ULisa Snyder kunye nokufa kukaConner noBrinley

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U-Lisa Snyder oneminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesithandathu ujongene nesigwebo sentambo, otyholwa ngokubulala unyana wakhe oneminyaka eyi-8, uConner, kunye nentombi yakhe eneminyaka emi-4, u-Brinley, ngo-Septemba 23, 2019. Ngokuka Lisa, Conner Wayedandathekile kwaye enomsindo ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa esikolweni kwaye wazibulala ngokuzixhoma kwigumbi elingaphantsi lekhaya labo. Ukholelwa ukuba wambulala udadewabo, owafunyanwa ejinga iinyawo ezintathu kuye kuba, njengoko wayemxelele ngaphambili, woyika ukufa yedwa.

Ukusweleka kwangoko kwabangela urhano. "Singakhuseleka xa sisithi sinemibuzo ngokukhawuleza," latsho igqwetha lesithili uJohn Adams. "Abasibhozo, abaneminyaka esi-8 ubudala, ngokubanzi endiyaziyo, abazibulali." Kodwa uyaphazama.

Ukuzibulala ePreteens: Ngaba abantu abaneminyaka eli-8 ubudala bayazibulala?

Nangona ingaqhelekanga, abantwana abaneminyaka esi-8 bayazibulala. Bamalunga nama-33 abantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-5 neli-11 abazibulalayo minyaka le; ngunobangela wesithathu ophambili wokufa kweli qela leminyaka. NgoJanuwari 26, 2017, umzekelo, uGabriel Taye owayeneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala wazibulala emva kokukhaba kunye nokubethwa ngabafundi afunda nabo kumabanga aphantsi eCincinnati, eOhio. Kwiintsuku ezimbini kamva, wazixhoma ngetyathanga ebhedini yakhe.

Nokuba abantwana abancinci abenzi nto ngazo, iingcinga zokuzibulala ayisiyonto ithathwa kancinci. Ukuphazamiseka okuthile-uxinzelelo, i-ADHD, ukuphazamiseka ekutyeni, ukukhubazeka ekufundeni, okanye ukuphikiswa okuchasayo-kuthanda ukubeka umngcipheko kwiingcinga zokuzibulala. Nangona kunjalo, isenokungabi luvavanyo olwenza ukuba abantwana bazibulale ngaphandle kwabantu abadala abafuna ukuzibulala. Yindima enkulu yokudlala. Kubantwana, ukuzibulala kuhlala kuqhutywa ngakumbi ziimeko zobomi-ukungasebenzi kakuhle kosapho, ukungcungcuthekiswa, okanye ukusilela kwezentlalo-kunokuba neengxaki ezinde. Ubuncinci kwezinye iimeko, umntwana ufumana uxinzelelo kunxibelelwano, azive ekhathazeke kakhulu kodwa engazi ukuba angajamelana njani, kwaye emva koko enze isenzo esingxamisekileyo sokuzenzakalisa.

Ngaba ngokwenene aba bantwana balindele ukufa? Akucaci ukuba nabani na osemkhumbini wokunyanzelwa ucinga ngenene ngeziphumo zezenzo zakhe. Kodwa musa ukwenza impazamo, kwibanga lesithathu, phantse bonke abantwana bayaliqonda igama elithi "ukuzibulala," kwaye uninzi lwabo luyakwazi ukuchaza indlela enye okanye ezingaphezulu zokwenza oko. Ngelixa besenokungaziqondi zonke iinkcukacha ezingacacanga zokufa (umzekelo, abanye abantwana bacinga ukuba abantu abafileyo basakwazi ukuva nokubona okanye bajike babe ziziporho), kwibanga lokuqala, uninzi lwabantwana luyaqonda ukuba ukufa akunakuguqulwa, okt. abafi ababuyeli ebomini.

Ngaba abantwana bayazibulala?

Kucacile ukuba abanye abantwana bayazibulala. Kodwa kuthekani ngokuzibulala? Ukuba uLisa Snyder uyakholelwa, unyana wakhe oneminyaka esi-8 wabulala udade wabo oneminyaka emi-4, kuba esoyika ukufa eyedwa. Ukuba yinyani, ndiyakholelwa, iyakuba yeyokuqala ngohlobo lwayo. Oyena mntu wenza ukuzibulala endikhe ndadibana naye wayeneminyaka eyi-14, kwaye uninzi (iipesenti ezingama-65) ukuzibulala, ixhoba yayingumlingane osenyongweni (intombi).

Okulusizi kukuba baninzi abantwana abafa ngokuzibulala, kodwa ngamaxhoba. Abantu abangaphezu kwe-1,300 babulawa ngokuzibulala eMelika ngo-2017, malunga ne-11 ngeveki. Amashumi amane anesibini babengabantwana kunye nolutsha olungaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 ubudala. Ngaba ngaboni? Amadoda nabafazi abadala, amalungu osapho, amaqabane akhoyo ngoku okanye angaphambili osenyongweni, oomama nootata. Ngokwezibalo, ootata abaphindaphinda kabini oomama benza ukuzibulala apho umntwana abulawa khona, abantwana abadala bahlala bexhoba kunentsana, kwaye phambi kokubulala, umzali ubonakalisile ubungqina boxinzelelo okanye kwengqondo. Oko kusibuyisela kuLisa.

Kuthekani ngoomama ababulala abantwana babo?

Kule minyaka ingamashumi amathathu idluleyo, abazali baseU.S. Oomama ababulala abantwana babo bathanda ukwahluka ngokuxhomekeke kubudala bomntwana. Umzekelo, oomama abenza i-neonaticide-ukubulawa komntwana kwisithuba seeyure ezingama-24 zokuzalwa kwakhe-bahlala bebancinci (bengaphantsi kweminyaka engama-25), bengatshatanga (iipesenti ezingama-80) abasetyhini abanokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo abangafumani nkathalo ngaphambi kokubeleka. Xa kuthelekiswa noomama ababulala abantwana abadala, kunqabile ukuba badakumbe okanye baphatheke ngengqondo kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba bakukhanyele okanye bakufihle ukukhulelwa ukusukela ekukhulelweni. Ukubulawa kweentsana, ukubulawa komntwana ophakathi komhla omnye nonyaka omnye, kwenzeka ikakhulu koomama abanomceli mngeni kwezoqoqosho, ukuhlala bodwa ngokwasentlalweni kunye nabanonopheli abasisigxina; Okona kuxhaphakileyo, kukusweleka ngengozi nesiphumo sokuxhatshazwa okuqhubekayo (“ebengayeki ukulila”), okanye umama ebegula kakhulu engqondweni (ukudakumba okanye isifo sengqondo).

Xa kuziwa kwifilidi, okt ukubulawa kwabantwana ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-1, kuya kusiba nzima ngakumbi.Uphando lubonisa ukuba izizathu ezintlanu eziphambili ziqhuba ukubulawa kwabantwana abadala: 1) Kwi-filicide yokuzincama, umama ubulala umntwana wakhe, kuba ekholelwa ukuba ukufa yeyona nto ibalulekileyo emntwaneni (umzekelo, umama ozibulalayo akanakunqwenela ukushiya engenamama. ukujongana nehlabathi elingenakunyamezeleka); (b) kwi-psychotic filicide, umama ophethe ngengqondo okanye odlamkileyo ubulala umntwana wakhe ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo (umzekelo, umama unokulandela imiyalelo yokubulala); c) xa kusenzeka into ebulalayo yokuphathwa gadalala, ukufa akucetywanga kodwa kubangelwa kukuhlukunyezwa kwabantwana, ukungakhathalelwa, okanye iMunchausen syndrome ngummeli; d) kwifilidi engafunekiyo yomntwana, umama ucinga ngomntwana wakhe njengesithintelo; e) i-rarest, iqabane lokuziphindezela ngokuziphindezela, lenzeka xa umama ebulala umntwana wakhe ngokukodwa ekonzakaliseni uyise womntwana ngokwasemphefumlweni.

Ngelixa uLisa Snyder emsulwa de afunyanwe enetyala, ezinye iinyani eziye zavela zichaphazela. Inye, ngo-2014, abantwana bakaLisa Snyder basuswa kwikhaya labo ziiNkonzo zoKhuseleko loMntwana. Babuyisiwe ngoFebruwari 2015. Ababini, omnye wabahlobo bakaLisa Snyder uxelele amapolisa ukuba kwiiveki ezintathu phambi kokusweleka kwabantwana, uLisa wamxelela ukuba unxunguphele, akakwazi kuphuma ebhedini, kwaye akasakhathali ngabantwana bakhe. .

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