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Ndiyazi ukuba ndinethamsanqa kangakanani ukuba ndinomkhathaleli onothando. Nangona esenokungayiboni ngolu hlobo, isigulo sam besinzima kuye njengokuba besinjalo nakum. Kodwa ubambekile kwaye akaze akhalaze malunga nemithwalo eyongezelelekileyo ekufuneka eyenzile. Intliziyo yam iya buhlungu kwabo bangenabani wokukhathalela ngale ndlela. Eli qhekeza ligubungela iindlela ngeendlela onokuwunciphisa ngazo umthwalo womkhathaleli wakho. Ijolise ikakhulu kubanonopheli abangamaqabane kodwa, ngaphandle kokuba lowo ukhathalelweyo ngumntwana, ezi ngcebiso zinokusetyenziselwa ukunceda abanye abanonopheli, njengabantwana bakho, abazali bakho, okanye abantakwenu.

1. Qiniseka ukuba umkhathaleli wakho uyayikhathalela impilo yakhe.

Kukho utyekelo lokuba abanonopheli bangazihoyi naziphi na iimpawu zonyango abanokuthi baziphuhlise ezingenamandla njengezo zakho. Ngenxa yoko, kuya kufuneka unyanzele umkhathaleli wakho ukuba afune uncedo lonyango. Kwaye ukuba umnonopheli wakho uphathwa ngento ethile, nokuba incinci, ungalibali ukubuza ukuba uqhuba njani!

2. Thetha ngokunyanisekileyo nomongi wakho malunga noko anokukwenza ngokufanelekileyo kwaye, kunye nabo, ucele uncedo.

Ukuba awuxoxi ngento efanelekileyo ukuba umnyamekeli akwenzele yona, unikwe uxanduva lokungakhathaleli, umnakekeli wakho unokucinga ukuba kufuneka enze yonke into Oku kunokukhokelela ekudinweni kukhathalelo, ukukhathala kwabanonopheli, kwaye kunokubangela impilo yomntu okhathalelayo impilo yakho. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba wena kunye nomkhathaleli wakho nizame kwaye nenze uvavanyo oluthembekileyo malunga nezinto anokuzenza ngokufanelekileyo.

Nje ukuba ukwenze oku, cinga ngento onokuzenzela yona emva koko uthethe nomongi wakho malunga nabantu ebomini bakho abanokufumaneka ukukunceda kwimisebenzi engenakho ukwenziwa nguwe okanye lowo umkhathaleleyo.

Ungaqala ngokujonga kwinqaku lam, "Indlela yokucela uNcedo." Uninzi lwethu luye lwafundiswa ukuba luphawu lobuthathaka ukucela uncedo, kodwa akunjalo. Xa umntu ecela uncedo lwam, andizange ndicinge, “Owu, ubuthathaka.” Ukongeza, sihlala sicinga ukuba ukuba abantu bafuna ukunceda, ngeza ngaphambili banikezela. Kuthathe iminyaka ukugula ukuqonda ukuba abantu bafuna ukunceda kodwa bafuna ukubuzwa.

3. Khangela iindlela zokugcina ulwalamano owawunalo ngaphambili.

Nokuba umnakekeli wakho liqabane lakho ebomini okanye elinye ilungu losapho, cinga ngento eyenze ulwalamano lwakho lwasebenza. Mhlawumbi kwakulula njengokunandipha ukuhleka kunye. Nangona ungasenako ukuya kwiklabhu yamahlaya okanye uthathe imovie ehlekisayo, ungabukela abahlekisi abakumabonwakude okanye kwikhompyuter. Ukuba ubuthandile ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi okanye amakhadi, yinto onokwazi ukuyenza usuka ebhedini ukuba ulala embhedeni. Ukuba ubuthandile ukuthetha ngezihloko ezithile, ezinje ngezopolitiko okanye imicimbi yokomoya, khetha ixesha losuku apho unamandla khona kwaye ubandakanye umnonopheli wakho kwincoko kangangoko unakho.

Kuya kufuneka uyile apha kwaye ucinge ngaphandle kwebhokisi, ngokungathi kunjalo. Ndifumanise ukuba ukugula okungapheliyo kubonakala kufuna uninzi lwe-bhokisi yokucinga! Ikwafuna ukucwangciswa ngononophelo, kodwa xa kufikwa ekugcineni ubudlelwane bakho, iya kuba "lixesha lokucwangcisa" elichithwe kakuhle.

4. Khuthaza umnakekeli wakho ukuba enze izinto ngaphandle kwakho.

Abantu abanonophela abantu badla ngokuba madolw 'anzima ukuzenzela izinto ezonwabisayo. Ndicinga ukuba oku kubangelwa yimeko yethu "sonke okanye ayikho" imeko yenkcubeko. Oku kukhokelela ekubeni abanonopheli bacinge ukuba ukuba bakhathalele omnye, kufuneka bazibophelele ixesha eli-100% okanye bayasilela emsebenzini. Ayonyani! Ayisiyiyo le nto kuphela elindele okuninzi kubo, kodwa inokukhokelela kumlondolozi aphelelwe ngumsebenzi.

Ndiyathemba ukuba uyakukhokela ekuqinisekiseni umkhathaleli wakho ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani kuye ukuba azinike ixesha lokuba azenzele. Kuya kufuneka uncede umkhathaleli wakho acinge ngeendlela zokuyila zokwenza izinto endlwini. Umzekelo, unokucebisa ukuba umnakekeli wakho azame i-Skype okanye i-FaceTime njengendlela yokuhlala enxibelelana nabantu.

5. Qiniseka ukuba umazisa umnakekeli wakho ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani.

Ndizibonile ndonwabe ngamanye amaxesha. Ndizakulungela ukwamkela ukutya okuphekwe ngumyeni wam ngaphandle kokuyeka ukucinga ngobuninzi benkathalo kunye nomzamo owenziweyo ekukulungiseni-ngaphezulu kwayo yonke eminye imisebenzi yakhe. Ndisebenza ekuphatheni yonke into ayenzayo njengesipho esixabisekileyo kunye nokuthi, "Enkosi." Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umnakekeli wakho uyazi ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani na sisipho onokuthi usinike imbuyekezo.

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