Ngaba Ungumntu Onethamsanqa?
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Amanqaku aphambili
- Ukuzibona unethamsanqa kunxulunyaniswa nolonwabo olukhulu.
- Ukuba nethamsanqa kwixa elidlulileyo ngekhe kukwenze umntu onethamsanqa kwixa elizayo.
- Inani elithile lethamsanqa liyimfuneko ebomini. Akukho sixa sisebenza nzima kunye netalente esiya kuvala ukungabikho kwayo.
UFortuna, uthixokazi waseRoma wethamsanqa, uhlala eboniswa evalwe amehlo kwaye eqhuba inqanawa. Ulawula ubomi bethu, kwaye wenza ngokungaboni.
Ithamsanqa licandelo elibalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Ukuzalwa nokuba kwicala lasekunene okanye elingalunganga leengoma, ukuthwala ezi okanye ezinye izakhi zofuzo kwii-chromosomes zethu, okanye ngenene ukuthatha oku okanye okunye ukuvula usuku olubonakala lungabalulekanga, kuya kugqiba ngekamva lethu. Asinguye wonke umntu ovumayo: "Xa kuziwa kwithamsanqa, uyayenza eyakho," utshilo uBruce Springsteen. Kuyinyani kwinqanaba elithile, ukanti ndiyakrokra kakhulu ukuba zininzi iinkwenkwezi ezisebenza nzima ngaphandle apho iitalente zazo zihlala zingekafumaneki kuba azikaze zibe kwindawo elungileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Isipho sokuyila kunye nokusebenza nzima kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kulo naliphi na ibali lempumelelo, kodwa ithamsanqa libaluleke ngokulinganayo.
Ukuvavanya ithamsanqa
Ukwamkela ukuba kukho into enjengethamsanqa, zimbini iindlela zokuvavanya ukuba unethamsanqa njani njengomntu. Eyokuqala kukujonga ukuba unethamsanqa elingakanani ebomini ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Mna, umzekelo, ndicinga ukuba ndinethamsanqa. Andizikhohlisi ngokucinga ukuba izinto ezintle endizibonayo ebomini bam ngekhe zenzekile ngaphandle kwethamsanqa.
Ukwenza umzekelo, ndaba nethamsanqa lokufumana iqabane lam kwisixeko esingaqhelekanga kwilizwe lasemzini, kwaye kwenzeka ngamabona-ndenzile. Ndafika kweso sixeko emva kokufaka isicelo somsebenzi wokuqala endawubonayo kwimpapasho yezonyango kuloo veki. Ndaba ngugqirha oqeqeshwayo kwiwadi awayesebenza kuyo njengomongikazi. Isibhengezo esahlukileyo kwimagazini eyahlukileyo, okanye kwiveki eyahlukileyo, ngesele indise kwindawo engathandabuzekiyo. Kwangelo xesha, bekukho iimeko kwibhayiloji yam apho bendinelishwa elimangalisayo, kodwa kubuhlungu kakhulu ukukhumbula.
Sonke siye saba nethamsanqa kwaye saba nelishwa ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, kodwa andithandabuzi ukuba "ithamsanqa" ngokubanzi ebomini linokumelwa yigrafu yesiqhelo yokuhambisa, apho uninzi lwethu luya kufunyanwa lujikeleze embindini, sikelelwe nge ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi komndilili wexabiso lethamsanqa.
Indlela yesibini yokuvavanya ithamsanqa kukukholelwa "kwimpawu" yethamsanqa; Ngamanye amagama, amathamsanqa njengophawu lomntu olungakhange luphembelele imicimbi yexesha elidlulileyo kuphela, kodwa oko kuyakuqhubeka ukumisela imicimbi kwikamva lomntu. Abantu abakholelwa kwithamsanqa njengeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini kunye nabo bakholelwa ukuba banethamsanqa ngokobuqu bathanda ukuba nobuntu obahluke kakhulu. Ngokusisiseko, eyokuqala ithande ukuba ne-neurotic ngakumbi kwaye ingonwabi kunale yokugqibela. Kuyinto entle ke ukukholelwa kwithamsanqa lomntu, kodwa ikwayinto engekho ngqiqweni, njengoko lo mzekelo ulandelayo ubonisa.
Ithamsanqa elizayo alinxulumananga neThamsanqa elidlulileyo
Ukungahleliwe akubalulekanga kwaye kuyaqhubeka nokusebenza ngokungakhethiyo, nokuba kwenzeke ntoni ukuya kwinqanaba elinikiweyo. Umdlali we-roulette unokucinga ukuba emva kwe-reds ezintlanu ezilandelelanayo, ngokuqinisekileyo i-spin elandelayo kufuneka iwele kumnyama, ilandele into ebizwa ngokuba yi "Monte Carlo Fallacy." Ewe, amathuba okumnyama aya kuhlala ngokuchanekileyo ngama-50 epesenti kuyo yonke into ejikelezayo, nangona amaxesha amaninzi elandelelanayo ibhola iye yawela kubomvu okanye kumnyama. Nge-18 ka-Agasti ka-1913, ibhola yawa kumaxesha amnyama angama-26 eMonte Carlo Casino (yiyo loo nto igama lobuxoki). Amathuba oku kwenzeka ayephantsi ngokuhlekisayo, ke mhlawumbi ayothusi into yokuba, abantu abangcakazayo ekhasino babheje kakhulu ngokuchasene nebhola ehla emnyama ngelixesha, abanye bephulukana nobutyebi kwinkqubo.
Ndingatsho ukuba ukuzibona njengomntu onethamsanqa kukwanethamsanqa, njengokuziva unethemba lokuba uya kumisa iinyawo zakho nantoni na ephoswa bubomi kufuneka ithuthuzele kakhulu. "Ngethamsanqa ukholelwa ukuba unethamsanqa," utshilo uTennessee Williams. Mna, njengabanye abaninzi, ndikhetha ukuhlala kwicala elilungileyo leFortuna kwaye ndingalingisi ithamsanqa kakhulu, hleze ndingamkholisi.
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