Yintoni eyenza ukuba umntu alunge ebhedini?

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• Ubudlelwane obufunekayo ekufundeni
• Ukukhangela uthando kwi-Intanethi ngexesha lokutshixeka

Nokuba angazenzela ntoni amadoda ebhedini, ayindonwabisi ngaphandle kobuhlobo. —Umhlolokazi

“Indoda elele ebhedini ayinakuze ifike kuvuthondaba phambi kwam. Logama engafikeleli kuvuthondaba, uchitha ixesha elininzi esenza isenzo sesondo. Emva kokuchama, ndihlala ndiziva ngathi akathandi. ” —Umfazi otshatileyo

Uninzi lwamadoda lungathanda ukuva ukuba "balungile ebhedini." Kodwa ngaba into entle kangaka, enyanisweni, inokuba mbi?

Itekhnoloji esekwe kulwazi kunye nobuhlobo obusekwe kwiimvakalelo

“Abasetyhini banokukwazi ukwenza i-orgasms ezingezizo. Kodwa amadoda angenza ubungqina bobuxoki. ” —USharon Stone

Ukulunga ebhedini kufuna iimpawu ezimbini eziphambili: Itekhnoloji esekwe kulwazi kunye nobuhlobo obusekwe kwiimvakalelo.

Ulwazi olusekwe kuLwazi lubhekisa kwizinto ezibonakalayo ezinje ukuba nini, njani, kwaye phi ukuchukumisa iqabane lakho, kunye nezinto ezinje ngengqondo, njengaxa, njani, kwaye utheni kwiqabane lakho. Inkqubo elungileyo yenza ukuba amadoda alinde kunye ne-ejaculation de kube ngumfazi uvuthondaba, okanye ade ayibambe ixesha elide, ngaloo ndlela ivumela ukungena okuqhubekayo kangangeeyure ezininzi.

Ubudlelwane obusekwe kwiimvakalelo buntsonkothe ​​ngakumbi kwaye kubandakanya ukusondelelana okunzulu, okunxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo zokuvana. Ukungabikho kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nesini esibi. Njengomfazi otshatileyo wathi: “Phezolo ndalala nomyeni wam kodwa akazange andichukumise-wangena nje kum. Ndandibuhlungu kakhulu, ngendandilila. ” Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesondo akubandakanyi nje ukungena; ikwabandakanya ukuziva okuhle, okusondeleyo phakathi kwamaqabane.

Ulwazi olusekwe kuLwazi lubhekisa kwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo okanye kwindlela yokuziphatha, esetyenzisiweyo kwaye engalungiswanga kuwo onke amaqabane, ngelixa ukusondelelana kubonisa umongo wothando-ubumbano olwahlukileyo phakathi kwezithandani. Inkqubo inokufundwa kwaye iphuculwe ngamava kunye nokufunda. Nangona kunjalo, ukusondelelana ayisiyonto yokufunda, kodwa yokuphuhliswa ngokusondela ngakumbi.

Kunzima ukuqhatha ubuchule-nokuba uyayazi okanye awuyazi-kodwa kulula ukuyifumana ngokwenza imithambo ephindaphindayo kunye nokufunda. Kulula ukukhohlisa ukusondelelana ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, kodwa kunzima ukubonakalisa ixesha elide. Abafazi abanolwazelelelo bachonga izimo-ngqondo zobuxoki ngokukhawuleza, nokuba ubuchule obugqwesileyo benza ukuba ubunzima bube kukuchongwa.

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"Eyona nto ndandiyithanda kakhulu yayikukuba isithandwa sam sathi:" Ungowam, nam ndingowakho ”. —Umfazi otshatileyo.

“Umntu endandimtshatile wanqanyulwa ngokweemvakalelo ngalo mzuzu efakwa ijacil. Isantya awandishiya ngaso ngokwasemoyeni nasenyameni sasingakholeleki. Uye wasuka ebhedini wayosela into kwaye akabuyelanga ebhedini. ” —Uqhawule umtshato

Ezi zinto zimbini zinoxanduva lomgangatho wesini aziphikisani: Umntu unokuba nobuchule obuhle kunye nokuseka ukusondelelana okungapheliyo. Nangona kunjalo, indlela elungileyo ihlala iphazamisa ukusekwa kobudlelwane obusenyongweni.

Zininzi izizathu zoku. Okokuqala, amadoda azibona njengeengcali zesini anika ubunzima ngakumbi kubuchwephesha babo ebhedini, ngaloo ndlela esomeleza umfanekiso wabo. Ngenxa yoko, banokukutyeshela ukusondelelana. Olunye ungquzulwano luvela xa ubuntu bakho buqala ukusebenza: abanye bayakonwabela ukudibana okwabelana ngesondo kwaye ngenxa yoko, abanaso isikhuthazo esifunekayo sokutyala imali ekuphuhliseni ukusondelelana (ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba ubuchule babo bufuneka kakhulu). Inokuba kunjalo ukuba aba bantu babe ziingcali kubuchwephesha bokwabelana ngesondo ngokuchanekileyo kuba boyika ukusondelelana, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo bafuna unxibelelwano lwexesha elifutshane.

Ubudlelwane obusondeleyo buqonda phakathi kwesini esithandanayo kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngomatshini ukuba kulungile kakhulu. Izifundo zibonakalisa ukuba ixesha lotyalo-mali ngaphambi, ngexesha, nasemva kokudibana ngesondo kukonyusa ukusondelelana kunye nokuthandana. Kukho ulungelelwaniso phakathi komgangatho wobudlelwane kunye nezinto zexeshana, njengexesha lokuthandana ngaphambi komtshato, ixesha elityaliweyo kwintlanganiso yezesondo, kunye nexesha lezinto ezisondeleyo emva kokudibana.

Ukutyala ixesha elininzi kuhlala kuchasene nenjongo kunye nokusebenza ngokukuko kwesini seengcali. Obu buchule buqinisekisa ukoneliseka kwangoko; ngokuchaseneyo, ukusondelelana kugqiba ukuba uyafuna ukubabona ngentsasa elandelayo.

Ukwabelana ngesondo kwethu kwakumangalisa, kodwa kukude kwendalo

Umfazi oqhawule umtshato, emva kokuthandana nendoda, ushwankathela amava akhe ngale ndlela:

Ubudlelwane obufunekayo ekufundeni

Ukukhangela uthando kwi-Intanethi ngexesha lokutshixeka