Asingabo Bonke Abasindileyo Ekudubuleni Kwesikolo Abasindileyo

Ukuzibulala okulusizi okubuyela umva kwabafundi ababini ababefunda eStoneman Douglas High School eParkland, eFlorida ngexesha lonyaka ophelileyo wokubulawa kwabantu kusebenza njengesikhumbuzo esibalulekileyo nesibuhlungu sokuba asingabo bonke abasindileyo kudutyulo lwesikolo abasindayo. Uloyiko, ukoyikeka, kunye nosizi olu lutsha lunamava kunokubangela iimpawu zoxinzelelo lwasemva koxinzelelo (i-PTSD) zobukrakra obufanayo nobamagqala emfazwe. Ngelixa abanye bekwazi ukufikelela kwiinkonzo zononophelo lwempilo ezikumgangatho ophezulu kwaye bafumane indlela elungileyo eya phambili, abanye banokuntywila ekuphelelweni lithemba. Iziyobisi, utywala kunye nokuqala kweminye imiba yempilo yengqondo exhaphakileyo kubantu abancinci kunokongeza umlilo, kukhokelele kwiingxaki ezimbi.

Ngokudutyulwa kwesikolo okwandayo minyaka le — bekukho irekhodi lama-24 ngo-2018- kwaye izithili kwilizwe liphela zifuna abafundi ukuba benze into abanokuyenza xa bejamelene nomdubuli okhutheleyo, siza kubona uninzi lwabantu abatsha bengena Ikholeji eneemeko ezisusela kuxinzelelo olukhulu kunye noxinzelelo kwi-PTSD epheleleyo. Aba bafundi baya kufuna ukhathalelo lobuchwephesha kunye nokubeka esweni ukuphapha ukuqinisekisa impilo yabo kunye nokhuseleko, kunye nabo babangqongileyo. Ngelishwa, ezinye iikholeji neeyunivesithi ziye zabanzima ukunceda abafundi abaneemeko zempilo yengqondo ezinobungozi. Ngaba bakulungele abo bane-PTSD kunye nentiyo ehamba nayo, ukungathembani, ukuziva unetyala, isizungu, ukuqaqanjelwa bubuthongo, amaphupha amabi kunye nokuqina kweemvakalelo?

Impendulo: Kufuneka ukuba babe njalo. Kodwa ukwenza njalo, kufuneka bazibophelele kwimigaqo yothintelo efuna ukubona eyona nto ibonakalayo inokubakho kwimeko enokubakho kunokuba balinde imiqondiso ecacileyo yosongelo oluzayo. Oku kufuna ukuba kudalwe amaqela ovavanyo ezoyikiso ahlukeneyo ukuze achonge abantu okanye amaqela asemngciphekweni. La maqela kufuneka afumane uqeqesho, ahlangane rhoqo kwaye asebenzise iiprotocol zokulandela umkhondo "weflegi ebomvu" kunye neempawu zesilumkiso kwangethuba. Ngokubalulekileyo, kufuneka baseke inkqubo emisela iintsimbi zenkqubo yealam xa kufuneka njalo, zibangela ukuba amalungu eqela enze uphando ngokukhawuleza, enze uvavanyo lokugrogrisa kunye nokumisela ezona ndlela zokungenelela, ukwazisa uluntu kunye nokuphendula.

Iintsapho zinendima eziyidlalayo. Abazali banokubakhuthaza abantwana babo ababotshelwe kwikholeji abanemicimbi yezempilo yengqondo echongiweyo kunye / okanye namava abuhlungu okwenzeka ngaphambili ukuba batyikitye ukukhutshwa kugunyazisa oogqirha kunye nabaphathi beekholeji ukuba babelane ngenye indlela ngolwazi lwabucala kunye nolwazi lwezifundo. Banokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wabo uku-radar yesikolo ngokulungiselela iintlanganiso noMphathi wabaFundi kunye neziko lokucebisa, ukuthotyelwa komthetho, iofisi yokukhubazeka, nabanye, besasaza ngokubanzi ulwazi lwabo loqhakamshelwano. Ngaphezu koko, banokubhengeza iingcali zempilo yengqondo yengingqi kunye namasebe akhawulezileyo esibhedlele anikezela ngeenkonzo zengqondo kunye / okanye zokusebenzisa gwenxa iziyobisi ukuqinisekisa ukuba ababoneleli basondele kwaye baqhelene nomntwana wabo kwimeko yengxaki.

Okubuhlungu kukuba, ukudutyulwa kwabafundi kwaba yinxalenye yobomi kweli lizwe. Ngelixa singekayifumani indlela yokubanqanda, sinokwenza okungakumbi ukukhusela ngcono abafundi abathi ngenxa yokoyika ukubulawa kwabantu okunje kubangele imiba enzulu yezempilo yengqondo ukuba bangathethi nto ngabo baye bazibonela ngokwabo izoyikiso zabo.