Abantu abaNesisa: Ezi Ndlela zisi-8 zibahambisa kude ebomini

Umxholo

• Ziziphi iimpawu abantu abanobubele nabanobubele abafana ngazo?
• Izibonelelo zokuba nesisa
• 1. Banempilo yengqondo ebhetele
• 2. Banokuziva bhetele xa benokuncinci
• 3. Ukuthandana kunceda abantu abatsha ukuba bakhule ngcono
• 4.Yila iinethiwekhi ezithembakeleyo ngokulula
• 5. Bangangoyena ubonakalayo ekuhlaleni
• 6. Basuswa ngakumbi kuxinzelelo ebudaleni
• 7. Banokugxila ngakumbi kwiingcinga ezilungileyo
• 8. Ubungakanani bexesha elide?

Ziziphi iimpawu abantu abanobubele nabanobubele abafana ngazo?

Abantu abanesisa bahlala bechazwa njengabaphulukene kakhulu kule mihla ENtshona uluntu, apho ukuzimela kunye nokufuna ukuzonwabisa kuninzi.

Oku, okusekwe kwinxalenye yenyaniso, kukugqwetha okwenyani, njengoko ukuba nesisa kuvuzwa ngothotho lwezibonelelo zomzimba nezengqondo.

Izibonelelo zokuba nesisa

Kwaye kukuba, ngokuchaseneyo noko sinokucinga, ukuzingca okusulungekileyo kushiya iindawo ezithile ezingaboniyo apho iingxaki kunye nobunzima bunokuhlasela: ukungazinzi kobudlelwane, ukunqongophala kokuhambelana kweenkqubo zenkxaso kunye noluntu olomeleleyo olusebenza njengokhuseleko, njl.

Apha zi ezinye izibonelelo ezinesisa kubantu bokuqala ukuzonwabela.

1. Banempilo yengqondo ebhetele

Xa iimfuno zokukhathalela abanye zingafuneki kangako ngokwexesha kunye nomzamo, ukuzincama kunxulunyaniswa nokuthambekela okukhulu kwempilo yengqondo elungileyo. Iziphumo zengqondo zokuzazi ukuba uluncedo kwabanye abadinga isenokuba ngasemva koku.

2. Banokuziva bhetele xa benokuncinci

Ngokungafaniyo nabantu abazingcayo, abafuna ukufumana umvuzo wezinto ezibonakalayo endaweni yomzamo wabo wokuziva belungile, benesisa Bayakwazi ukuziva bonwabile ngokwenza imisebenzi yokuzincama, abanokuzenza nanini na befuna kuba baxhomekeke kubo kuphela. Emva kokubandakanyeka kule misebenzi, uninzi lwazo luziva lunamandla ngokwasemzimbeni, ngaphandle kweentlungu noxinzelelo, kunye nokuzithemba okungcono, okuchaphazela zonke iindawo zobomi babo.

3. Ukuthandana kunceda abantu abatsha ukuba bakhule ngcono

Kwaziwa ixesha elide ukuba abo babongi, ukongeza ekunikezeleni ngabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo ngononophelo "olunyanzelekileyo" olufana nokutya, amanzi nendawo yokulala, banethuba elikhulu lokurhangqwa ngabantwana abanokubakhathalela. ebudaleni. Kungenxa yokuba, ngokudalwa kweebhotile zokuncamathisela, ukubanakho kwabantu abancinci ukuba babakhathalele abanye abantu nako kuyavela.

4.Yila iinethiwekhi ezithembakeleyo ngokulula

Ihomoni yioxytocin, enxulumene nokuziphatha okunesisa nokuzincama, ikwanxulunyaniswa nokwenziwa kweebhlorho zokuthembana, ezinokuba luncedo kakhulu ekuphuhliseni iiprojekthi ezinamabhongo nezixabisa kakhulu ezinokuqhutywa kuphela ukuba abantu abaninzi bayavuma kwaye bayasebenzisana ixesha elide. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abanesisa baya kuba nakho ukubeka imizamo yabo ekwenzeni iiprojekthi ezineenjongo zexesha elide ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo.

5. Bangangoyena ubonakalayo ekuhlaleni

Abantu abanesisa bayakwazi ukunikela ngokungazingci ixesha elide ingaba ikhona okanye ayikho imivuzo okanye imivuzo enxulumene nenkuthazo yangaphandle. Oku kuthetha ukuba bayakwazi ukwenza ukuba abanye bababone benesisa ngaxeshanye, endaweni yokulandelelana: kukho amaxesha apho abantu abaninzi baxhamle kuncedo lolu hlobo lweprofayile ngaphandle kokubanika nantoni na ebonakalayo ngokubuyisa.

Ngale ndlela, kuhlala kusenzeka ukuba amalungu oluntu, abone ukuba wonke umntu ucinga ukuba kukho umntu othile onesisa, umfanekiso woluntu ufikelela kwinqanaba elitsha, elinokuthi kwiimeko ezininzi linxibelelene nendima yokhuselo, yegunya.

6. Basuswa ngakumbi kuxinzelelo ebudaleni

Abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-65 abazinikelayo ukunceda abanye kunqabile ukuba bakhule ngokudakumba, ngenxa yokudityaniswa kwezentlalo okuveliswa yile misebenzi. Oku kuluncedo kakhulu, kuthathelwa ingqalelo into yokuba umntu azicingele kunye nokuzicingela unokuncipha ebudaleni ukuba umhlala-phantsi utolikwa njengophawu lokuba awuseloncedo nakubani na.

7. Banokugxila ngakumbi kwiingcinga ezilungileyo

Abantu abanesisa kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba bancede abanye ngokungazingci, ethi kudala imeko entle kunye nethemba. Oku kubenza babhencwe ngakumbi kwiimeko apho ingqwalaselo itshintshela kwimibono ethembisayo kunye neyonwabisayo, eluncedo ekugcineni amanqanaba empilo entle.

8. Ubungakanani bexesha elide?

Nangona Izifundo kubomi obude babantu abanobuntu zisafuna ukwenziwa, utyekelo lokugxila kwimibono elungileyo kunye nokuziphatha okusekwe luthando kubonisiwe ukwandisa ixesha elide kwaye kunxulunyaniswa nokomeleza amajoni omzimba.