Ngaba Utata Wakho NguGay — okanye Ngaba UnguGay Gay?

Ngaba uyintombi utata wakhe osisitabane? Okanye ungutata olifanasini? Ngaba oku kube nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane bukayise nentombi? Ukuba kunjalo, ezi ziphumo zophando zilandelayo zinokuba luncedo kuni nobabini ngokwakha ubudlelwane obutofotofo nobunyanisekileyo.

1. Kuvavanyo luka-2020 (uJones, 2011), ngaphantsi nje kweepesenti ezi-6 zawo onke amadoda nabafazi baseMelika abangaphezulu kweminyaka eli-18 ubudala bazichaza njenge-LBGT. Phantse iipesenti ezi-3 bazithatha njengabantu abathandanayo, nangona amanani ahluka kakhulu ngokobudala. Nalu ulwahlulo.

isini: 3%
isitabane: 1.4%
isini: 0.7%
I-transgender: 0.6%

Ngobudala:
18–23: 16%
24–39: 9%
40–55: 4%
56–73: 2%
ngaphezulu kwe-74: 1%

Uninzi lwabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 banabazali abakwi-bracket yobudala engama-24 ukuya kuma-39. Oku kuthetha ukuba yi-9 yeepesenti kuphela yabazali abayi-LBGT ngokungafaniyo neepesenti ezili-16 zabantwana abadala abakwiminyaka ephakathi kwe-18 ne-23. eli qela.

2. Ukuba utata wakho uyi-LBGT, unesiqingatha esinokwenzeka sokuba ngumfazi we-LBGT ukuba abe nesini.

3. Uninzi lwabantwana ootata babo abangamafanasini bazalwa ngelixa oomama babo bokwenyama kunye notata wabo wendalo batshatile kwaye bahlala kunye. Ngenxa yokuba isiqingatha se-LBGT baseMelika bathandana ngokwesini, ayothusi le nto. (UJones, 2021)

4. Ukuba unayo utata oyisitabane okanye umama othandana nabanye abantu, emva kokuba bohlukene, ngowuphi kubo onokuphinda atshate okanye aphinde atshate kwaye emva koko aqhawule umtshato? Oomama abathandana nabesilisa abathandana nabasetyhini ngakumbi kunabazali abathandanayo abatshatileyo abatshatileyo. Kodwa ootata abathandanayo abanamathuba okuba bahlukane nabayeni babo kunokuba oomama abathandanayo beqhawula umtshato kubafazi babo. (ILau, 2012).

5. Amadoda athandana namanye amadoda anokufumana ucalucalulo olungaphezulu kolwesini esinye, ngakumbi ukuba ngabazali. Uluntu lwethu alwamkeli kangako ukuba amadoda athandana namanye abe ngootata kunabantu abathandanayo abangoomama.

Kodwa mhlawumbi olona phando lubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ootata kunye neentombi zabo banobudlelwane obusondeleyo xa ootata bethetha inyani-kwaye aba tata baphantsi koxinzelelo lweklinikhi kunabazali abafihla olu lwazi lubalulekileyo ebantwaneni babo (Tornello, 2018). Okulusizi kukuba ootata abathandana besisini esinye boyika ngaphezu koomama abathandana nabanye ukuba baxelele abantwana babo inyani, nokuba badala kangakanani. Oku akuloncedo kutata okanye kwintombi yakhe, kuba olu hlobo lokufihla lubangela uxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko kulwalamano lwabo. Ndikunike ingcebiso eneenkcukacha malunga nendlela yokuxoxa ngale micimbi inzima kutata-ntombazana kwincwadi yam Ukuphucula ubudlelwane boTata-Ntombi. Ke ukuba uyintombi okanye njengotata osisitabane nangoku ujikeleza ngesihloko, lixesha lokuba uzinike isipho ngokukhupha olu thambo egumbini.

ULau, C. (2012) Uzinzo lomtshato wesini esifanayo. Ijenali yoMtshato kunye neNtsapho, 74, 973 - 988

Nielsen, L. Ukuphucula ubudlelwane babawo-ntombi: Isikhokelo sabasetyhini kunye nooyise. (2021). Indlela.

I-Tornello, S. (2018) abantwana abadala bootata abathandanayo. Ijenali yobufanasini, 65, 1152-1166.