Isimemo esincinci: Bhala ibali lakho kwimizuzu engama-40

Amabali awadluliswanga ngamagama asephepheni kuphela, kodwa nangepeyinti, ngokwakhiwa komculo, okanye ngomfanekiso oqingqiweyo. Sivame ukuva, "Wonke umntu unebali lakhe." Nangona kunjalo, amaxesha ngamaxesha umntu uthi, "Akwaba bendikwazi ukubhala, kuba ndifuna ukulikhumbula eli bali." Ngapha koko, ukuba sicinga ngombulelo, endaweni yetalente, nabani na angabhala imemo encinci kwimizuzu engama-40 esenza ibhulorho phakathi kwexesha elidlulileyo nelangoku.

Kwiiforamu ezimbini ezahlukileyo eziqaqambisa ubugcisa kunye nelizwi elibhaliweyo kutsha nje, bendonwabile ukubona ubuchule bokugcina iinkumbulo ezibe yimpumelelo kwizifundo zam - abafundi abasandula ukungena eyunivesithi kunye nooctogenarians kwiziko lokuhlala elinoncedo. Imfihlo elula iza nokudibanisa umfanekiso okanye umbono okhuthaza umntu ukuba abhale ipeni ephepheni, oko kukuthi, kunye nokwenza imemori.

IZiko loLondolozo lweMbali lobuGcisa eBoston labanjwa “Ukubalisela Ibali” ngo-Epreli. Injongo yayikukuba abathathi-nxaxheba bajonge imisebenzi yobugcisa bemihla ngemihla kwaye, ngepeni kunye neepensile, benze ibali. Injongo yayikukuzisa ukuqonda okungakumbi kungekuphela kwethu, kodwa kunye "nehlabathi elisingqongileyo."

UDave Ardito: Imbali eyakhiwe ngokutsha

Umboniso oqingqiweyo kaDave Ardito, osihloko sithi "Imbali Yokwakhiwa Kwesakhiwo," eArnheim Gallery, eMassachusetts College of Art and Design, wabuza imibuzo kule ncwadana inokuthi ibe sisiseko sememo-mini.

Kwakukho uyilo lwezihlalo zobukhosi kwaye ezi zikhatshwa yimibuzo, "Yintoni isihlalo kwaye yintoni itrone?"

Iseti enye yezitulo ibibhalwe "Deja Vu," okwangoku, ndizibonile njenge "manyano." Incwadana enemifanekiso- eyenzelwe ngabafundi bobugcisa- ibuziwe, yaphendulwa, yaphinda yabuza: "Ithetha ukuthini" deja vu "? Kuthetha ukuba 'sele ubonile' ngesiFrentshi. Sele ibonwa yintoni le ndawo? ” Le mibuzo yajika yaba sisiqalo sencoko phakathi kwengqokelela yokuhamba kobugcisa be-aficionados enomdla kuyilo olwahlukileyo. (1)

Ndizifumene ndikhumbula "deja vu." Endaweni yezitulo ezimhlophe, endikubonileyo yayizizitulo ezenziwe ngemithi ye-maple enombala weorenji ezingqonge itafile kamakazi wethu uJosie. Xa sasisebancinci kwaye simndwendwela, usapho lwalusoloko lujikelezwe itafile ye-oval efanayo kwezi zitulo zingonwabanga. Ngaphandle kwegumbi elikhulu lokuhlala, sasingakwazi ukuhlala apho kuba iplastiki ecacileyo yayizogqume zonke izitulo. Nangona kunjalo, kuba utyelelo lwase-Italiya luhlala lujikeleza ukutya, nokuba sityelele ngokungacwangciswanga, izidlo zenziwe impahla kwaye loo tafile kunye nezitulo ekugqibeleni zaba yindawo emnandi yokwabelana ngokutya kunye namabali.

Ukusuka kwimemori yomculo waseBoston Athenaeum elwandle

Amaxesha amaninzi izimvo zememo-encinci ziza kuthi ngomfanekiso okanye isandi. Kwakuseholo yemifanekiso yeoyile, apho iCapital Trio eBoston Athenaeum * yayiqhuba khona, apho ndaye ndaphindela ngenye imva kwemini. Ngokukhawuleza ndazibona nditsiba amaza amancinci kwindlu yaselwandle kaMakhulu noTatomkhulu. Kwakungexesha elithile ekuqaleni kweNtlakohlaza xa sasivunyelwa okokuqala ukuba sifake iinzwane zethu kumanzi aqhele ukubanda.

Umdlali wepiyano weThe Capital Trio, uDuncan Cumming, wanikezela isiqwenga seSchubert kuFrank Glazer, utitshala wakhe.

UCumming wathi uGlazer wayekholelwa ukuba ivulo lokuvula kufuneka lithi, "Mamela, ndiza kubalisa ibali."

Njengoko ivayolin, icello kunye nepiyano babencokola, ibali lam laqala ukuvela. Andiqinisekanga ukuba uSchubert angakuxabisa ukuzula kwam ngexesha le- "Impromptu in C minor, Op. 90 No. 1." Nangona kunjalo, apho bendithatha ulwandle ngaphambi kokuba ndibuyele ekhitshini lokubhaka likaMakhulu ngexesha lokukhotha iqabaka kwisitya kunye nespatula.

Nantsi ingcinga yokuqalisa ibali lakho

Kwiklasi yam ye- "Memories to Treasure" ye-octogenarians, ndikhethe umfanekiso kwaye baya kubhala nantoni na ethi qatha engqondweni. Enye yezinto ababezithandayo yayingumatiloshe ophuza umongikazi omncinci nge-VJ Day. Sithethile malunga nemizuzu eli-15 njengoko bekhumbula imisitho. Emva koko umntu ngamnye wenza imemori ebhaliweyo ebhalwe ngesandla, malunga nemizuzu engama-40. Emva kwexesha sigqibile ukusebenzisa amagama amancinci, songeza umfanekiso owahlukileyo, saza sayila imisebenzi. Ezi zazingqonge iindonga zegalari yeholo njengoko kubonisiwe kwinqaku nakwividiyo. (2)

Abadala banombulelo ngokukhethekileyo ngokwabelana nabanye ngamabali abo njengoko sifundile kwiProjekthi yeMemoir, iNorth End kunye nokusebenzisana kwesitalato iGrub. Elinye ibhinqa lathi ngamava. . . "indincede ndabona indlela endisikeleleke ngayo kwaye nobomi obumnandi endibuphileyo. Yandisa ulonwabo lwam." (3)

Le yindlela elula kakhulu yokukukhuthaza ukuba wenze isigqibo sokugcina imemori. Jonga ngononophelo kwiialbham zeefoto ezindala. Okanye ungaya ekhonsathini okanye undwendwele igalari okanye imyuziyam. Xa uncumo luza ebusweni bakho, hlala umbulelo, kwaye ubambe iingcinga de ube uqala ukubhala. Nantsi ifomula yenyathelo lesi-5:

• Qala ngokucinga ngefoto, umfanekiso, okanye utyelelo olukhuthaze inkumbulo ekhethekileyo.
• Bhala malunga neemvakalelo ezikunika imvulophu kwimemori. Chaza.
• Chaza indawo kunye nabantu oqale ukucinga ngabo.
• Mamela amazwi abo, indlela abathethe ngayo. Phinda wenze intetho.
• Chaza ukuba kutheni unombulelo ngenkumbulo.

Inkumbulo ezimnandi nezonwabisayo

Asizizo zonke iinkumbulo ezivuyisayo. Ngelixa ukubhala imemori kunokuba lunyango, kunokuba buhlungu. Umhlalutyi waseJungian uJohn A. Sanford, kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Healing and Wellness," ubhale wathi, "Ubomi bethu kufuneka bube nebali ukuze sibe ngabaphilileyo. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka sichasane nento, kungenjalo ibali alinakwenzeka. "

Xa ucinga ngebali lakho, qala ngokubhala iinkumbulo onombulelo ngazo, iinkumbulo zokuzixabisa. Mhlawumbi okwangoku, ezo nkumbulo zibuhlungu ziya kuthabatha indawo yoxolo lwengqondo, okanye novakalelo lokukhululeka kunye novuyo.

Ilungelo lokushicilela ngo-2016 uRita Watson

Ilungu lezemfundo leBoston Athenaeum njengoNjingalwazi oNcedisayo, iSebe lesiNgesi, iYunivesithi yaseSuffolk, iBoston, MA.

Izixhobo

1. Imbali eyakhiwe ngokutsha: www.DaveArdito.com
2. Isimemo sokubhala iibhlorho ezidlulileyo nezangoku | Psychology Namhlanje, kunye nezalathiso
3. Iprojekthi yeMemori / iSitalato iGrub
4. Ukubulela ngokungapheliyo: Umthandi oselula ka-Nonna kunye neMemoir yakho l Psychology Namhlanje