Isitulo saMandla: Apho Uhlala khona Imicimbi

"Isihlalo samandla" sinento yokwenza namandla ombane phakathi kwendawo ohleli kuyo kunye neqela lonke.

Ubukhulu becala, sonke siye sabhencwa kulungelelwaniso lokuseta iqela, ukuqala nosapho lwethu. Njengabantwana, safunda ukukhetha iindlela zentlalo ukuze siqiniseke ukuba siyahambelana nemilinganiselo esijikelezileyo. Enye yezi zikhokelo yaziwa ngokuba "sisihlalo samandla" -isihlalo esisichazayo ngokungazi njengelona linegunya elikhulu.

Umzekelo, cinga emva xa wawungumntwana usitya isidlo sosapho. Ngubani oza kuhlala entlokweni yetafile? Abanye bethu, umama notata wethu bahlala kumacala ahlukeneyo etafileni, kwaye kwabanye, umama wethu uhlala ecaleni kukatata wethu kwikona.

Kuthiwani xa ucinga ngomtshato oye kuwo, kubandakanya owakho, ukuba kufanelekile. Bebehleli phi umakoti nomyeni? Esiphakathini. Ezona ndwendwe zibalulekileyo zihleli ngasekunene nangasekhohlo, ngokufanayo nento onokuyifumana kwipeyinti yeSidlo sokugqibela sikaLeonardo Da Vinci, apho abona bantu babalulekileyo babehleli embindini.

Nokuba ukhumbula isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nomama notata okanye umtshato, umxholo wesihlalo samandla yinto esele siyazi kudala. Into ongayaziyo kukuba kuxhomekeke kwindawo ohleli kuyo, uya kuqalisa uhlobo olwahlukileyo lokuphendula kubantu abahleli ecaleni kwakho.

Kwimeko apho uhleli ngapha nangapha kwetafile, uthumela imiyalezo embalwa engathethwanga kubantu abahleli ecaleni kwakho. Le miyalezo yile:

1. Uyinkokeli.

2. Nguwe olawulayo.

3. Ukhona ukuze woyikise.

Ukuba uhleli esihlalweni esiphakathi, uthumela yonke eminye imiyalezo, enje:

1. Uyinxalenye yeqela.

2. Uyangeneka.

3. Ulapho ukuze usebenzisane.

Le miyalezo ayinakubonakala icacile ekuqaleni, kodwa xa uhleli kuso nasiphi na isihlalo samandla, uyakuqaphela ukutshintshwa kwamandla okutshintsha kwamandla kwiqela elikungqongileyo. Abantu abaninzi bandibuze, “Sesiphi esona sihlalo sihle sokusebenzisa?” Kuxhomekeka kwindlela ojonga ngayo ukuqhuba.

Kuthekani ngeetafile ezisisikwere okanye ezijikelezileyo?

Ndikwabuzwa ukuba ngaba ezi ngcinga ziyasebenza kwezinye iimilo zetafile, kwaye impendulo nguewe.

Kwiitafile zesikwere, wonke umntu uhlala kwindawo "yokuLwa kunye neKona". Ngokwesiqhelo, olona xhathiso luya kuvela kumntu ohleli ngqo malunga nawe- kwindawo "ye-gunslinger" -kwaye xa kuhlala abantu abane, wonke umntu unomntu ohleli malunga nabo.

Ukubanga isihlalo samandla kolu seto, susa nje isihlalo sakho umva kancinci, kodwa hayi kude kakhulu; Ngaphandle koko, iya kunika umbono wokuba awufuni kubakho.

Kwitafile ejikelezayo, ekwabizwa ngokuba yi-King Arthur table, wonke umntu unexabiso elilinganayo legunya kunye nenqanaba.

Itheyibhile ejikelezileyo idala imeko yokukhululeka ngokungekho sesikweni kwaye ilungele ukukhuthaza ingxoxo phakathi kwabantu abakwinqanaba elilinganayo, njengoko umntu ngamnye enokubanga ubungakanani bendawo yetafile; ngelishwa, iyaluphazamisa ulwabiwo lwamandla lomntu ophetheyo.

Ngokufanayo netafile yesikwere, isihlalo samandla siyakwenziwa ngokuhambisa isitulo ngasemva kancinci. Ukuba awudingi izihlalo ecaleni kwakho, zisuse.

Ngexesha elizayo xa uhleli nomthengi wakho okanye entlanganisweni, yazi ukuba uhleli phi okanye ngubani na ohleli phi. Uya kuqala ukuqaphela utshintsho lwamandla okusekwa ekubeni ngubani ohleli ecaleni koobani.

UBernardo Tirado, PMP

UBernardo nguNzululwazi ngezeNzululwazi kunye nezoPhando ngezeNgqondo ngezoQinisekiso kwi-Six Sigma, kuLawulo lweProjekthi, kunye ne-Agile / Scrum. Ugubungela ubunkokeli kunye netekhnoloji yePsychologyToday.com.

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