Ngaba Ulahlekelwe Yindalo Ngexesha Lesifo?

Umxholo

• Amaxesha Ethu Anzima
• Oko Silahlekile
• Ukudibana ngokudinwa kunye nokuvalelwa
• Ipetroli yengqondo
• Izisombululo zoBuchule obulahlekileyo

La maxesha angaqhelekanga okuhluthwa ekhaya kwaye kude neenkqubo kudala umonakalo ngeendlela ezininzi. Abantu bafumanisa ukuba banemveliso encinci, bayile, kunye nengcinga. Abacingi ngokucacileyo okanye ngokwakha. Izimvo ezintsha azihambi. Abakwazi ukubhala, ukuzoba, okanye ukwenza umculo. Bajikeleza ngokujikelezayo kwimisebenzi nakwizabelo zomsebenzi.

Amaxesha Ethu Anzima

Sinokungenelela kwabanye njengoko sabelana ngendawo ebonakalayo. Ixesha lilodwa kunzima ukulifumana. Abantu abadala bajongana nokhathalelo lwabantwana kunye nokufunda abantwana babo, bonke ngelixa besebenza imisebenzi yabo ukude kwaye bahlala kwigumbi elinye.

Sinoxinzelelo malunga nokubamba i-COVID, ukuba ikamva liza kuzisa ntoni, kwaye nendlela esinokulawula ngayo ngokwasemoyeni nangokweemvakalelo iimeko ezikhoyo ngoku. Sizibuza imibuzo emininzi exhalabisayo: Kuya kuphela nini oku? Ndilahlekelwe yintoni? Yintoni abandikhathazayo abantwana bam? Ngaba siya kuba njalo phantsi kwendlela?

Sifumana amava athambileyo, kunye ne-claustrophobia, kwigumbi elinye okanye kwindlu enye, singayi ndawo, kwaye singaboni usapho kunye nabahlobo enyameni.

Oko Silahlekile

Iziphumo zala maxesha kukuba siphulukana namandla okucinga kunye nokwenza ngokutsha. Izimvo ezintsha aziveli. Iqula lomile. Asinakucinga okanye sibhale ngokuyilayo. Sivakalelwa kukuba sisebhankini yenkungu, sineengcinga ezingadibaniyo neziqhekekileyo. Ihlabathi lethu liziva linciphile. Izinto ezincinci njengokufumana ukutya zithatha ukubaluleka okukhulu kunye nomngcipheko.

Ukudibana ngokudinwa kunye nokuvalelwa

Sifumana iimeko ezifanayo ngexesha lobhubhane kubantu abaxakeke kakhulu kuqeqesho olunzima kunye nemisebenzi- njengesikolo sezonyango kunye namagumbi kaxakeka- okanye nabo basebenza kwimizi yeoyile kangangeeveki ngexesha. Siva iingxelo ezifanayo ezivela kubantu abasebenza nzima, ii-CEO, kunye noosomashishini abasebenza iiyure ezingama-70 ngeveki okanye nangaphezulu. Abantu abavalelweyo baxela ubunzima obufanayo ngokufana kwemihla ngemihla. Aba bantu baxela ukuphulukana nemveliso kunye nokukwazi ukugcina ubuchule kunye nokutsha.

Ipetroli yengqondo

Kutheni le nto abantu abathinjwe ngexesha lobhubhane, abo baxakeke ziiyure ezininzi zomsebenzi, kunye nabo bavalelwe edabini bengakwazi ukwenza izinto? Ukukuqonda oku, makhe sijonge ukusebenza kwengqondo njengokufana nendlela esebenza ngayo injini. Injini ifuna ipetroli ukuze ibaleke, kwaye abantu bafuna ipetroli yengqondo ukuze basebenze kumanqanaba okuyila nokuzalisekisa.

Ipetroli yengqondo ivela kumava omabini amatsha- inoveli, nasekuphumleni- ungenzi nto. Sikwafumana i-psychic fuel kwi-adventure yokuphindaphinda amava amadala ngokutsha. Oku kubandakanya ukuphuma ngaphandle kweendonga zethu ezine.

Sifuna ixesha kunye nendawo sedwa kunye nokudibana nabantu ukuze sincokole kwaye siziphumze. Kufuneka siye kwiindawo ezintsha kwaye sityelele iindawo ezindala-ilayibrari, iivenkile, iivenkile, iithiyetha, iindawo zomculo, kunye neepaki.

Sifuna ukulala ngokwaneleyo, okusemgangathweni. Sifuna amathuba okuphuma –– ukuzisa iingqondo zethu kwaye kungabikho nto iqhubekayo. Igalelo le-psychic eyaneleyo ye-psychic ilingana nokukhutshwa kweengcinga zokuyila kunye nokuziphatha kunye nemvakalelo yempilo-ntle.

Izisombululo zoBuchule obulahlekileyo

Sineengxaki zokungahambi kakuhle kubomi bethu ngexesha lobhubhane. Sifumana njani ipetroli kwimizimba yethu yengqondo xa sihluthwa ngokufana kwemihla ngemihla? Impendulo ilele ekuzinyanzeleni ukuba uphume kubunye bakho.

Suka kwiindonga zakho ezine. Phuma phandle uhambe okanye uhlale epakini. Ngena emotweni kwaye uthathe uhambo losuku kwiidolophu ezikufuphi. Yonwabela intwasahlobo ezayo kumantla e-hemisphere. Hlala ngaphandle ufunde. Ukunyuka intaba okanye ukuloba. Yakha into ngaphandle. Tyala igadi.

Qhuba uye kuzo zonke iindawo ozithandayo kwaye ukhumbule malunga namaxesha akho adlulileyo wokuva umculo, ukubona imidlalo, ukutya ngaphandle kwezo ndawo. Thatha ukutya okutyayo, utye emotweni yakho, okanye wenze ipikniki. Dibana nabahlobo epakini, ugcine ukudibana nabantu, kwaye unxibe iimaski.

Ukuba uhlala nabanye, cwangcisa usuku olunomxholo okanye ngokuhlwa ukuze wonke umntu anxibe isinxibo kwaye atshatise iimpahla kunye nokulungiselela ukutya okunxulumene noko- ubusuku base-Italiya okanye i-Mexico, i-Asiya, iSpanish, okanye isi-Thai. Cwangcisa ubusuku apho abantwana baphekela abazali nabazali bahlala ngaphandle kwekhitshi ngokupheleleyo kwaye baphumle kwenye indawo.

Bekela bucala iiyure ezininzi apho unexesha lakho wedwa xa kungekho mntu unokukhathaza. Ukurhweba ngokwenza oku kwilungu ngalinye losapho. Chitha eli xesha lilodwa ulilele, uzobe, ufunda okanye ulele. Yenza nantoni na ekuhlaziya kwaye ikuvuselele kwakhona.

Emva kokuzama ezinye zezi zinto, kuya kufuneka uzive ubuyambo lokubuya kwakho kwakudala, ispunky ngokwengqondo esinamafutha amatsha kunye nesondlo. Unokuba nemibono enobuchule kunye nemveliso evelayo engqondweni yakho. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo uyakuvuseleleka ngokwengqondo.

UAnnemarie Dooling, "Ukwenza kwanto kungakwenza ukuba uvelise ngakumbi," Ijenali yeWall Street, Ngomhla we-17 kuMatshi, ngo-2021.