Ukukhangela iinkumbulo ezilahlekileyo

Ukufakwa kwikhowudi kunye nokugcinwa, inkumbulo yethu iyamangalisa-ithatha kwaye imele inani elikhulu elingenasiphelo lolwazi oluvela kwihlabathi. Ngokufumana kwakhona, nangona kunjalo, inkumbulo yethu isikelwe umda ngokumangalisayo. Ngapha koko, ukubuyisa kwakhona yenye yezona mfihlakalo zinkulu zememori- kutheni ezinye iinkumbulo zibuyela kuthi ngokulula, ngelixa ezinye zihlala zifihliwe, kwanasemva kwemizamo ephindeneyo yokuzifumana. Nazi ezinye zeendlela zokukhuthaza ukubuyiswa kweenkumbulo zobuqu ezivela kwiwebhu enkulu edityanisiweyo eyimemori.

1) Phinda ujonge i iindawo yememori.

Xa kuziwa kwimemori, thina unako goduka kwakhona. Iindawo zexesha lethu elidlulileyo zibonelela ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo zokubuyisa iinkumbulo zobuqu ezikude. Ukutyelela iindawo ngaphambili ebomini bethu kunokufumana iinkumbulo ezingazange zikhunjulwe iminyaka emininzi, ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo. Ngobuninzi beempawu zokubuyisa ezichanekileyo, indawo yindawo yokwenene yendalo, ibiza iinkumbulo ekudala zilityelwe.

Iindawo ezikhethekileyo zinokufumana iinkumbulo ezindala kwangoko nangoko. Ngapha koko, ezi nkumbulo zifunyenweyo zibiza iinkumbulo ezingakumbi, zisongeza kwimemori yethu kunye nokuguqula inkqubo yesiqhelo yokukhupha eza nexesha kunye nobudala.

Ukuphinda ujonge iindawo zethu zangaphambili kubonisa ukuba ukubuyisa inkumbulo yexesha elide kubandakanya izinto ezimbini: ukumelwa kwememori ngokwayo kunye nendlela yokubuyisa eya kwimemori. Imemori yokuboniswa kweziganeko zobuqu zihlala zicacile kwaye zizinzile kwisithuba seminyaka emininzi, nokuba iindlela zokubuyisa zifihlakele kwaye azifikeleleki ekusetyenzisweni kwazo. Xa ezi ndlela zinamanyala ziphinde zavuselelwa zizinto zokubuyisa ezikhutshiweyo kwindawo zokwenyani zeziganeko, iinkumbulo esingakhange sizicinge kangangeminyaka zinokubuya ngamandla amangalisayo nangokucacileyo.

2) Cinga ngexesha elithile ebomini bakho kwaye ugxile kulo Nye amava okuqonda.

Gxila kwivumba okanye ubuso okanye ingoma okanye imvakalelo yomzimba. Amava egxila kwingqondo anokukhokelela kwamanye amava ahambelana noko, ekugqibeleni atyhile inkumbulo epheleleyo.

Unokwenza oku ngengqondo okanye unokusebenza ngokugqwesileyo. Ngaba wawuhlala kufutshane nevenkile yokubhaka njengomntwana? Yiya kwindawo yokubhaka - nayiphi na indawo yokubhaka - kwaye ubone ukuba amavumba abangela iinkumbulo. Dlala ingoma endala. Ukutyelela indawo yokudlala kwaye uye ezantsi kwisilayidi, ukhumbula iimvakalelo ezindala. Jonga amava obuyeko, kwaye ulandele izikhokelo zawo.

Ukuba inkumbulo yakho ibandakanya umntu othile kwaye uyazi ukuba sisiqholo okanye isepha esetyenzisiweyo, khangela loo mafutha okanye isepha, uyijoje, kwaye ubone ukuba yeyiphi na imifanekiso evelayo. Okanye ukuba ukutya kuyabandakanyeka, sampula oku kutya kwaye ugxile kwizinto ezithile ozithandayo. UMarcel Proust wayelindele uphando oluninzi lwenkumbulo xa waphawula umsinga weenkumbulo eziphuma kwincasa ye-madeleine encinci efakwe kwiti.

3) Landa umva kwimithombo yolwazi malunga neengcinga zakho malunga nehlabathi.

Thetha nabazali, abantakwenu, abahlobo bakho bakudala, kunye nabafundisi-ntsapho bangaphambili malunga neengcinga ezithile kunye neendlela zokucinga onazo. Oko bakuthethayo kunokutyhila iziganeko ezithile ezikhokelele kwezi ngcinga nakwizimo zengqondo.

Amava okufunda ayaqhubeka xa iinkumbulo eziphindaphindiweyo zeziganeko ezifanayo zidibana kulwazi ngokubanzi. Ukuphinda-phinda uphuma uye kwiivenkile zokutyela kukhokelela kukuqonda okungakumbi iivenkile zokutyela ngokubanzi-nanjengoko silibale iinkcukacha zesidlo ngasinye.

Esi sesinye sezizathu sokuba ngamanye amaxesha sidibanise okwenzekileyo ngamaxesha athile. Sibeka ulwazi malunga neziganeko ezifanayo ezinje ngemifanekiso eqingqiweyo, ukubeka indawo ngokweenkcukacha ngelixa sifumana ulwazi ngokubanzi.

Kungenxa yoko le nto abantwana ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi baneenkumbulo ezingcono kunabantu abadala. Umntwana omncinci unokukhumbula ngokucacileyo ukuhlangana okuthile ngelixa athengela iimpahla ngenye imva kwemini kuba loo mntwana usenokuba uye kuthenga iimpahla amaxesha ambalwa. Umntu omdala, nangona kunjalo, mhlawumbi uye wayokuthenga amakhulu amaxesha. Nangona umntwana enenkumbulo ecacileyo ngakumbi ngaloo mvakwemini, umntu omdala unememori etyebileyo negcweleyo kwiivenkile zeempahla ngokubanzi.

Yinkqubo eqhelekileyo yokufunda leyo. Kodwa le nkqubo inokubuyiselwa umva ngokufumana izehlo ezithile ezidityanisiweyo kulwazi ngokubanzi. Njengamaza omoya aphezulu anokubangela ukuba umlambo uhlehle umjelo kwaye unyuke unyuke, ukuthetha nabantu ababengoyena ndoqo wemiqondo yethu ngokubanzi kunye nezimo zengqondo kunokubangela imiba yeenkumbulo ngokubanzi ukuba zibaleke zinyuke zize ziye kumasebe abo athile. Ngale ndlela, sinokuzibuyisa iinkumbulo zeziganeko zangaphambili.

4) Xa inkumbulo efunwayo isiza kuwe, yirekhode .

Chaza inkumbulo ngokubhala okanye ukufota into efanelekileyo. Inzima zokufumana iinkumbulo kunzima ukuzifumana ngesizathu. Iindlela zabo zokubuyisa ziye zakhula kakhulu kwaye azafikeleleka. Ezo nkumbulo-nangona zicacile xa zibuya ekugqibeleni-zinokulityalwa kwakhona. Kule meko, imemori yangaphandle ithembeke ngakumbi kunememori yangaphakathi.

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Imemori yexesha elide iqulethe ingqokelela yeziganeko ezivela kwixesha lethu elidlulileyo. Kubomi bemihla ngemihla, ngamanye amaxesha siyayiqonda indlela imemori esiyiphethe ngayo. Sihamba ngevumba elingaqhelekanga esingakhange silinukise kangangeminyaka kwaye imemori endala ibuya ngesiquphe. Ngelixa sifunda incwadi, imemori eyahlukileyo ingena kuthi-inkumbulo ebonakala ngathi ayihambelani nale nto siyifundayo. (Ezo nkumbulo zingafunekiyo zibalulekile ukuba uziqaphele, njengoko zinokuba zizama ukukuxelela into ebalulekileyo.)

Ukuba unengxaki yokukhumbula into kwixa elidlulileyo, thatha ikhefu, kodwa unganikezeli. Imemori iphakathi, ndawo ndawo. Kufuneka ufumane indlela efanelekileyo yokubuyisa.