs (MBTI) kunye ne-Enneagram zixabiseke, kutheni abantu behlala befumana iziphumo zabo, kwaye bazise i-Big Five, imodeli yesayensi yobuntu (ukuba awukabinayo, ungazivavanya apha). Olu fakelo lokugqibela luza kuchaza ukuba kutheni iBig Five iqhuba ngcono kwaye imelana nokugxekwa kolunye uvavanyo.

1. Baye baphuhliswa kusetyenziswa indlela yesayensi.

Ngokuchasene ne-MBTI kunye ne-Enneagram, ezazineenkqubo zazo ezazifunyenwe kwiifilosofi ezingafundiswanga endaweni yokujongwa ngokungqongqo kwabantu, i-Big Five kunye neembono ezisetyenzisiweyo ukuzicacisa zaphuhliswa ngokujonga ngononophelo, ukubonwa kobunzululwazi. UCarl Jung, isayikholojisti ethi ithiyori yakhe iphefumlele i-MBTI, wayengumchwephezi wengqondo ojike iingcinga zakhe malunga nobume bomntu zibe yirhafu; Ngamanye amagama, wenza inkqubo yokuququzelela ubuntu obuhambelana neengcamango zakhe ngaphandle kokuvavanya ukuba ngaba bachaza ubuntu babantu. Abaphandi abafumene i-Big Five bathathe indlela eyahlukileyo kwaye bavumela idatha ukuba iqhube ngendlela abaqonda ngayo umbutho wobuntu.

Olunye lolona phando luphambili lwaphanda i-lexical hypothesis: ukuba kukho iimpawu abantu abahluka ngazo, kwaye ukuba ukuqonda umahluko kubalulekile ekuqondeni nasekusebenzisaneni nabantu, nayiphi na inkcubeko iya kuba yenze igama kulwimi lwayo ukuchaza uphawu ngalunye . Kukho malunga nama-4 500 amagama kwisichazi-magama sesiNgesi esichaza iimpawu zobuntu —iipateni ezihambelanayo zeengcinga, iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha. Ngokuhlalutya ukulinganisa kwabantu ngokwabo nakwabanye kwezi mpawu kusetyenziswa ubalo lweenkcukacha-manani olubizwa ngokuba luhlalutyo lwezinto, ezenza amaqela adityaniswe ngokudibeneyo ukuba ahambelana kangakanani, abaphandi bafumene amaqela amakhulu amahlanu eempawu ezinxulumene noko ezichaza uninzi lokwahluka kwethu. Emva koko baqala ukuphuhlisa kunye nokuvavanya iithiyori ukuchaza ukuba sizifumana njani ezi mpawu.

2. Ukuqhubekeka kubhetele kuneendidi.

I-MBTI kunye ne-Enneagram zikunika ubuntu chwetheza -Udidi olwahlukileyo olwahlukileyo ngokomgangatho kwezinye iindidi. Abahlanu abaKhulu bobuntu iimpawu , okanye iimpawu ezizodwa ezilinganiswe ngokuqhubekeka ukusuka ezantsi ukuya phezulu.

Iingcali zengqondo zikhetha iimpawu kwiindidi. Isizathu esinye kukuba iindidi yingqokelela yeempawu ezininzi. Inkcazo yohlobo lwe-ISFJ ibandakanya iimpawu ezinje ngokuzola, uxanduva kunye nolwazelelelo. Ezi zimele imilinganiselo emithathu eyahlukeneyo ye-Big Five -ukukhuphela ngaphezulu, isazela, kunye nokuvumelana -kodwa zonke zidityanisiwe kolu luhlu. Amanqanaba amakhulu mahlanu avavanya ngokwahlukeneyo nangakumbi. Kwakhona, kuba iintlobo zihlala zibandakanya iimpawu ezininzi, kukho ukungqubana kwiindidi zobuntu, kwaye umntu unokuzibona kwiintlobo ezininzi.

Ukongeza, uhlobo lweendlela zokwahlula abantu njengobugqithisileyo, xa enyanisweni, iimpawu zobuntu zimelwe ngcono kukuqhubeka, uninzi lwethu lusembindini kuneziphelo. Lo mthetho-siseko uboniswa ngendlela ekulinganiswa ngayo eziNtlanu eziKhulu, ngemibuzo kusetyenziswa isikali sokutyibilika endaweni yefomathi yokhetho olunyanzelweyo.

3. Banokubonisa ukuba utshintshe njani.

Ngohlobo lomntu, kunzima ukuba akunakwenzeka ukulinganisa ubuntu bakho kwizihlandlo ezahlukeneyo kwaye ufumanise ukuba ubuntu bakho butshintshe kangakanani. Ukuba ujonga emva kuwe kwiminyaka emi-5, eli-10, okanye engama-20 eyadlulayo, uya kuba nakho ukubona ezinye zeendlela ohluke ngazo. Ngamanye amaxesha olo tshintsho lufihlakele, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha lukhulu. Uphando luyayixhasa le "anecdata"; Ukongeza kwiindlela ezizodwa otshintsha ngazo njengomntu, abantu bathambekele ekutshintsheni ngeendlela ezifanayo njengoko bekhula. Ukukwazi kweentlobo zobuntu ukuphendula kolo tshintsho lunentsingiselo.

Ukuqala kwam ukuthatha i-MBTI, yayimalunga ne-2004, kwaye ndafumana amanqaku njenge-INTJ. Ndingakuxelela iindlela ezithile enditshintshe ngazo kule minyaka ili-15 ukusukela ngoko-ezinye zinkulu, ezinye zincinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ndenze uvavanyo kwakhona namhlanje, ndinokuthi okanye ndingaboni olo tshintsho lubonakalisiwe kwiziphumo zam. Kwiposi yokuqala, sithethe ngendlela i-MBTI ikunika ngayo uhlobo; Umzekelo, ukuba ufumana amanqaku naphi na kwisiqingatha esingaphezulu kwesilinganiselo sokuphinda ubuye, ufumana u-E, nakwisiqingatha esisezantsi, u-I. Ngokuxhomekeka kwinqanaba lam lokuqala, ndinokuwela umda ndingene kumhlaba we-E, okanye hayi. Kukwanokude ukuba utshintsho endikhe ndalufumana alufakwanga konke konke ngohlobo lwam. Kodwa ukuba ibhalisa utshintsho, ngequbuliso ndiza kubonakala ndiluhlobo lomntu olwahluke ngokupheleleyo.

Ubungakanani beempawu zobuntu zithatha utshintsho olungcono kakhulu kuneentlobo. Ngokulinganisa iimpawu ezithile kuqhubekeko, unokubona ukuba utshintshile kwiimpawu ezithile kwaye ungakanani kanye. Ukuba ndifumene amanqaku angama-50/100 ekuvulekeni ukuba namava njengekholeji entsha kunye ne-72 namhlanje, ndiyabona ukuba ndonyuke kakhulu ekuvulekeni. Olunye uphawu lwam lobuntu lusenokutshintsha ngelo xesha, kananjalo, ngeendlela ezincinci okanye ezinkulu, okanye mhlawumbi hayi kwaphela.

Ngokujonga ubuntu bam, ndiyabona ukuba, njengabantu abaninzi, ndonyukile kwisazela, ukuvumelana, kunye nozinzo ngokweemvakalelo ukusuka kubudala beminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-35, nokuba ndiyafana ncam nam kwiminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo, kodwa kwinqanaba lam lokuvuleka. Ukuvavanywa kokuvavanywa kwakhona kovavanyo kuthanda ukomelela ngaphezulu kwamaxesha amafutshane kunye nokuhla kunye nexesha, elimele utshintsho lwangempela kubuntu endaweni yomlinganiso ombi.

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