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Umxholo

• Amanqaku aphambili
• Kodwa umbuzo uhlala: Kutheni abantu beziva bekruqukile?
• Kuthekani ukuba isithukuthezi esihlangabezana naso yonke imihla ibingumqondiso wokuba imisebenzi yethu ayinantsingiselo kuthi?

Amanqaku aphambili

• Imvakalelo yokukruquka inokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, sihlala sikujonga ukubaluleka kwayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
• Abanye bathi ukukruquka kubangelwa kukuphulukana nenkuthazo evela kwinyani, engqinwa kukuncipha kwempendulo yethu kuyo.
• Ke ngoko, isithukuthezi luphawu lwexeshana, lomxholo wokuba kufuneka sifumane intsingiselo entsha xa sizibandakanya nenyani.

Ukukruquka yimeko yengqondo ebonisa imeko yobomi bokwenyani apho singabandakanyekanga khona kwimisebenzi esiyenzayo okanye kwimeko esingqongileyo. Xa siziva sikruqukile, ixesha lidla ngokudlula kwaye kube nzima ukuhlala sigxile.

Ngokwoncwadi lwenzululwazi, ukukruquka ayisiyonto ingaqhelekanga. Umzekelo, olunye uphando lubonise ukuba ukuya kuthi ga kwiipesenti ezingama-90 zabafundi banokuziva bekruqukile kanye ngemini. Olunye uphononongo luxele ukuba iipesenti ezingama-63 zabantu abadala banokufumana isithukuthezi ubuncinci kube kanye kwisithuba seentsuku ezili-10.

Ukukruquka kuhlala ngaphakathi kwethu. Nangona kunjalo, ihlala ithathwa njengesiqhelo, imeko emsulwa enokunyangeka ngokulula kukuphazamiseka. Ewe kunjalo, xa abantu beziyeka kumthombo wesithukuthezi, iimvakalelo ezinxulumene noko zihlala zinyamalala. Sidla ngokulibala ngokukhawuleza malunga nokudikwa kunye nezinto ezinxulumene noko.

Kodwa umbuzo uhlala: Kutheni abantu beziva bekruqukile?

Ngo-1960, umbhali wase-Italiya u-Alberto Moravia wapapasha inoveli yakhe Ukukruquka . Ngokuka-Dino, umlinganiswa ophambili webali, isithukuthezi asisiyiyo ngokuchasene nokuzonwabisa:

“Ukudikwa kum kubandakanya uhlobo lokungoneli, okanye ukungoneliseki, okanye ukungabikho kwenyani.

"Imvakalelo yokukruquka ivela kum ngokwenyani yento engonelanga, okanye nangayiphi na indlela engakwaziyo, ukundenza ndiqiniseke ngobukho bayo obusebenzayo."

I-Dino ayibhekiseli kwimvakalelo eqhelekileyo yokukruquka. Uyichaza “njengokulahlekelwa ngamandla kwangoko - ngokungathi ubani ubona intyatyambo itshintsha kwimizuzwana nje embalwa ukusuka edubuleni ukuya kubola nothuli.” Engqondweni kaDino, ilahleko yamandla ngokucacileyo ligama elifanayo lokulahleka intsingiselo . Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, kukuba amava kaDino kukusilela ngokupheleleyo ekumiseni ubudlelwane obubalulekileyo kunye nenyani ejikelezileyo.

Kuthekani ukuba isithukuthezi esihlangabezana naso yonke imihla ibingumqondiso wokuba imisebenzi yethu ayinantsingiselo kuthi?

Ukusukela injongo kunamandla okuvuselela iimvakalelo ezinamandla. Izenzo zethu, ngequbuliso, zifumana intsingiselo. Nangona kunjalo, okomzuzu injongo ifezekisiwe, okanye xa ukufezekiswa kwayo kuthintelwe okanye kubuzwa, emva kwethutyana abantu baqala ukuzikhetha ngokwasemphefumlweni. Ukuziva ulonwabo, umsindo okanye uxinzelelo akuhlali ngonaphakade. Baqala ukunyamalala, kwaye ke nomdla wethu kwinjongo ehambelana nawo. Kulapho isithukuthezi singena khona.

Isithukuthezi sinokuba sisalathiso esomeleleyo sokuba lixesha lokutshintsha iinjongo zethu okanye ubuncinci kwimisebenzi ethile ebandakanyekileyo ekuzilandeleni. Uvavanyo kwimeko zentlalo lubonakalisile ukuba iimeko ezingenantsingiselo zinokubangela isithukuthezi, kwaye abantu abakruqulayo bahlala befuna iimeko ezinentsingiselo yokubaleka imeko yabo.

Imvakalelo yokukruquka nangona inemida yayo. Ngelixa inokusinyanzela ukuba sitshintshe iinjongo, ayikwazi ukubonisa injongo ekufuneka sitshintshele kuyo. Esi sizathu sokuba abanye ababhali bathi isithukuthezi sinokukhokelela kwiimvakalelo ezimbi:

"... njengokujonga ngononophelo kwisidumbu sezilwanyana ecaleni kwendlela ngexesha lokuqhuba ixesha elide."

(Ibhentshi, i-SW kunye neLench, HC, 2013)

Konke oku kuchaza izinto ezimbalwa kwingqondo yomntu.

1. Okwangoku xa sikruqukile, siqala nokutyala ixesha lethu kakubi. Izenzo zethu azithethi lukhulu kuthi kwakhona.
2. Kuya kufuneka sizibuze ukuba kutheni. Kutheni ndikruqukile ngesiquphe, kwaye yintoni enokwenza ubomi bam bube nentsingiselo kwakhona, ngoku?

Ngomzuzu wokudikwa, kufuneka sinake thina, sihlale sigxile. Ukukruquka kuya kusiphazamisa kungekudala, kusikhokelele kwiinjongo ezingacwangciswanga ezinokuthi zingabi namdla kangako.

UChin, A., et al. (2017). Ukudikwa e-USA: Amava esampulu kunye nesithukuthezi kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Imvakalelo, 17 (2), 359-368. https://doi.org/10.1037/emo0000232

IMoravia, A. (1960). Ukukruquka.

URedaelli, S. (2020, Septemba 8). Kutheni wonke umntu kufuneka abe yi-nihilist. ICulturico. https://culturico.com/2020/09/08/why-everyone-should-be-a-nihilist/

Ibhentshi, SW, kunye neLench, HC (2013). Kumsebenzi woKruquka. IiSayensi zokuZiphatha. 2013; (3): 459-472. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs3030459