Uncedo lwezeengqondo kwiinkqubo zokungachumi okanye ukuNcediswa kokuZala kwakhona

Umxholo

• Ezi nkqubo zihlala zifuna kakhulu kwinqanaba leengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.
• Inkqubo ejongene nokuncedisa ukuvelisa kwakhona
• Ukulawula uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo
• Unyango lwengqondo lunokusinceda njani?

Ezi nkqubo zihlala zifuna kakhulu kwinqanaba leengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.

Ukungachumi, kuzo zonke izinto eziguquguqukayo, yingxaki exhaphakileyo, ikakhulu ngenxa yokukhula kweminyaka apho sijonga ukuba ngabazali, nangona inokubangelwa zizinto ezininzi kwaye, kumaxesha amaninzi, akukho nkcazo yokuba kutheni unyana / intombi ekudala ilangazelelwa ingafiki.

Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, okubonakalayo kukuba kubangela uxinzelelo lwengqondo. Yimeko engaphaya kolawulo lwabantu kwaye engathethwayo malunga kakhulu, ke bathambekele ekubeni boyike kwaye banezixhobo ezimbalwa zokuyilawula.

Inkqubo ejongene nokuncedisa ukuvelisa kwakhona

Inkqubo ihlala iqala xa isibini sithatha isigqibo sokuba nomntwana kwaye siqala ukufumanisa ukuba kubabiza ixesha elingaphezulu kunokuba bekulindelwe, oku kudala inqanaba lokungonwabi, elixhomekeke emntwini, ixesha elithathayo, ukuba bayafunyanwa okanye ayizizo izizathu zoku kulibaziseka, nokuba uyazi okanye ungazi ukuba ungaba nabo na abantwana, nokuba ngaba kuye kwakho ukukhupha izisu ngaphambili, njl.

Kwelinye icala, isibini esihlala sikwisimo sokuqalisa inkqubo yokuncedisa yokuzala okanye hayi. Ukuthathwa kwezigqibo kuhlala kuntsokothile kwaye ukuba kugqityiwe ekubeni kunjalo, okanye nokuba kwenziwe ngolu hlobo ngugqirha, kunyanzelekile ukuba uzilungiselele ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye nenkxaso yengqondo iyacetyiswa kuba ayisiyondlela elula inqanaba leemvakalelo. . Kuyimfuneko ukusebenza, phakathi kwezinye izinto, okulindelweyo kunyango (ukuzama ukufezekisa ulungelelwaniso phakathi kwenyani kunye nokuzithemba), ukunyamezelana nokukhathazeka, ukungaqiniseki, uloyiko, ixhala, ulawulo lokulinda, njl.

Ukulawula uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo

Ewe kunjalo, ukuba isiphumo asiyonto oyifunayo, inkxaso ethe kratya iyafuneka kwaye usebenze nomntu nokuba usendleleni yokuzingisa kunye nolawulo loxinzelelo kunye nentlungu eveliswayo, okanye ukukhapha iqabane abagqiba kwelokuba balushiye unyango. ukuziva unetyala, ukungaphumeleli, ukudana njl.njl.

Izigqibo, njengesiqhelo kunyango, zenziwa zizigulana, nangona kuyinyani ukuba isayikholojisti kufuneka iqinisekise ukuba ezi zigqibo azenziwa phantsi kwefuthe leemvakalelo ezithintela ukuba nengqiqo, umzekelo, ukuba iqabane / umntu ogqibe ekubeni ukuqhubeka nonyango xa usandula ukufunda ukuba iziphumo bezingalunganga, ungenza njalo ngenxa yokudakumba ngelo xesha, nto leyo engalunganga.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu / isibini singalahli ukusebenza, Oko kukuthi, umsebenzi kufuneka wenziwe ukuze baqhubeke besenza izinto ezifanayo okanye ezifanayo kakhulu ukuze bakwazi ukuzonwabisa kwaye bangavelisi ukuthanda izinto okunokubangela isifo kunye nomonakalo. iqabane. Kuqheleke kakhulu ukuba ezi nkqubo zingayonakalisa imeko yesi sibini, ukuba bathetha ngalo mbandela kuphela, ukuba irascibility inyukile, abafuni kwenza ezinye izinto, ukuba ubudlelwane bezesondo bujikeleze ekukhulelweni, njl. ngoncedo lwesayikholojisti, kwenziwa umsebenzi ukunqanda oku kungenzeki okanye ukuzama ukukulungisa okanye ukunciphisa ukuba sele isenzeka.

Unyango lwengqondo lunokusinceda njani?

Ukulinda, kunye nemvakalelo yokunqongophala kolawulo, yenye yeenkalo eziphazamisa umntu. Xa umntwana engafiki, nokuba isibini sisezandleni zokuncedisa ukuzala, kufuneka sicinge ukuba asinaso isisombululo ezandleni zethu, ukuba zininzi izinto ezingaphaya kwamandla ethu, ngaphezulu, njengoko sinazo uphawule, ngamanye amaxesha asazi nokuba kutheni ingafiki, ke le mvakalelo idala ukungazithembi okungakumbi ukongeza ixhala lokulinda.

Enye into edla ngokudala iintlungu ezininzi kuxa umntu / isibini sifumanisa ukuba abanakuba ngabazali bemvelo kwaye bafuna ukuba njalo. Ngokucacileyo oku kukhokelela kukubandezeleka, unxunguphalo, kunye noxinzelelo. Okwangoku, unyango kufuneka lujolise ekulawuleni iintlungu, ukuveza iimvakalelo, ukubonelela ngezixhobo zokuhambisa umsindo, ukuziva unetyala, ukudana, njl., ukwandisa iinjongo, ukuvavanya ukhetho… / iqabane kunye nenqaku apho likhoyo.

Ngamafutshane, sithethile malunga neenkqubo ezizezomntu kwaye zahlukile komnye nomnye, nangona kunjalo, bahlala bethetha ukuba banamava oxinzelelo, kwaye banentlawulo eninzi yeemvakalelo kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba isayikholojisti Khapha esi sibini okanye umntu ochaphazelekayo ukukunceda ulawule yonke into eyenzekayo, ukongeza, nangona inkxaso kwezentlalo ibaluleke kakhulu, abantu abasingqongileyo abaqhelene nokusinceda, kungoko eMariva Psicólogos sicebisa, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ukuzibeka ezandleni zesazi ngengqondo ezinokukunceda.