Ukuphulaphula nje abantwana kunokwenza iimangaliso ngokuzithemba kwabo

Xa abantwana nabantu abadala behlala emakhaya kwezi ntsuku, lithuba elifanelekileyo lokuba abantu abadala bachithe ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nabantwana babo. Enye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo zokunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo nabantwana kunye nolutsha kukuthatha ixesha lokuba ubamamele. Ngokumamela iingcinga zabo kunye neenkxalabo zabo, abantu abadala banokusebenza ngakumbi ekuncedeni abantwana ngeli xesha linzima. Ngaphambi kobhubhane, abantwana babona abantu abadala ebomini babo malunga nesiqingatha sexesha. Esinye isiqingatha bebesesikolweni okanye kwindawo yokugcina abantwana. Namhlanje, indawo yokuhlala endaweni inokubeka uxinzelelo lokwenyani ekhayeni, kodwa isenokuba lithuba lokudibana njengentsapho. Olu luqhagamshelo, xa abantu abadala bethatha ixesha lokunxibelelana nabantwana babo, olunokunceda abantwana bahlakulele ukuzithemba okwenyani okunokubanceda kubo bonke ubomi babo.

Akuzange nanini na kubomi bethu ukuba iintsapho zinyanzelwe ukuba zichithe ixesha elininzi kunye njengoko zinjalo namhlanje. Xa abantu bechitha uninzi losuku kude nekhaya, bahlala bengenalo ixesha elininzi labantwana emakhayeni abo. Ngenxa yoko, abantwana bafunda kwangethuba ukuba banexesha elilinganiselweyo kuphela nabazali babo abasebenzayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu abadala ebomini babo bahlala bediniwe emva komsebenzi kwaye basenokungabikho kwimeko entle yokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo, kungasathethwa ke ukumamela ngokusondeleyo kwizinto abazithethayo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni abantwana nakwishumi elivisayo bakholelwe ukuba bakwindawo yesibini ezingqondweni zabantu abadala ebomini babo. Banokukholelwa ukuba ziingcinga ezingasemva ezinokukhokelela kumfanekiso ophantsi wokuzibona kunye / okanye ukungakholelwa kubo.

Ngobhubhane we-COVID-19 osigcina ekhaya, ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuchitha ixesha umamele abantwana bakho. Baza kuthini? Bacinga ntoni? Eli ingalixesha elibalulekileyo lokwazi abantwana bakho ngeendlela ongakhange ube nalo ixesha lokwenza ngaphambili. Ithuba lokubabonisa ngenene ukuba babalulekile kwaye nento abayithethileyo inexabiso.

Esinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo esinokuzinika abantwana lixesha lethu. Xa sibaphulaphule kwaye sibakhathalele ngeengcinga zabo kunye neembono zabo zehlabathi, inokwenza imimangaliso ngokuzimela kwabo. Xa abantwana bekholelwa ukuba oko bakuthethayo kufanelekile kwaye kubalulekile, banokuqala ukubona ukubaluleka kwabo kunye nokuzithemba kwabo.

Abazali banokungayiqondi into yokuba kunenzuzo engakanani emntwaneni xa uzimisele ukuthatha ixesha kwaye uncokole nabo. Cinga ngako ... Amaxesha amaninzi ekuphela kwabantu abagxile ekuthetheni nabantwana kuxa belungisa indlela abaziphethe ngayo okanye babayalele ukuba benze into efana nokulungiselela isikolo okanye ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Cinga ngendlela ekwakukhetheke ngayo kuwe xa wawusengumntwana kwaye umntu omdala ebomini bakho enomdla kwinto owawuza kuyithetha? Mhlawumbi utatomkhulu, okanye ukuba ubenethamsanqa, umzali uthathe ixesha lokuthetha nawe kwaye akhuthaze ngento oyibone ibalulekile. Leyo yimizuzu ekhethekileyo.

Namhlanje, nabantwana kunye nabantu abadala behlala ekhaya, ixesha olithathayo ukunxibelelana ngokwenene nabantwana kwikhaya lakho linokuhlawula izabelo kumashumi eminyaka ezayo. Inokubanika ukuzithemba ukubona ukuba babaluleke ngokwenene emhlabeni, kwaye oku kungatshintsha ubomi. Abantwana abalibonayo ixabiso labo bahlala bezama ukufikelela kwiinjongo eziphezulu. Abantwana abalibonayo ixabiso labo kunokwenzeka ukuba benze ukhetho olululo olunokubanceda ebomini babo.

Ukuphulaphula nje abantwana xa bethetha kusenokungabonakali kuyinto enkulu ekuqaleni. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha olichitha ubamamela lixesha apho baziva bexabisekile. Kufana nokutyala imbewu ngekamva labo elinokuthi likhule libe namandla angaphakathi kunye nokuzithemba. Le nkolelo kubo inokubanceda bakhulise isibindi sokulandela amaphupha abo kwikamva elingekude kakhulu.