Izibonelelo zexesha elingacwangciswanga

Abazali, ngakumbi abo babantwana abancinci, banenkxalabo yokuba abantwana babo abafumani lukhulu ekufundeni kwi-Intanethi njengoko besenza kwigumbi lokufundela. Ukufunda nge-Intanethi kukwathetha ukwanda kwexesha lesikrini, uninzi lwabazali ebesele belumkile. Ezi zinto zixhalabisayo zisemthethweni: Ukubhencwa ngaphezulu kwizikrini kunokugqwesa kwaye kuphazamise ingqondo, ethi yona ithiyeke inkqubo yokufunda.

Intlalontle ikwayinto ebalulekileyo yokufunda emntwini enegalelo kumacandelo amaninzi ophuhliso lwabantwana. Kodwa okwangoku, izicwangciso ezahlukeneyo zezikolo ezenziwa ngootitshala ukuphendula ubhubhane we-COVID-19 zingaphaya kolawulo lwabazali. Ke, abazali banokubaxhasa njani abantwana babo kwezi meko zingaqhelekanga?

Apho kunokwenzeka, abazali kufuneka benze konke okusemandleni abo ukulinganisa usuku lwesikolo oluqhelekileyo, baxhomekeke kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo, ukuze ezi meko zintsha ziphazamise kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokunceda abantwana bafumane okuninzi ekufundeni kwi-Intanethi:

• Yakha isakhiwo malunga nomhla wesikolo. Nokuba ungakanani na ubudala, umntwana wakho kufuneka aphume ebhedini, ahlambe amazinyo, anxibe, kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, angene kwelinye igumbi ukuqala ukufunda kwi-Intanethi. La manyathelo abonakala ngathi mancinci kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bahlengahlengise iingqondo zabo ukuze bazilungiselele ukubandakanya umsebenzi wabo wesikolo.
• Ukuphelisa ezinye izinto ze-elektroniki ngexesha lesikolo. Ngokukodwa kubantwana abakwiminyaka yobudala obuphakathi nangaphantsi, abazali kufuneka baqiniseke ukuba abanako ukufikelela kwimidlalo yokudlala okanye kwezinye izixhobo xa kufuneka begxile ekufundeni.
• Faka ikhefu elifutshane kude nescreen. Nabani na unokunxitywa lixesha elandisiweyo lescreen, ke kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ikhefu rhoqo, nokuba ume ngenyawo, wolule, okanye ufumane umoya omtsha. Utshintsho kwimeko-bume luluncedo ngokukodwa, ke ixesha elingaphandle lilungile.
• Misela inkqubo yesiqhelo yomsebenzi wasekhaya ukuphuma kwesikolo. Xa usuku lwesikolo luphela, khuthaza abantwana ukuba bathathe ixesha lokuphumla ukwenza eminye imisebenzi ngaphambi kokuba babuyele kwiscreen somsebenzi wasekhaya njengoko kufuneka.

Ukuba abazali banokunceda abantwana babo bagcine ulwakhiwo kunye nokugxila, banokwandisa ukusebenza ngokufunda kwi-Intanethi ngelixa kusendaweni.

Kwiiyure zaphambi nasemva kwesikolo, abazali kufuneka batyhalele abantwana babo kwimisebenzi ye-screen. Ingqondo ekhulayo ayakhelwanga ukuba isebenzisane kuphela nezikrini, ke kubalulekile ukuba abantwana babe nakho ukuthoba umthetho. Ukwehliswa komthetho kwenzeka xa ingqondo iqhubeka "ngokuzenzekelayo" kwaye akufuneki ukuba isebenzise ulwazi olutsha. Imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi yokuqonda inokuthintela, kwaye ingqondo itshintshela kwimeko apho inokuphumla kwaye iphinde ifumane amandla.

Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kwiintsuku zesikolo xa abantwana bezama ukungenisa ulwazi olutsha ngeeyure ngexesha. Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe apha ngasentla, ixesha elingaphandle kwomoya omtsha liluncedo ngakumbi. Abazali kufuneka bazame ukubandakanya unxibelelwano lwasentlalweni ngoku apho kunokwenzeka.

Iintsapho ezininzi zinxibelelene nabamelwane okanye abahlobo ukwenza ukubekwa bodwa "iipods" ukuze zikwazi ukuchitha ixesha kunye, nokuba zezomdlalo wokulanda, ukuhamba ngeqela, okanye uhambo oluya kunxweme olungagutyungelwanga. Nokuba umgama kangakanani, abantwana baya kuxhamla ngakumbi nakoluphi na unxibelelwano lwangaphakathi lomntu kunokuba beya kwenza isikrini. Ukuqhagamshela ubuso ngobuso yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yabantwana yokuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo kunye nokuzazi kwabo.

Kukwakho nezibonelelo kwezi meko zintsha ekufuneka abazali bazamkele kwaye bazigxininise, njengethuba elinqabileyo lexesha elingacwangciswanga. Ngelixa ulwakhiwo ngexesha losuku lwesikolo lubalulekile, oku kunokwenzeka ukuba lelinye lamaxesha okuqala uninzi lwabantwana olungakhange lube nalo usuku lwabo lonke ucwangciselwe umzuzu, ukusuka kusasa kude kube sebusuku. Bakhuthaze ukuba basebenzise eli xesha ukuphonononga imisebenzi emitsha kwaye batyhile umdla omtsha.

Enye yezinto ezilungileyo kakhulu kubantwana lixesha elivulekileyo abanokudlala ngalo. Ukudlala ngokwakho kuyafuneka ekwakheni isiseko esomeleleyo nesizimeleyo emntwaneni. Ukufunda okunemilinganiselo emithathu kusebenzisa zonke izivamvo ukuphonononga kwaye kuluncedo olukhulu kwingqondo ekhulayo, kwaye phantsi kweemeko "eziqhelekileyo", uninzi lwabantwana alufumani ngokwaneleyo. Ngokwenyani, amandla okulungiselela kunye nokuhlala kwelakho ixesha afundwe ngcono ngaphandle kwendawo eyakhiwe apho abantwana bachitha ixesha labo elininzi.

Ke, ukuba umntwana wakho ukuxelela ukuba bayakruquka, bayeke kubo ukuze bazonwabise, kwaye babayeke bamnkele isithukuthezi. Amathuba kukuba baya kutsalela kwinto abayithandayo, nokuba kukudlala ikatala, ukuphosa i-baseball, okanye ukwenza i-doodling kwincwadi yesketsch. Ezi zinto zinomdla zinokuba zizinto zokuzonwabisa kunye neminqweno enokutshintsha ikhondo lobomi.

Nokuba uvumela ingqondo ibhadule ilungile, ayisiyiyo yokuhlaziya kuphela kodwa kwanokuphuhlisa ukucinga. Izifundo zibonise ukuba ukuphupha kungakhokelela kubuchule bokuyila, nto leyo ekhokelela kwiarhente, ukuvelisa izinto ezintsha, kunye nokudalwa komhlaba wangaphakathi. Abantwana kunye nolutsha luyile ngokwendalo ngenxa yenqanaba eliphezulu lomsebenzi we-neurological ofunekayo ekukhuleni kwengqondo, ke bayakwazi ukuzonwabisa. Endaweni yokoyika ngenxa yokungabikho kolwakhiwo, ndiyabakhuthaza abazali ukuba balamkele bakhusele eli xesha lingacwangciswanga labantwana babo kwaye babavumele babone ukuba bangalisebenzisa njani. Unokumangaliswa zizinto eziza nazo.