Ukunceda abantwana baLawule iimvakalelo ezinzulu

Siphila kumaxesha abuhlungu. Ubhubhane wehlabathi utshintshe umhlaba ngokukhawuleza. Izikolo zivaliwe. Imiyalelo yokuhlala ekhaya ihleli kwilizwe lonke. Iintsapho zihlangabezana nobunzima bemali kunye nonyango. Uninzi lweengcali zomothuko ziyavuma ukuba ngokudibeneyo sihlangabezana nesiganeko sangaphambi kobuhlungu ⁴ . Esi siganeko sinokukwazi ukuphucula iindlela zethu zokujamelana nokusilahla kwimpendulo ebuhlungu efana naleyo yenzeka emva kwentlekele yendalo enjengeNkanyamba uHarvey okanye ukufa okubuhlungu. ³ . Akumangalisi, xa sinikwe inyani entsha, ukuba uninzi lwabantwana bethu bayasokola ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo ezihlala zisanda. Ukudakumba ebusuku, ukwanda komsindo, kunye nokubonisa ubuchule ekubonakalisweni kwazo zonke iimeko uninzi lwabazali olujamelana nazo oluvela kubantwana nakubantu abadala ngokufanayo.

Kukho izinto onokuzenza njengomzali ukunceda umntwana wakho (okanye wena ngokwakho) ukuphuhlisa izicwangciso zokulawula ezi mvakalelo zinamandla kwaye uphinde ufumane imeko yokuzola. Zama umgaqo olandelayo endiwubiza ngokuba yiROA.A. ² Ngexesha elizayo xa usokoliswa ziimvakalelo ezinamandla. Okanye, kungcono okwangoku, ziqhelanise nezi ndlela ziphambi kokuba uzifune ukuba zihlale le mpendulo kwixesha elizayo xa iimvakalelo ziphuma kulawulo.

Iprotocol yeROA.A.A. ibandakanya amanyathelo amane: Phumla, eMpuma, Attune, kunye nokuKhululwa . Inokwenziwa nakweyiphi na imeko, nangubani na. Yiprotocol endiyisebenzise ngokobuqu, kwaye enye ndiyisebenzise nabantwana ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-4 ubudala ukuya ebudaleni. Makhe sijonge inyathelo ngalinye.

Umgaqo weRoA.A.A.

• Phola: IRAO ™ iqala ngokuphumla. Eli nyathelo linceda ukuthomalalisa impendulo yoxinzelelo (okt, ukulwa-ukubhabha -umkhenkce) kunye nokuvumela i-cortex yengqondo yakho yangaphambili ukuba iphinde isebenze. Ukuphumla emzimbeni kunokukwenza ukuba uzolise inkqubo yakho yeemvakalelo kwaye uthintele uxinzelelo olunokuba netyhefu oluhlala luvela xa uhlangabezana neziganeko ezixhwalekisayo ekuprintweni kweeseli zakho zomzimba. Izicwangciso zokuphumla zinokusebenza ngokuziqhelanisa nemihla ngemihla, kubandakanya ukukhumbula, ukucamngca kunye neyoga. Unokusebenzisa izicwangciso ezisebenzayo zokunceda ukufezekisa ukuphumla phakathi kweengxaki. Ukuphefumla nzulu (njengokuphefumla okungu-4-7-8⁵), iiholide ezincinane (ukuzicingela kwindawo ezolileyo), okanye iindlela zokukhulula kunye nokukhutshwa ziindlela zonke zokuphumla kwengqondo kunye nomzimba ngexesha loxinzelelo lweemvakalelo.
• EMpuma: Eli nyathelo leprotocol yeROA.A. Ichazwe njengolungelelwaniso okanye isikhundla sento ethile, indlela yokuziqhelanisa kuthetha ukuzilungelelanisa nomzuzu wangoku. Ngexesha lokuphendula ngokweemvakalelo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuphulukana nexesha lakho. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ngamaxesha oxinzelelo⁴. Xa uzixhoma kumzuzu wangoku, unokuthatha iimfuno zakho kwangoko. Olu qhelwaniso lwexesha lwangoku lukwenza ukuba uphume kumgibe wokukhathazeka okanye ukukhathazeka. Ungashenxisa naziphi na iipateni zokucinga ezingancediyo kwaye ujonge kuphela kwiimfuno zakho zangoku. Oku komeleza ukuphumla kwinyathelo elidlulileyo kwaye kukulungiselela naliphi na inyathelo elifanelekileyo. Ukuphuhlisa obu buchule ngokufanelekileyo, zibandakanye kwizenzo zokucinga rhoqo. Ingqondo ayincedi kuphela ukuphumla njengoko bekuxoxiwe ngaphambili, kodwa ikwenza ukuba uhlakulele ulwazi lwangoku. Oku kubonelela ngesixhobo sokujonga ngokwakho kunye nokuzimisa kumzuzu wangoku ixesha elininzi. Ukuba uphakathi kwesiphithiphithi seemvakalelo, sebenzisa eli nyathelo ukuqonda kuphela umzuzu wangoku. Gxila emzimbeni wakho kwaye uzibuze, "Ndiziva njani ngoku?" Qaphela apho kugcinwa khona uxinzelelo. Qaphela ukuba kukho naziphi na iingongoma zentlungu. Emva koko thatha umphefumlo kancinci kwaye ucinge ezo ndawo zoxinzelelo ukuzola. Oku kuya kukunceda uzivalele ngokuqinileyo ngoku-ngoku-ngoku.
• Ugqirha: Inyathelo lesithathu lomgaqo weRA.A.R ™ wakhela ekwaziseni ngalo mzuzu ukhoyo kwaye akucele ukuba ubone imfuno yakho kwangoko. Oku kunokuba yinto entsha kuwe okanye kubantwana bakho. Amaxesha amaninzi, asiyikubuza ngabom malunga neemfuno zethu. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabaphandi banxibelelanisa iimvakalelo zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo nokungabikho kokuzimela¹. Xa ungalwandisi ulwazi lwakho ngeemfuno zakho kwaye umisele ikhosi yamanyathelo (aka attune), uzinika umyalezo wokuba uyakwazi ukulawula iimpendulo zakho zeemvakalelo kwaye kufanelekile ukufumana iimfuno zakho. Enye yeendlela ezilula zokuziqhelanisa nokusebenzisa inyathelo le- "attune" kukuzibuza nje, "Yintoni endiyifunayo ngalo mzuzu?" Ziqhelise oku nabantwana bakho. Umzekelo ngokucela abantwana bakho ukuba bafuna ntoni endaweni yokuphendula kwiimpazamo zabo zomsindo.
• Ukukhutshwa: Inqanaba lokugqibela leRAO kukhutshwa. Eli linyathelo elibalulekileyo kubo bobabini ukusuka kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo ukuya ekuzoliseni, kodwa nasekuthinteleni impembelelo yexesha elide yomonzakalo kunye noxinzelelo olunetyhefu. Ukukhululwa ngokoqobo kubhekisa ekukhululweni kwesiphithiphithi kunye nokuphendula ngokomzimba kuxinzelelo. Imalunga nokuhambisa (okanye ukuqhubekeka) iimvakalelo yonke indlela emzimbeni kunye nokuchitha amandla. Uninzi lwexesha, abantu babambelela kumandla eemvakalelo, baqinise kwaye basebenzise inkqubo yeemvakalelo. Oku kubamba uxinzelelo olunetyhefu kwiiseli zomzimba. Enye yeendlela eziphambili zesifo kwaye yinxalenye yesizathu sokuba impendulo yoxinzelelo ihlala ithathwa njengeyingozi.Ukukhupha lonke uxinzelelo kunye "nokuncamathisela" kwiimpendulo zemvakalelo akukho lula, kodwa zikho iindlela onokuthi ufeze ukukhutshwa okusempilweni. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokukhulula kukuzibandakanya kwimbonakalo yohlobo. Ukubonakaliswa kubandakanya ukuqonda kunye nokunxibelelana phakathi kwengqondo nomzimba. Inceda abantu ukuba bandise unxibelelwano emzimbeni, into esihlala siyikhupha kumaxesha eemvakalelo ezinzulu. Sebenzisa iindlela ezinjengeyoga kunye nomdaniso, abantwana baphinde banxibelelane neemvakalelo zabo kwaye banokuqhubekeka kwaye bazikhulule iimvakalelo ezinamandla ngeendlela ezisempilweni. Enye indlela yokufumana "ukukhululwa" kukunikezela kwaye ube neemvakalelo zakho. Oku akuthethi ukonyusa umsindo kunye nokunye okunjalo. Endaweni yoko, kuthetha ukuphawula iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokuzamkela. Endaweni yokukhwaza xa unomsindo, yithi, "Ndiqumbile kuba ..." Oku kukhupha uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo kwaye kunike umzuzu wokuzola kwangoko. Isetyenziswe ngokunxulumene namanye amanyathelo, ikunika (okanye umntwana wakho) amandla okuhamba kwiimvakalelo ngaphandle kokuvumela ubungqongqo beemvakalelo ukuba zongamele umgaqo wakho.

Ziqhelanise nomgaqo weRA.A.R ™ nabantwana bakho. Zama ukwenza ubuchule bube ngumkhwa wakho. Ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwamanyathelo olandelwayo kuya kukunika, kwaye usisipho sezakhono zokuzilawula kwaye wandise ukuzola ekhayeni lakho.