Indlela intetho yesondo enokuthintela ngayo ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo

Ukuthetha nabantwana ngesondo kunokuba yingxoxo enzima kubazali. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba uninzi lwabazali bayayenza: Uvavanyo olwenziwe nguMzali oCwangcisiweyo kunye neZiko leLatino kunye neMpilo yoSapho yaBafikisayo lafumanisa ukuba iipesenti ezingama-82 zabazali bathetha nabantwana babo ngesondo. Ngaphaya koko, ezi ncoko ziqala kwangoko, ngesiqingatha sabazali baxela ukuba bathethile nabantwana babo ngaphambi kweminyaka eli-10 kunye nama-80 epesenti bethetha nabantwana babo ngesondo ngaphambi kweminyaka eli-13.

Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabazali lusathathela ingqalelo "intetho yesondo" njengengxoxo enye enye esekwe kumatshini wesini. Iingcali zemfundo ngezesondo zithi iingxoxo zesondo kufuneka ziqhubeke ziincoko zijolise kakhulu kwiingxoxo zokuziphatha ngokwesondo okunempilo. Oku kubalulekile kuthintelo lobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo njengoko kuqikelelwa ukuba malunga nelinye kwishumi elivisayo liya kuba lixhoba lokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwesondo, ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngamazwi avela kwiqabane elithandanayo ngexesha lokufikisa. Olunye uphononongo olukhulu kulutsha oluphakathi kweminyaka eli-12 neli-18 lufumanise ukuba iipesenti ezili-18 zixeliwe ngokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kubudlelwane bazo. Ubundlobongela kubudlelwane buhlala buqala phakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 kunye ne-18, ke oko kuthetha ukuba le minyaka ibalulekileyo yokuseka indlela eyamkelekileyo nengamkelekanga kubudlelwane obusempilweni. Uphando lubonisa ukuba ulutsha olukwaziyo ukuthetha nabazali babo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunokwenzeka ukuba balubazise ulwabelwano ngesondo kwaye bazibandakanye nakwindlela ezikhuselekileyo zokwabelana ngesondo xa ekugqibeleni besabelana ngesondo. Ngelixa abanye abazali bexhalabile ukuba ukuthetha ngesondo kuyonyusa amathuba okuba umntwana wabo abelane ngesondo, izifundo zifumene okwahlukileyo. Uvavanyo lolutsha lufumanise ukuba ulutsha ngokubanzi babelana ngemilinganiselo yabazali malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesondo kwaye isigqibo sokulibazisa ngesondo kunokuba lula ukuba bangathetha ngokukhululekileyo kubazali babo malunga noko.

Apha ngezantsi kukho imigaqo ekufuneka ilandelwe ngabazali xa bethetha nabantwana babo malunga nokuziphatha okunesondo ngendlela esempilweni kunye nokugcina imizila yonxibelelwano ivulekile:

1. Akufanele kubekho "intetho yesondo" enye. Intetho yesondo kufuneka iqale kumanqanaba afanelekileyo ngokweminyaka (okt.Ukufaka iilebheli kumalungu omzimba ngamagama achanekileyo ngokwasemzimbeni) kwakamsinya nje ukuba abantwana bakho babe badala ngokwaneleyo ukuba baqonde kwaye baqhubeke kwinqanaba lokufikisa kunye nokuba ngabantu abadala rhoqo Iinjongo zezi ntetho kukugcina amajelo onxibelelwano evulekile ukuze abantwana nolutsha bazive bekhululekile ukuza kuthetha nabazali malunga nemiba enxulumene nobudlelwane kunye nokwabelana ngesondo.
2. Iingxoxo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo akufuneki ukuba zibe sesikweni. Xa abantwana bebancinci, phendula nje imibuzo yabo kumanqanaba afanelekileyo ngokwenyani nangokunyaniseka. I-CDC icebisa ukuba incoko engacwangciswanga nolutsha inokusebenza ngcono xa kuvela ithuba. Umzekelo, babonisa ukuba ukuncokola ubuso ngobuso kunokuba nzima ngexesha lokufikisa, kwaye iimeko ezinje ngokuqhuba emotweni inokuba ngamaxesha afanelekileyo okuzisa ezi zihloko zencoko.
3. Iingxoxo zesini esempilweni zihamba kunye neengxoxo zokuthintela ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo. Njengokuba abazali befuna ukuthintela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ukuze benze njalo, incoko kufuneka ibandakanye nengxoxo ngokuziphatha okunesondo. Ukuzithemba komzimba (ukungabi nazintloni malunga nobuni bakho kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngokubanzi) kunxulumene nokuziphatha okungekho mngciphekweni kwezesondo, okuthi emva koko kunciphise umngcipheko
4. Ngaphezulu kwama-75% enkqubo ye-prime-time equlathe uhlobo oluthile lwesini, kwaye umxholo wesondo kwi-intanethi uninzi. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi ukuba abantwana babo bafunda phi ngesondo kwaye yintoni kanye kanye abafunda ngayo. Abazali bafuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ulwazi olufunyanwa ngabantwana babo luchanekile kwaye luchanekile kwaye izimvo zivakalisiwe njengezinto ezixabisekileyo zosapho.
5. Abazali kufuneka bakhululeke kwaye bavuleke xa bethetha ngesondo nabantwana babo. Ukuba abantwana babona ukuba abazali bakhululekile malunga nokuthetha ngesi sihloko kuya kubakho amathuba okuba baya kufuna isikhokelo sabazali kwixa elizayo.
6. Kuphephe ukwenza izinto ngendlela ebaxiweyo. Kuqhelekile ukuba abazali babe nomsindo xa besiva ulwazi abangaluthandiyo okanye oluboyikisayo / olubenza bazive bengakhululekanga. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba iimpendulo ezimbi zabazali zithumela umyalezo ebantwaneni wokuba benze into embi okanye engalunganga. Oku kunokubangela ukuba bazive beneentloni ngalo ndlela kunciphisa amathuba okufikelela kubazali kwixa elizayo.

Unxibelelwano phakathi komzali nomntwana lubalulekile kuthintelo lobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo. Ngelixa uninzi lwezikolo lusenza uhlobo oluthile lwemfundo, oku kwenzeka rhoqo kwaye akunako ukugubungela yonke imiba yokuziphatha ngokwesondo esempilweni kunye nokuthintela ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo. Ke, kuxhomekeke kubazali ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana banolwazi olufunekayo ukuze babagcine bekhuselekile. Abazali kufuneka bathethe nabantwana rhoqo malunga nokuziphatha okuhle ngokwesondo. Ezi ncoko ziya kutshintshela kwifomu kwaye zisebenze njengoko abantwana bekhula, kodwa uphando lubonisa ukuba ukuba nezi ncoko rhoqo nabantwana kunganceda ukubakhusela kubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo.