Ukuphazamiseka kweSchizoid kuphazamisa njani ubudlelwane obusondeleyo

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Uninzi lwabantu aluqhelekanga ngegama elithi schizoid disorder. Ukuba bayivile konke konke, kunokwenzeka ukuba babe nemibono ephosakeleyo malunga nokuba iyintoni. Igama ngokwalo liyabhidisa. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba inento yokwenza ne-schizophrenia kuba zombini ezi ngxaki ziqala ngesiqalo esithi "schizo" (ayenzi njalo) okanye zonke ii-schizoids zifana nesithukuthezi esizolileyo kwikona esingenamdla ekuhlaleni (nayo ayonyani).

Phambi kokuba ndixoxe ngendlela abantu abane-schizoid ubuntu disorder abasebenzisana ngayo nobudlelwane, ndingathanda ukunika ulwazi ngemvelaphi eya kwenza ukuba uloyiko lwabo lokusondelelana luqondakale ngakumbi.

Yintoni isifo sobuntu beschizoid?

Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu bukaSchizoid yenye yeengxaki ezintathu eziphambili zobuntu ezinokunyangwa ngonyango lwengqondo olufanelekileyo. Ezinye ezimbini kukungahambi kakuhle komntu kubuntu kunye nokuphazamiseka kobuntu (iGreenberg, 2016).

Zonke iingxaki zobuntu ziqala kwangoko ebomini. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuphazamiseka kobuntu sisiphumo somzamo womntwana othile onesimo esithile sokuzalwa sokuziqhelanisa nemeko yosapho engaphantsi kokulungileyo kuloo mntwana. Kwimeko yokuphazamiseka kubuntu be-schizoid, ukukhuliswa komntwana kushiya umntwana eziva engakhuselekanga nabanye abantu kwaye engakulungelanga ukuba kubudlelwane obusondeleyo kamva ebomini.

Umntwana ufunda ukujika ngaphakathi, endaweni yangaphandle, ukuzama ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntu omdala abonakale engenisa ngakumbi kunokuba ebeya kuba njalo ukuba ukhulele kusapho oluqhelekileyo.

Phawula: Kule posi yebhlog, ndisebenzisa igama elithi schizoid okanye i-SPD njengendlela emfutshane yokuchaza abantu abahlangabezana neenqobo zokuqonda isifo se-schizoid.

Ubomi basekhaya bomntwana we-schizoid

Ukuba ufunda le posi kuba unengxaki yokusondelelana kwaye uyakholelwa ekubeni unokuba nengxaki yobuntu ye-schizoid, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhe wadibana nokudibana kwezi zinto zilandelayo njengomntwana omncinci:

• Kukho phantse ukunqongophala kokunxibelelana kwakho nabagcini bakho.
• Akukho mntu onokumthemba ukuba ukukhathalele.
• Ukhe waphathwa gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokungakhathalelwa.
• Uphathwe njengento, hayi umntu okhetha kunye neemvakalelo.
• Umkhathaleli wakho ophambili wayenomdla ngokungafanelekanga.
• Uziva ubambekile kwimeko enobutshaba apho ungenamalungelo kwaye kungekho lawulo.
• Wanyanzelwa ukuba uthobele iimfuno ezingekho ngqiqweni.
• Ukholelwe ukuba akukho mntu ukukhathaleleyo okwenzekileyo kuwe, ucinga ntoni, okanye uziva njani.

Nayi imizekelo embalwa yokuba umntwana wayenjani kubathengi bam abanesifo sobuchwephesha.

Umthengi wam uJane uxele ukuba umama wakhe wamphatha ngokungathi akabonakali kwaye wayengenazimvakalelo. Undixelele eli bali lilandelayo alichaze njengesiqhelo:

Umama ngamanye amaxesha wagqiba kwelokuba acoce igumbi lam kwaye ahlengahlengise ifenitshala ebusuku ngelixa ndileleyo. Xa ndambuza ukuba ayeke, wathi mandivale umlomo wam ukuba ndiyayazi into elungileyo ngam. Uye wathi yindlu yakhe kwaye angenza unqwenela. Xa ndandikhalaza, wandibetha.

Umthengi wam uBurt wayengavumelekanga ukuba akhule yedwa. Unina wayenomdla omkhulu. Uyamkhumbula emnika i-enemas veki nganye ngokuchasene nokuthanda kwakhe xa wayesemncinci umntwana. Wambamba phantsi ngelixesha elila esokola. Waba buhlungu kakhulu ngala mava kangangokuba waba noloyiko lobomi nakweziphi na iinkqubo zonyango ezibandakanya ukuvuleka komzimba, kubandakanya nonyango lwamazinyo. Nantsi into eyenzekileyo emva kokuba efikisa.

Umama wayenoloyiko lokuba ndiza kuhlaziya i-masturbate, ukuba wafuna igumbi lam yonke imihla ngoononophala. Waye wajonga nembali yokukhangela kwam kwi-intanethi. Kwakungekho bucala. Wayengacingi kwanto ehamba nam xa ndisiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela okanye ndisayohlamba. Xa ndandikhalaza, wathi: “Ndikutshintshile. Ndizibonile zonke izinto onazo ngaphambili. ”

Ngokukhawuleza xa uBurt emdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba angashiya ekhaya ngokusemthethweni, wenza njalo. Ngexesha endadibana naye ngalo, wayehlala yedwa kwigumbi elincinci lesitudiyo, esebenza ekhaya, kwaye wayezimisele ukuba angaze avumele naliphi na ibhinqa ukuba limlawule kwakhona.

Iziphumo zexesha elide zokuphathwa njengento, hayi umntu

Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana abakhulele kwezi ntlobo zamakhaya baxele ukuba xa beneminyaka esixhenxe sele begqibile ukuba bebodwa. Kwakungakhuselekanga ukuxhomekeka kwabanye abantu ngayo nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo. Amava abo asisiseko kukuba xa uvumela abantu basondele kuwe, baya kuzama ukukulawula kwaye bakuphathe kakubi. Esi sigqibo sibakhokelela ekubeni bagxile ekuzimeleni kwabanye abantu kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ikwabashiya benobuthathaka bokuzithemba, ukungathembani phakathi kwabantu, kunye nezakhono ezimbalwa zolwalamano.

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