Vala ukunqunyulwa phakathi kokuzonwabisa kwabafazi kunye neqabane lakho

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• Ukwabelana ngesondo kubalulekile
• Kutheni Kubonakala Njengabanye Abantu Banandipha Ukwabelana Ngesondo Ngaphezu Kwakho

Sinezikhewu ze-orgasm. I-Cis-isini esabelana ngesondo nabasetyhini banama-orgasms ambalwa kunamadoda angama-cis-sex heterosexual men. Njengomzekelo omnye omangalisayo, kuphando endilwenzileyo, i-55% yamadoda xa kuthelekiswa ne-4% yabasetyhini bathi bahlala be-orgasm ngexesha lokuqala lokulala ngesondo. Olunye uphando lubonisa ukuba lo msantsa uyancipha, kodwa awusondeli ngokupheleleyo, kubudlelwane bezesondo. Olunye uphononongo lufumanise ukuba i-85% yamadoda ngokuchasene ne-68% yabasetyhini bathi baxolile ngexesha labo lokugqibela lokwabelana ngesondo.

Kwi Ukuba yimozulu, Ndihlalutya oonobangela abaninzi boluntu kwesi sithuba-kubandakanya, njengomzekelo nje omnye, imfundo yesondo engathethi ngokonwaba okanye iklitorisi. Ndiza kubonelela ngezisombululo zokuvala umsantsa, ngokwenkcubeko (umzekelo, imfundo ephuculweyo yezesondo; ukutshintsha ulwimi) kunye nabantu (umzekelo, ingqondo, unxibelelwano olululo ngesondo). Isisombululo esisisiseko esiphakanyisiweyo kukuqinisekisa ukuba abantu basetyhini bafumana uhlobo olufanayo lokukhuthaza ngexesha lokuzibandakanya kunye nokwabelana ngesondo. Ndixelela abafundi:

Elona nyathelo libaluleke kakhulu elifunekayo kwi-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo neqabane kukufumana uhlobo olunye lokukhuthaza olisebenzisayo xa uzonwabisa.

Isiseko sam (ngokoqobo nangokomfuziselo) ingxelo eqinileyo kukuba ngelixa kukho isithuba somlingani wesini esahlukileyo, akukho msantsa kwisini esabelana ngesondo. Ngokophando olwenziwe ngumfundi owaziwayo, amadoda nabafazi banamazinga aphezulu e-orgasm ngexesha lokuphulula amalungu esini: i-94% yabasetyhini kunye ne-98% yamadoda.

Esona sizathu siphambili sokonwaba kwabasetyhini yi-orgasmic egxile kwizitho zabo zangasese zangaphandle-amaxesha amaninzi iklitoris, kodwa kwaneemons, imilebe yangaphakathi, kunye nokuvula kwilungu lobufazi. Ewe uninzi lwesiphelo sokuphelisa imithambo yokuba abantu basetyhini kufuneka bafikelele kwi-orgasm babekwe ngaphandle kwilungu labo langasese. Oku kuchaza ukuba kutheni kwisifundo esinye, malunga ne-86% yabasetyhini baxela ukugxila ngokupheleleyo kwilungu labo langasese ngexesha lokuzonwabisa. Enye i-12% ikwajolise ngaphandle ngelixa ngamanye amaxesha okanye ihlala ikwafaka into kwilungu lobufazi. Bamalunga ne-2% kuphela abazonwabisileyo ngokubeka into ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi.

Ukwaphula oku ngaphezulu, phakathi kwe-98% yabasetyhini abavuselele amalungu abo esini angaphandle, i-73% yenze njalo ngelixa ilele ngomqolo, i-6% ngelixa ilele isisu, i-4% ngelixa igcoba into ethambileyo, iipesenti ezi-2 ngokusebenzisa ukusebenza amanzi, kunye neepesenti ezi-3 ngokucoca nje amathanga abo ngokudibeneyo.

Ithathiwe kunye, la manani agxininisa amazwi ka-Elisabeth Lloyd:

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo malunga nokuphulula amalungu esini yindlela ekunokwenzeka ngayo ukuba ivelise i-orgasm kunye nokuba incinci kangakanani na efana nayo, ngoomatshini, ukhuthazo olunikezelwa kukulalana.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi (akukho pun ejoliswe kuyo), ukukhuthazwa kwindoda ngokufumana i-masturbation kunye neentlobano zesini (kunye nemisebenzi yokuqhuma kunye nemisebenzi yezandla) zonke ziyafana: zijolise kwilungu lakhe elinoxhatshazo ngokwesini, ipenis. Ngapha koko, uninzi lweengcebiso zokuphulula amalungu esini kumadoda zibaxelela ukuba bazichukumise ngeendlela ezenza ukuba uzive ngathi incanca yabo ingaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi. Kwelinye icala, ukhuthazo lomntu awufumanayo ngokuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokuba neentlobano zesini kwahluke kwaphela: kukuphulula amalungu esini kuphela kwilungu lakhe lesini elingaphandle, iklitoris. Nangona kunjalo, xa unamadoda, abafazi bahlala bezitshintshisa, bebeka phambili ezokwabelana ngesondo endaweni yabo.

Xa abafazi besini kunye nabesilisa bekufumana, ukulala ngesondo kujongwa njengesona siganeko siphambili kunye nayo nayiphi na into evuselelayo ngaphambi kokuba ibuyiselwe "ngaphambili" -ukufudumeza ukuze ulungele umfazi ukuba abe neentlobano zesini. yabafundi bephephancwadi i-Cosmopolitan bafumanisa ukuba ngexesha lokudibana kwezesondo okubandakanya ukuhlangana, i-78% yeengxaki zabasetyhini ngenxa yokungafumani ngokwaneleyo okanye uhlobo olulungileyo lokukhuthaza.

Ke ngoko, ukuvala umsantsa we-orgasm, kufuneka sibambe ukuvuseleleka komntu kunye nokukhuthaza i-penile ngokulinganayo. Njengoko bendikhutshiwe kwiposti yam yokugqibela, Ukwenza iSondo ngokwahlukileyo, kufuneka sithathe indawo yeskripthi esisezantsi senkcubeko (i-foreplay, ukuba neentlobano zesini ne-orgasm yamadoda, isini ngaphezulu) ukuze ufumane amaqhekeza alinganayo, kubandakanya nokuthatha abo baguqukayo ( Uza Kuqala , Uza okwesibini ) Kunye nezo apho omabini amaqabane afumana ukhuthazo abaludingayo ngexesha lesenzo esifanayo sesini (umzekelo, umfazi ochukumisa iklitoris yakhe ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo; isibini esisebenzisa iringi yeqhude engcangcazelayo ene-clitoral vibrator). Ukuba ungumfazi, ukufumana ukuvuselelwa oyifunayo kuthetha ukuba uqinisekisa ukuba ufumana uhlobo olufanayo lokukhuthaza ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo neqabane elikulethela kwi-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.

Zimbini iindlela zokuhambisa iindlela zakho zokuzonwabisa ngesondo kunye nomnye umntu. Enye ifundisa iqabane lakho into oyithandayo kwaye enye uyenza ngokwakho. Ukufundisa iqabane lakho kungabandakanya, umzekelo, ukubazisa kwisidlidlizi sakho, ubabonise iminwe oyithandayo, okanye ubaxelele ukuba baziva benjani ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo. Ukuzenzela ngokwakho kunokubandakanya, umzekelo, ukusebenzisa izandla zakho okanye isidlidlizi kuwe xa usabelana ngesondo, okanye ukuzizisa kwi-orgasm emva kokulalana ngelixa iqabane likubambile, likwanga okanye likuphulula.

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