I-Nymphomaniac: Jonga ngokuNyanisekileyo ukuXhatshazwa ngokwesini kwabasetyhini?

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Le Filimu iyifumana ngokuchanekileyo

Ifilimu entsha yeLars von Trier Nymphomaniac: Umqulu I libali lokuvuma izono likaJoe (uCharlotte Gainbourg), umfazi ohlukumezekileyo, ogcwele iintloni, obafazi. Siqala ukudibana naye elele e-alley echibini legazi lakhe. Ufunyanwa apho nguSeligman (uStellan Skarsgård), indoda enobubele emngenisayo kwaye imkhulise ngeti eshushu, ibhedi efudumeleyo kunye neseti yovelwano. Kuye, uJoe udlulisa imbali yakhe yobomi bokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Uninzi lwabantu ababona le filimu banokuzibuza: Ngaba iyinyani le movie? Ngaba abafazi abanjengoJoe bakhona ngenene?

Ewe, emva kweminyaka engaphezulu kwama-20 ndichithe ukunyanga kunye nokubhala malunga nemicimbi yokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokusondelelana, ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba abantu basetyhini abanjengoJoe ngokuqinisekileyo bakhona, kwaye ifilimu ichanekile ngokubonisa kwayo-kungasathethwa ke ngokwenza umdla, ngokuziphatha kakuhle, nangobugcisa yakhiwe. (Ngokuqinisekileyo, iphakathi kwemisebenzi emihle kaVon Trier.) Ngamafutshane, Nymphomaniac: Umqulu I ibonelela ngokuboniswa kweentlobo zokuziphatha kwabantu ababhinqileyo ngokwesini ezinokuthi zibonakalise njengempendulo yokulibaziseka kukungakhathalelwa, ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo, kunye nezinye iindlela zentlungu eyenzeka ngamanye amaxesha ebuntwaneni. Kananjalo, le bhanyabhanya iyancedisa ngokugqibeleleyo kwifilimu yango-2011 enamandla ngokulinganayo neyichanekileyo Iintloni , ebonakalisa abantu abadala ukuba baxhatshazwe ngokwesini ekuphenduleni ukungasebenzi komntwana.

Zombini Nymphomaniac: Umqulu I kwaye Iintloni zinobumnyama, ziyabukrakra, zinobungqongqo, kwaye zinomfanekiso wokwabelana ngesondo, ngenxa yoko ngekhe zibekho kubabukeli abanentliziyo etyhafileyo. Kodwa ukuba unomdla wokuziva ungonwabanga, uyimfihlo, uzaliswe lihlazo kwihlabathi labantu abathembele gwenxa kwimicimbi yesondo ukuba babaleke kwaye bazihlukanise noxinzelelo kunye nokukhathazeka ngokweemvakalelo / ngokwasemphefumlweni (kubandakanya iintlungu ezingasonjululwanga zabantwana), uphumelele ' t jonga ngcono kunoko zibonelelwa zezi bhanyabhanya zimbini.

Isihloko esingathandekiyo

Ngaphambi kokuya phambili, kufuneka nditsho ukuba andisithandi isihloko se- Nymphomaniac: Umqulu I . Iminyaka, bendiphikisana nokusetyenziswa kwegama elithi nymphomaniac. Ngeliphandle, ligama elidala nelithobayo elisetyenziselwa ukujongela phantsi abantu ababelana ngesondo. Ayilogonyo lwezamayeza okanye lwengqondo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayiloncedo nakubani na. Ngeliphandle, ukubiza ibhinqa eli-hypersexual i-nymphomaniac malunga nokuba novelwano kunye nokuqonda njengokubiza isiselo esinxilisayo (oko, ngelishwa, kwakuyinto eqhelekileyo de kwaba ngamashumi ambalwa eminyaka eyadlulayo). Oko kwathethi, ukusetyenziswa kweli gama lihlazo inokuba yayilukhetho olunxulumene nesicwangciso ngu-von Trier ngokuchasene nesihloko nje esinomtsalane. Ngokuqinisekileyo, eli gama liyahambelana nokuzenzela ihlazo kuJoe. Ngapha koko, uzichaza "njengomntu ombi" phantse kwangoko, kwaye zange nangelinye ixesha angazisusi kobo buzibonakalisayo.

Into ebangela umdla kukuba, umbono kaJoe ongathandekiyo ohambelana nokuzihlola kwabo phantse bonke abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye, ngakumbi abo bangamabhinqa kwaye akufuneki bajongane nokuziphatha kwabo ngokwesondo kuphela kunye neziphumo, kodwa neelebheli ezihlazisayo- isela, ihenyukazi, ukunyathela, i-nymphomaniac, kunye nokunye okunje-ukuba uluntu lwasentshona lunamathela kwaba bafazi, nokuba abo bafazi banesondo elininzi ngenxa yokuba bonwabile, kuba behlawulwa ngalo, okanye ngenxa yokuba libanika amandla okwexeshana olawulo ngaphezulu koxinzelelo lobomi bokuqala. Ukubeka nje, uluntu lwethu alubavumeli abantu basetyhini ukuba bazimisele ngokwesini nangasiphi na isizathu, kwaye xa umntu wasetyhini egqitha ngaphaya kwemida yento eyamkelekileyo ekuhlaleni uba ngumdlalo olungileyo nakuphi na ukuphathwa gadalala abanye abantu abafuna ukukufumba-oku ngaphandle kwento yokuba emadodeni, Ukuziphatha kwe-hypersexual akulindelanga kuphela kodwa kuqhwatyelwa izandla.

Ukuphonononga iZenzo zikaJoe

Uninzi lwabafundi ngoku lusenokuzibuza ukuba, nangona ndiyidelela ileyibhile ye-nymphomaniac, ndiza kugweba ndibeke isimilo sikaJoe, mhlawumbi ndide ndisiphathe kakubi. Andiyo. Ngapha koko, ngokokuba ndixhalabile, nawuphina umntu oxhatshazelwe ngokwesini, onwabile malunga naloo nto, ozalisekisiweyo kukuziphatha kwakhe, engabenzakalisi abanye, kwaye engafumani ziphumo zibi kufuneka azive ekhululekile ukuphuma kwaye aphumelele ngaphandle kokugwetywa mna okanye omnye umntu, nokuba ungubani na. Ngokukrakra, phuma uye apho kwaye ube nexesha elimnandi. Ndikonwabele. Kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto ibonisiweyo Nymphomaniac: Umqulu I , kwaye ayisiyiyo le ndiyibonayo ngokwam kunyango lwam.

Ewe kunjalo, inyani yokuba andidibani nabantu abaninzi abahlengahlengisiweyo abesilisa nabasetyhini kwimisebenzi yam yonyango ayimangalisi. Ndiyathetha, kutheni ndiza? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu abonwabileyo kwaye banelisayo ubomi abahlali befuna uncedo lwengqondo. Njengoninzi lwabanyangi, abathengi bam ngabantu abaziphethe kakubi ngokubakhathazayo-kubenza bazive beneentloni kwaye behlelwe ziziphumo ezibi. Ngapha koko, ndihlala ndibona amadoda nabafazi kwi-nadir yabo epheleleyo, xa bebethwa, benamagazi, kwaye boyisiwe-njengoJoe xa uSeligman embona ephantse wangabikho zingqondweni kwindlela eseleyo. Kwaye bakube baseofisini yam aba bantu babelana ngeembali zabo ezityhafisayo nam, kanye njengokuba uJoe ebalisa eyakhe kuSeligman (nangona uninzi lwabathengi bezonyango bengazukuvela kwangoko njengoJoe noSeligman).

Okulusizi kukuba, ibali elixelwa nguJoe lelinye bendinokuzibhala ngokwam njenge-amalgam yabathengi bam ababhinqileyo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesondo kwaqala kwangoko ebomini. Nangona kubonakala ngathi wayephethwe gadalala ngokwesondo ngabazali bakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo wayengahoywanga kwaye mhlawumbi exhatshazwa ngumama wakhe, emenza ukuba azimanye notata wakhe ngeendlela ezingalunganga. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, indlela aziphethe ngayo ngokwesondo iye yanda-amaqabane amaninzi (uninzi lweshumi ngosuku), kunye nemisebenzi yesondo enzulu. Uchitha phantse lonke ixesha lakhe lasimahla eqhubeka nokwabelana ngesondo, ukuya kuthi ga apho akanazo ezinye izinto anomdla kuzo. Impendulo yakhe kulo naluphi na uhlobo lokungahambi kakuhle ngokweemvakalelo ngesondo. (Xa utata wakhe esweleka esibhedlele, ulala nomntu omgcinayo. Kamva, xa utata wakhe esweleka, uvuseleleka ebhedini yakhe yokufa. amaqabane anokubakho kubudlelwane obusenyongweni ngokweemvakalelo. Uhlala engazihoyi iziphumo zokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesondo. (Xa etshabalalisa umtshato wendoda enye akaziva nto ngaye okanye inkosikazi yakhe nabantwana, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akayitshintshi indlela aziphethe ngayo. ("Uvumela" okanye "uyala" imisebenzi ethile, kwaye ngaxa lithile uxelela uSeligman malunga "namalungelo" anikwa elinye lamaqabane akhe ahlala nawo.) Ngamafutshane, zonke iimvakalelo, iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha okuchazwa nguJoe zezi eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabasetyhini abathandana nabantu abathandanayo xa bephendula kwintlungu yobomi bokuqala.

Ndicinga ukuba eyona ndima ndiyithandayo yefilimu yenzeka xa uSeligman echaza kuJoe ngokwakhiwa komculo kaJohann Sebastian Bach. Uyamxelela ukuba uBach uhlala efaka iingoma ezininzi ezizimeleyo kunye ukuze enze ukudityaniswa kodwa ngokudibeneyo (ubuchule obaziwa ngokuba yi-polyphony). Ngokukhawuleza uJoe uyayiqonda le ngcamango, esungula inkcazo yabathandi abathathu abahlukeneyo (ngokuhambelana nomculo weplophonic onenxalenye ezintathu abamamela yena noSeligman). Kucacile ukuba kuJoe ngamnye waba bathandi uyinto eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye nganye nganye ihlangabezana neemfuno ezithile zomoya ezizodwa: eyokuqala inika ukondla, okwesibini kubonelela ngesini sobulwanyana, owesithathu uqinisekisa ubukho bakhe. Ndihlala ndilubona olu hlobo lokwahlulahlula phakathi kwabantu abathandana nabantu abathandana besini esinye. Bavele "bazibiyela" iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi babo. Ngale ndlela, iimvakalelo zabo ezahlukileyo kunye nokuziphatha akuboyisi. Ngelishwa, kuba aba bantu abakwazi ukudibanisa ngempumelelo ukugqitha kwabo kunye nolwangoku, ukuzazisa kwabo ekugqibeleni kuyonakalisa, kukhokelela kudideko, uloyiko kunye neentlungu ezixineneyo zengqondo.

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