Iimpawu ezibalulekileyo zesilumkiso soxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka

Umxholo

• Amanqaku aphambili
• Ubungqina:
• Ukudinwa rhoqo:
• Ukuzigweba:
• Umnqweno wokubaleka:
• Okukwintsusa:

Amanqaku aphambili

• Ababini abaphantsi konyango lokungachumi banamazinga aphezulu oxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ngexesha lokukhulelwa nasemva kokubeleka, ngokophando oluqhubekayo.
• Ukwazi ukuba abantu abaphantsi konyango lokungachumi banokuba namava oxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka kunokubanceda bafumane uncedo ngaphambi kokuba kuvele iingxaki ezinkulu.
• Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zoxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka zibandakanya ukuba ndindisholo, ukudinwa okungapheliyo, ukuzibek 'ityala kunye nomnqweno wokubaleka.
• Ukhathalelo lwempilo yengqondo oluvela kwingcali enamava lunokunceda.

Ihlala iyamangalisa xa indumasi ekwaziyo ukufumana olona nyango lwabantwana inengxaki efanayo njengabafazi abambalwa, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba bekukho umqondiso omkhulu wokulumkisa onokuthi uncede uChrissy Teigen kunye nomyeni wakhe, imvumi uJohn Legend, ukuba bafumane uncedo kwakamsinya. I-Teigen inembali ende ngokungachumi kwaye uphando lwam lubonisa ukuba oku kunokuba sisalathiso esibalulekileyo.

Esinye seziphumo ezimangalisayo zophononongo esiliqhubayo ngoku kwiYunivesithi yaseCalgary sibonisa ukuba izibini ezinyango lokungachumi zinamazinga aphezulu oxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ngexesha lokukhulelwa nasemva kokubeleka. Ngelixa oku kunokubonakala kungonwabisi, inokunika isibini isiqalo sentloko. Bexhotyiswe ngolu lwazi, abasetyhini abakhulelweyo kunye namaqabane abo abawela kolu luhlu banokufumana ugqirha oza kubanceda ukuba bahambe kwiimvakalelo ezinzima abanokuzifumana kwaye baphume neengxaki ezimbi ezantsi kwendlela.

Kuninzi onokufunda kwibali likaTeigen. Njengokuba ekwabelwana ngexesha lodliwanondlebe, wayenazo ezi mpawu zixwayisayo.

Ubungqina:

Ndiphelelwe ngumdla kuyo yonke into. ”

Ukudinwa rhoqo:

“Andikwazi kuvuka ebhedini.”

Ukuzigweba:

Kunzima ngokwenene ukwazi ukuba unelungelo elingakanani kwaye uziva ukhathazekile, unomsindo kwaye ulilolo. Kukwenza uzive ngathi ungaphezulu kwe b * * * *. ”

Umnqweno wokubaleka:

Ugqirha wabuza, “’ Unazo ezi mvakalelo? Ungonwaba ngomso xa ungavukanga? ' Ewe, ngekhe ndibekhona. Yinto enkulu leyo! Khange ndiqonde ukuba kubi kangakanani de ndaphuma. ”

Ukuba naziphi na kwezi mpawu zibetha intsimbi, ngexesha lokukhulelwa okanye emva kokubeleka, nceda ungathandabuzi ukuxoxa nogqirha wakho kwaye ufumane uncedo. Akukho sidingo sokubandezeleka uthe cwaka kwaye kuninzi onokukufumana ekufumaneni uncedo kwangoko.

Funda malunga neengozi zokugqibelela ngexesha lokukhulelwa apha.

Okukwintsusa:

UTeigen noLegend banethemba lokongeza umntwana wesibini kusapho lwabo kwaye inyani yokuba ufumene uncedo kwaye wachacha unethemba ngekamva labo. Njengoko watshoyo uTeigen, "Ngoku ndiyayazi indlela yokuyibamba ngokukhawuleza." Ngononophelo lwempilo yengqondo elungileyo olunamava, izibini ezinamava okungachumi, kunye noomama abakhe bahlala ne-PPD ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwabo kwangaphambili, banokufumana uncedo ekuphuculeni iziphumo xa belindele abantwana abaza kulandela.