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Yintoni ukuqonda? Ngaba ifana nekhompyuter kwiintloko zethu? Abanye oosonzululwazi abanokuqonda bacinga njalo kodwa abanye, njengoBerkeley neuroscientist uTerrence Deacon, bathi kufana nenkqubo kunekhompyuter.

Sonke senza izigqibo zobuso mihla le yonke ezinganyuki ziqwalaselwe, endaweni yoko zisingathwa ngokufanelekileyo ngumkhwa. Ndingabaleka ze ezitalatweni ngoku, kodwa ayizi engqondweni (ngaphandle kokubonisa inqaku lam). Ukungasebenzi ze ze-no-brainer kum. Olu khetho aluvuki ekuqondeni.

Ukuqwalaselwa kwengqondo (ukucinga, ukuzibuza, ukubuza, ukuphanda) kukusombulula ukungaqiniseki, amathandabuzo, iingxaki, isigwebo esiqatha esikufutshane kakhulu ukufowunela, iimeko ezinobungqongqo ezishukumisa ukungahambelani kwaye azikaphathwa ngumkhwa.

Ukucinga, okubandakanya zombini iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga, kuyazibuza okanye kuthandabuza. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo uziva ungakhululekanga ngokweemvakalelo, njenge-alamu xa isithi "ayenzi khomputha" -ngamanye amagama, "ayikabi ngumkhwa." Ukuziva ungonwabanga kusikhuthaza ukuba sifumane indlela yokuphinda sithandabuze ukujonga ingqalelo kumkhwa wokungazi. Umsebenzi wokuqwalaselwa kweliso kukuvelisa ii-no-brainers, ukwenza iinkqubo ezininzi zokuziphatha kangangoko sinako kumkhwa othembekileyo, ngokusisiseko, "ndinayo iapp." Kwaye sifumana uncedo oluninzi kwinkcubeko.

Iinkcubeko zethu zinee -apps ezisombulula uninzi lweefowuni zomgwebo onzima. Babizwa ngokuba yimimiselo yoluntu kunye nemithetho. Umzekelo, nangona njengomntwana omncinci ndandihamba ngesitalato esinqunu, ndandihlala nabantu ngokulula. Sothula iingxaki ezininzi kwiinkcubeko zethu. "Ndingenza ntoni? Into eyenziwa ngumntu wonke! ”

Iinkcubeko zabantu ziyinkozo yamanzi. Asinakuphila ngaphandle kwayo. Umntwana onqabileyo "wasendle" okanye "owomileyo" okhuliswe ngaphandle kwenkcubeko akabonwa njengowomntu. Asizalwanga sinobuntu; sidityanisiwe kuyo. Sibanga ukuba nokuzimela ngakumbi kunathi.

AmaBuddha ngamanye amaxesha athetha ngokubuyela "kwingqondo yabaqalayo," imeko yokucinga ebesinayo njengabantwana. Singakwazi ukubona ukuba inkcubeko isiphembelela njani, kodwa ukubuyela kwingqondo yabaqalayo kuyintsomi okanye mhlawumbi injongo yokuzabalazela oko kungenakufikelelwa. Nkqu neembila zasekhaya zisuswe ngokupheleleyo kwinkcubeko yazo zisenayo imikhwa eziyifundileyo kwinkcubeko yazo. Ukwehlisa ukungathandabuzeki kwinkcubeko yethu yengingqi kusebenza ngokufanelekileyo. Akufuneki sicinge yonke into ngeziqu zethu.

Ukuzibuza kungonwaba, njengokukrala okwanelisayo okulula ngokwaneleyo ukukrwela. Uninzi lwethu luyathanda ukuzibuza malunga nomfanekiso omkhulu okanye iipuzzle zegama. Kodwa xa izibonda ziphakama ngokobuqu, ukurhawuzelela kuya kufana netyhefu.

Ukuthandabuza okungagungqiyo kunye nokusasazeka okubangela ukungazithembi, ukuthandabuza malunga nokuba umntu unayo na into ayifunayo ukusombulula amathandabuzo. Ukungazithembi kuyaphazamisa ngokweemvakalelo kunokungabaza, kusishiya siziva sikhubazekile kwaye singakhuselekanga. Ukungazithembi kunokubangelwa bubuninzi bokuthandabuza okuncinci okanye okungapheliyo.

Ngexesha le-COVID, uninzi lwethu luhlangabezana nokungaqiniseki okuninzi. Uninzi lweendlela zethu zakudala, ezomntu kunye nezenkcubeko, azisebenzi njengoko bezinjalo. Bakhatywa babuyela phezulu phezulu ekuqwalaselweni kwethu ngeendlela ezinokubangela ukuzithemba okukhulu. Ngamaxesha anje ngala anokuthi abantu baphuphe ngenye indlela engenakusilela yokuziva bekhuselekile kwaye bekhululekile.

Yiloo nto iinkonzo zenzelwe.

Iinkolo zisebenza ngokukuko kwaye ziyindlela ezifanelekileyo zokukhuphela ukungathandabuzeki kunye nokungazithembi kuluntu olusenzela izigqibo. Ezinye iicawa zonqulo zihlamba ingqondo ngenkani, kodwa uninzi alunyanzelekanga. Abantu bavolontiya kwinto enokubizwa ngokuba kukuhlanjululwa kwengqondo, kuba ukuhlanjululwa yingcambu yekota yentlambululo-miphefumlo, indawo abantu abaya kuyo xa bemiselwe ukuya ezulwini kodwa basabhatala imali yabo.

Amalungu enkolo akhululeke ekusebenzeni okuphezulu ekubeni ziinkqubo zoluntu ezenzelwe iinkqubo zentlalo, ekhusela inkululeko kunye nokhuseleko ngokuyinxalenye ngokuhlasela inkululeko nokhuselo lwabanye abantu.

Nangona iicawe zihlala ziziintshaba ezinokufa, zonke ziyafana ngokufanayo. Ukuphikisana nokuxhasa le nkolo ngaphezulu koku kufana nokuphikisana ngeentengiso ezahlukeneyo zemveliso efanayo. Amaxesha amaninzi amalungu enkolo ethile ayala omnye komnye, ngaphandle kwepani yokutshiza aye emlilweni. Senza impazamo enkulu ukunikela ingqalelo kuphawu lokushicilela xa yonke ifomula efanayo yokuvelisa ukungathandabuzeki kunye nokuzithemba kwimikhwa yentlalo engaziwayo.

Ukuziva ukhululeke ngokupheleleyo kwaye ukhuselekile, abakhonzi beenkolo babhengeza ukulingana kwemfazwe engcwele nokuba bayakholelwa okanye abakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo, basekhohlo okanye basekunene — konke oko kukufaka uphawu nje. Imfazwe engcwele yi-oxymoron. Kungcwele kuba singcwele. Yimfazwe, oko kuthetha ukuba nantoni na iyahamba. Akukho senzo simdaka kakhulu kwiingcwele ezinje ngathi.

Ifomula yeMfazwe eNgcwele ilula kakhulu:

Ukuhlasela abachasi bam kuhlala kungubuqhawe.
Iintshaba zam ezihlasela mna zihlala zikhohlakele.
Uloyiso lwam luhlala luloyiso lwenyaniso kunye nesidima.
Ukoyiswa kwam kuhlala kuyinto yexeshana, uxinzelelo olungekho sikweni ngabakhohlisi abakhohlakeleyo.
Ndimele ntoni? Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into ilungile kwaye ilungile!
Ndilwa ntoni? Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into engalunganga nengalunganga.
Abo bafuna iinkcukacha ezingaphezulu koko banobuhlanga, izikhohlakali ezinomona.

Ngaba abefundisi bawaxhasa njani amabango anje? Impendulo nayo ilula. Sithetha ngamalungu enkolo njengasela i-Kool-Aid, kodwa yeyiphi incasa? Yisiqhamo se-tutti, esisi-Italiya "kuzo zonke iziqhamo," yonke into eswiti.

Amalungu enkolo ndithetha ukubhengeza ukuba azimele, acingisisa nzulu kwaye anxamnye nenkolo. Ngokwenyani, babanga zonke izinto ezilungileyo. Ukuba imnandi bayifumene. Isiqhamo setutti:

Ukucinga ngokugxekayo? Singabona bahle.
Uthobekile? Singabona bahle.
Ukuziphatha? Singabona bahle.
Ukuthanda izwe? Singabona bahle.
Ngaba uzimele geqe? Singabona bahle.
Iinqobo zonqulo? Singabona bahle.
Ukunyaniseka? Singabona bahle.
Ubugorha? Singabona bahle.
Uthobekile? Singabona bahle.
Ulwazi olubanzi? Singabona bahle.
Abachasene nenkolo? SINGONA BONKE!
Ngaba ubona umfanekiso omkhulu? Singabona bahle.
Yonke into ilungile? Singabona bahle.

Nangona oko kuthathwa njengotshintsho olumnandi ukusuka kwixesha ukuya kwixesha kunye nenkolo kunqulo, iziqhamo ze-tutti pan-ubuhle azenzi njalo. “Ukuba kulungile, sinayo. Ukuba ayilunganga, abo sikhuphisana nabo kule mfazwe ingcwele banayo. ”

Umntu unokuzithethelela njani ngayo yonke le nto yokuziqhelanisa neziqhamo? Okokuqala, ngokusebenzisa isetyhula yokuqiqa. Umzekelo, "Ndinyanisekile kuba ndithi ndinyanisekile kwaye kufuneka undikholelwe kuba, ngapha koko, ndinyanisekile." Isetyhula iyodwa inika abakhonzi beenkohliso umbono wobuxoki wokuba bakhuselekile kwaye bakhululekile. Nawuphi na umgaqo abathi bazibangalela wona kufuneka ube yinyani. Ndibiza oku "Ukuthetha ngokuthetha" ukucinga ukuba le nto uyithethayo ngokuziphatha kwakho yinkcazo echanekileyo kwaye abo bangakholelwayo bakhetha nje.

Okwesibini, bayazithethelela ngokulingana kweebhanti ezinomtsalane ezinamakhubalo e-trinket ukukhusela yonke imiceli mngeni kubuhle nakwigunya labo: Fumana isimboli engasindi, enye yazo zonke izinto ezintle ozibangalela zona. Zidibanise kunye uzinxibe njengobungqina bokufaneleka kwakho.

Fowunela omnye umkholwa wamaKomanisi “qabane,” kwaye oko kungqina ukuba uzinikele ngokupheleleyo ekulinganeni. Zichaze ngobomi bakho kwaye uyangqina ukuba uhlala unovelwano. Bhaptizwa kube kanye kwaye uxolelwe zonke izono zakho. Gweba inkcubeko ethile kwaye uyangqina ukuba uluchasene ngokupheleleyo nenkolo.

Zihombise ngesongo ngesidima ngasinye esimelwe yitrinket kuso. Ukusuka kwihashe lakho eliphakamileyo lobungangamsha, ungakhanyisa i-trinket eyiyo phantsi kuye nabani na okucel 'umngeni, nokuba yeyiphi na itrinket ekwenza uqiniseke ngalo mzuzu ukuba ungoyena ulungileyo. Ngaphandle koko, yonke into eyenzekayo kukunyaniseka kwe-amnesia ukungakuhoyi ukungangqinelani kwakho.

Leyo yeyona ndlela isebenzayo yokuziva ukhuselekile ngokusisigxina kwaye ukhululekile. Yonke inkolo iyayikhuthaza. Ingxowa enye engasindiyo yamaqhinga, ii-brandings ezahlukeneyo.

Ukubhengeza ubuqhetseba kunqulo oluthile oluthiyileyo sisiqalo esihle, kodwa oko kungangqini ukuba awukho kwenye. Sonke singawa yile nto ndiyibizayo “Uxolelwe ngendelelo” "Ndiyayithiya xa utshaba lwam lisebenzisa ubuqhetseba, into ebonisa ukuba andinakuba ndisebenzisa iqhinga elifanayo."

Iinkolo ziinzame zokubaleka zonke izinto ezinokubakho.

Ukuba ngumntu kuthetha ukwamkela ukuba akukho kuphuncuka. Kuya kufuneka silandelele kwaye silungelelanise nokutshintsha kwenyani ukunciphisa amathuba okuphulukana.