Akukho nto efana nengqondo eqhelekileyo

Kwasekuqaleni kwam umsebenzi wokuqala wokuncedisa unjingalwazi, kwabakho imini apho ndaye ndaphelelwa ziibhanana zam. Ngendlela akukho mntu ngaphandle kokuhlala engafanelekanga ukuyenza. Ingcali yezamayeza yeza kwintlanganiso yoososayensi bezentlalo endandiyiyo kwaye ndacebisa ukuba iyunivesithi mayisebenzisane nenkampani yesiselo esinxilisayo ukukhuthaza ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi zabo ngokumodareyitha. Khange aqonde ukuba kukho isayensi iphela malunga nokuqonda ukuzeyisa.

Ndingumphandi wokuzeyisa. Ndenza uvavanyo kunye nolunye uphando ukuze ndiqonde indlela abantu abacinga ngayo ngokuzibamba kunye nendlela abantu abanokuba ngcono ngayo ekulawuleni indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Ndayazi kwangoko le chemist inombono ombi. Kodwa inyani yayikukuba, akukho namnye owenze uphando ngombono wokumodareyitha ngelo xesha. Ndiyazi kuba kwangoko emva kwentlanganiso, ndaphonononga iziseko zedatha yethu yophando ndikhangela isayensi ukuba ithumele indlela yomlingane wam. Ngaphandle kobungqina obufumanekayo, kuxhomekeke kum ukwenza isayensi. Ndibhalele umyeni wam ukuba ndiza kufika emva kwexesha ekhaya kwaye kwiiyure ezimbalwa ndibhale isicelo semvume yokuziphatha apho ndicebise uthotho lwezifundo malunga nendlela abantu abacinga ngayo ngokumodareyitha kunye nokuba imiyalezo yokumodareyitha iyichaphazela njani indlela abaziphethe ngayo.

Kutheni le nto ndiphumile malunga nombono wokumodareyitha? Izizathu ezibini ezikhulu.

Ingxaki yokuqala ngombono wokumodareyitha kukuba yile nto iinjongo zethu abaphandi bazibiza ngokuba ngumgangatho ongaqondakaliyo. Ngaba ndiyityile intlama yekuki yetshokholethi ngokumodareyitha izolo? Ewe, bendinazo. Andikwazi ukuyiphika loo nto. Kodwa andiyityanga yonke ikhonteyina, nayo. Ke, ndifumana phi umgca 'wokumodareyitha'?

Sasiqhuba uphando ukufumanisa, ngaphandle kokuba sibuze abantu malunga nokumodareyitha ekutyeni iicookies eziphekiweyo ngokupheleleyo. Ngokukodwa, sibuze abantu ukuba mangaphi amaqebengwana asandula ukubhaka kufanele ukutya, unokutya ngaphakathi ukumodareyitha , kwaye bebeya kutya batye ukuzonwabisa . Abantu bachaze ukumodareyitha ngokungaphantsi kunokuzonwabisa. Ke ziindaba ezimnandi ezo. Kodwa bayichaza njengamaxesha ayi-1.5 inani leekuki ekufuneka bazityile, umahluko obalulekileyo ngokwezibalo. Umahluko obonakalayo ngokubonakalayo, nawo. Ukuba abantu bathathe isigqibo sokutya kanye ngosuku njengoko besenza kwilebhu yethu yophando-ukuba batye "ngokumodareyitha" endaweni yokutya kakhulu njengoko kufanelekileyo ngexesha lesidlo esinye okanye ukutya okutyiwayo kube kanye ngemini-bangadla kuqikelelwa ukuba ngama-25,000 + ngaphezulu iikhalori kwisithuba sonyaka. Oko kungaphezulu kweepawundi ze-8 zobunzima bomzimba kumntu ophakathi. Ukungaqondakali okuncinci kuyongezwa.

Nantsi ingxaki yesibini ngokumodareyitha-umxholo uthetha into eyahlukileyo kuye wonke umntu. Xa sifundisisa le ngxaki ngokumodareyitha safumanisa ukuba abantu abathanda izinto ezithile zokutya bathanda ukuba nesisa ngokwenkcazo yabo yokumodareyitha-kodwa kuphela ngezinto abazithandayo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukutya malunga nee-ounces ezingama-20 yonke imihla yokutya i-Coke (ukhetho lwam lobuqu lokuzihlaziya okungenampilo) ngelixa ngaxeshanye ndigweba umntu osela i-ounce enye enokuba neziselo ezihlwahlwazayo rhoqo ngeveki.

Ke oku kunjani ukwenza ngengqondo, kwaye kuthetha ntoni kuwe?

Ingqondo eqhelekileyo ineengxaki ezimbini ezifanayo nokumodareyitha. Okokuqala, ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo kuyadida. Ngaphandle kwezikhokelo ezicacileyo malunga nendlela yokuziphatha, ingqiqo ishiya ivulekele kakhulu ekutolikeni kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukuyinyanzela.

Okwesibini, ukuba nengqiqo akuqhelekanga kwaphela. Akukho mntu unokuvuma ukuba yintoni ingqiqo. Ngamanye amaxesha iyantlukwano iya kuba sengqiqweni- into evakalayo edolophini ayifani naleyo isengqiqweni kwidolophu encinci. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha lo mahluko unokuba yingxaki, ngakumbi kuba abantu kunokwenzeka ukuba bathabatheke yinto abafuna ukuyenza. Okukhona abantu befuna ukwenza into, kokukhona baya kucinga ukuba ingena kudidi lwengqiqo, kanye ngendlela abathathi-nxaxheba ababethanda ukutya okulula ngayo babenesisa ngakumbi kwiinkolelo zabo malunga nokuba zingaphi iziqhamo ezimilise iziqhamo ezinokubalwa njengemodareyitha . Asiyi kuvuma malunga nento elungileyo xa iphenjelelwa ziinkolelo zethu.

Okwangoku, ayinguye wonke umntu ofumana izikhokelo ezicacileyo malunga nokuziphatha. I-CDC ibhale ingxelo enezikhokelo ezineenkcukacha zokuvula kwakhona iindawo zelizwe, kwaye mhlawumbi sizakubabona, kodwa oko kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka. Unokucelwa ngabapolitiki okanye amalungu osapho ukuba "usebenzise ingqiqo." Njengokuba iqela lam lezenzululwazi zentlalo belingenakukwazi ukukhuthaza ukutya iziselo ezinxilisayo ngokumodareyitha, nangona kunjalo, akunangqondo ukuba impilo yoluntu ixhomekeke kwibinzana elithetha izinto ezininzi kakhulu kubantu abaninzi.

Awunakho ukufumana iinkcazo zengqondo eqhelekileyo kwinqanaba likazwelonke okanye likarhulumente, kodwa unokuba neencoko ngaphakathi kwinqanaba lakho lempembelelo ukuqinisekisa ukuba unokuqonda okufanayo. Buza abahlobo bakho, usapho, abathandekayo, kunye nabanikezeli beenkonzo ukuba banxibe iimaski, bayaphi kwaye bahlala kangaphi, kwaye loluphi uhlobo lomngcipheko abawuthathayo. Nyaniseka kwaye ucokise malunga nolindelo lwakho kubantu oza kunxibelelana nabo. Thatha ixesha lokubeka ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo kwakhona kwingqondo eqhelekileyo.

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