Kutheni oPolitiko 'aBantwana baThatha abaDlali kuLuntu

Njengoko unyulo lusondela, abantwana bezopolitiko benza iindaba ngokuthetha ukuze bangatyhafisi abavoti ekubeni baxhase abazali babo. (Jonga inqaku likaBeth Greenfield.) Ngaba olu luvukelo luqhelekileyo kulutsha? Kulula kakhulu oko. Umdibaniso womsebenzi ophambili wophuhliso, abazali abadumileyo (kunye nabalondolozayo), kunye nefuthe lokwandisa imithombo yeendaba yedijithali yenza isiphango esifanelekileyo sokuba ziphi iingcali zengqondo eziza kubiza umahluko kwaye abazali abaphantsi kohlaselo banokubiza ukungabi nantlonelo okanye imvukelo.

Nangona kunjalo ukhetha ukuyibhala, ukwahlula usapho lwenyukliya ngumsebenzi ophambili wophuhliso lwabo bonke abakwishumi elivisayo kunye nabantu abadala abancinci. Wonke umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba ngoobani kunye nendawo yabo emhlabeni ukuze babe ngabantu abadala abaphumeleleyo. Olu phononongo lunokukhokelela kuvavanyo oluninzi nabantu, izimvo, kunye nezenzo. Oku kukhokelela kuthotho lweendlela zokuziphatha ezinokuthi zibonwe ngabanye njengeziyingozi, ezinemvukelo okanye ezibubudenge, njengokuzibandakanya kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezingavumelekanga, ukunxiba iimpahla "ezilungileyo" ukubonisa umanyano loontanga, okanye imvukelo ethe ngqo. Ukuziphatha okubuyela umva kuhlala kulingana 'negumbi' leengqondo kunye nenkuthazo efunyanwa ngumntu omncinci xa esenza lo msebenzi. Akukho gumbi = ngaphezulu pushback (umz.Thompson et al., 2003).

Zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphonononga ubunikazi kunye nokwahlula ngempumelelo kusapho lwenyukliya. Ubume bedijithali bongeze kwimenyu, ukwandisa ukufikelela kweminye imizekelo kunye nokukhanyisa iindlela ezintsha kuphuhliso lwesazisi abanye abathathe. Imidiya yoluntu kuthetha ukuba kulula kakhulu ukuba nelizwi. Ngapha koko, sele iluncedo oluqhelekileyo kuye wonke umntu xa bengaziva. Ayothusi into yokuba ulutsha nabantu abadala abakhulele kwihlabathi elixhumene noluntu banokusebenzisa ezi ndlela ukusasaza uluvo lwabo. Kukho ubungqina obuninzi bamajelo eendaba ezentlalo aphakamisa ingqalelo kwimicimbi yezentlalo, ukusuka #BlackLivesMatter kunye #MeToo ukuya eParkland #NeverAgain. Imidiya yokuncokola yandisa ukuqonda kwearhente ngokudibeneyo. Xa abantu bakholelwa ukuba ababodwa kwinjongo yabo, iyabakhuthaza ukuba bathathe inyathelo. Kubantwana babazali abaziwayo okanye abafanele iindaba kwiqonga lezopolitiko elinobundlobongela, izenzo zabo zikwazisa iindaba ngenxa yokusondela kubazali babo kunye nemfuno engapheliyo yemixholo yeendaba eza kutsala umdla wabaphulaphuli.

UCaroline Giuliani, uClaudia Conway, kunye noStephanie Regan bayimizekelo yabantwana abathetha ngokuchasene nabazali babo kwaye bavakalise izimvo ezichaseneyo nezopolitiko. Into enomdla kukuba bonke abazali bahambelana nohlobo lukaTrump lweqela leRiphabhlikhi. Uvoto luka-2016 lubonise ukuba abantu baseRiphabhlikhi ababengabaxhasi bakaTrump kunokwenzeka ukuba babenendlela yolawulo yobuzali (MacWIlliams, 2016). Umzali ogunyazisiweyo kunokwenzeka ukuba akuxabise ukuthobela kwaye kunqabile ukuba akhuthaze abantwana babo ukuba babe nelizwi okanye bakhulise ukuzimela kwabo. Iimbono ezininzi zobuzwilakhe nazo azifane zixhase iyantlukwano kuluntu engahambelaniyo neenkolelo zabo okanye eyaphula imbono yabo malunga nento "elungileyo". Akukho gumbi lenyaniso okanye izimvo ezahlukeneyo. I-Authoritarianism inxulumene nemfuno yokuvalwa kwengqondo kunye nokucinga okungafaniyo, okumnyama / okumhlophe okanye okucwangcisiweyo okuvumela iingxaki ezinzima ukuba zincitshiswe zibe zizisombululo ezilula (umzekelo, iChirumbolo, 2002; iChoma kunye neHanoch, 2017) kunokuba nobunzulu, ukubuza, okanye uvelwano olufunekayo kwintsebenziswano okanye ukulalanisa.

Indlela yam yokukhulisa abantwana ayenzi sithuba sokuba abantwana bafike kwizigqibo zabo. Izimvo ezingavisisaniyo zijongwa njengokunganyaniseki okanye ukungabi nantlonelo. Oku kuyingxaki ngakumbi kuba abantu abancinci ngokwesiko baphela benenkululeko. Ukukwazi ukuzicingela kuyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokukhula kwayo kwaye ayothusi into yokuba abantwana abanabazali abagunyazisayo kunokwenzeka ukuba bazobe umgca entlabathini.

Ukukhuthazwa ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuqiniswa kubalulekile ekwakheni ubuni bolutsha kunye namava abo kunye nokunxibelelana kwezentlalo ukubumba indlela abaziphethe ngayo kunye neenjongo zabo. Imithombo yeendaba kwezentlalo ibonelela ngeendlela ezimbini kulutsha kule nkqubo: 1) ibanika ukufikelela kwezinye iindlela zenkxaso yeemvakalelo kunye nokukhokelwa ngokuncoma abanye kunye ne-2) ibanika iqonga elinamandla lokubonisa inkululeko yabo.

Abafikisayo abahamba ngempumelelo 'kwintlekele' yokuphuhliswa kwesazisi ngokubanzi banesimo esomeleleyo sesazisi kunye nokukwazi ukugcina amaxabiso abo ebusweni bomngeni.

Ngelixa isenzo sikaClaudia Conway sinokubonakala ngathi siphawulwe njengovukelayo xa wayethatha iTikTok ukubhengeza isifo sikaKellyanne Conway sika-COVID, inqaku likaCaroline Giuliani's Vanity Fair libonakala licinga kwaye liqiqa. Akadlali kodwa ufuna umahluko ngokuveza umbono wakhe. Kuzo zombini iimeko, nangona kunjalo, iprofayile ephezulu yabazali ithetha ukuba amazwi abo aya kuba nefuthe elingaphezulu. UCaroline Giuliani usebenzisa i-capital-in-proximity yakhe ukufezekisa iziphumo. Kwelinye icala, inokubonakala inganyanisekanga-kwaye ukuthembeka okanye ukungabikho kwayo ibingumxholo ongaguquguqukiyo kulawulo lukaTrump. Kwelinye icala, kuyisibindi ukuqonda ukuba inkunzi yentlalo inokusetyenziselwa into okholelwa kuyo nokuba imeko engeyiyo eyakho.

Iindaba ezimnandi zikaCaroline Giuliani kunye nabanye abafana naye kukuba abantu abadala abazimeleyo, abazimeleyo nabakwaziyo ukuzicingela abanakufane bathathe isimbo sobuzwilakhe ngokwabo esibonisa impumelelo kwilizwe elinemilinganiselo eguqukayo.

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